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writes:Okay so I don't know what to do, this guy I'm in love with(lets call him ed) is always texting me and he says he loves me too but I don't know because he had a girlfriend and cheated on her with me. and they broke up and he promised we would be together but it's been a Month and I'm still waiting. Also 10 days ago we hungout and kissed a lot. But he posted a survey on myspace saying the last person he kissed was 16 and I'm only 15. But his ex is 16. So I don't know what to do because we aren't dating so I can't accuse him of cheating but on the other hand he tells me he loves me and I'm the only one for him. I really don't know what to do. I would be heartbroken and crushed if I had to me him go. he's so amazing and all I want is to be happy with him. I'm so afraid of getting hurt. Even though I am hurt. Should I tell him how I feel? And how do I do it, what do I say?i really don't want to lose him. Please help me! Do you think he's justmplaying me? I really don't know what to do. Thankyou for any answers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. I'm scared to let go because last time I had to let go of someone I didn't even love, I was depressed and it made me physically sick and I was forced to go to therapy but nothing helped. Until I met him. :/
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Hun he is totally playing you.
he never planned on getting with you. he's a greedy guy thinking he can get all he wants without having the consequences which isn't true and he is just gutted he got found out. he is never planning on actually being with you he's just telling you that to keep you around so he can get what he wants when he feels like it and he knows you will because he knows you like him.
you're totally better off out of this i mean he's a cheater and whose to say he wouldn't cheat on you and do the same to some other girl?
you are worth more than that hun do the right thing and find someone who you know will make you TRULY happy :)
hope this helps x ilovebowsandcherries x
message me if you need anything.
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reader, AngellicaWaters +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Men will tell you they love you just because they want sex or to hook up. If you setting for a man who is not faithful to his girlfriend, he definitely won't be for you.
You could easily find someone who would want to be with just you. I know you love him and this feels very strong right now, but just imagine how amazing love could be with someone who wanted to be with you first and only you and who didn't cheat on his girlfriend to be with you.
Someone who could be faithful, honest and really love you with all of his heart. Someone who cheats only loves themselves, he only cares about what feels best to him and that is to have his girlfriend and to have anyone else who will take him too.
When you set your standards high and don't settle for cheaters or bad men, then that is what you will get. But if you are willing to accept men of a lesser quality, then those will be the ones you attract.
Think of yourself like a magnet and have standards that match the kind of guy you really want to attract, not the kind no one wants to attract.
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reader, eliz1958 +, writes (2 July 2009):
At your age all guys are just playing. Maybe I am old soul or something, but when I was a teenager I knew that guys were masses of raging hormones and I never let any of them play me for a fool. He might be amazing but not a one girl guy. What I never understood is why in our minds we want our guy to love only us and nobody else. Why don't we get all excited when we are one of the girls they like? Strange hu?
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (2 July 2009):
It sounds like he's just using you. He might say he loves you and wants to be with you but think about it, if he cheated on his ex girlfriend with you, then he's most likely gonna do the same thing to you and you'd end up getting hurt. If you wanna talk to him about it before leaving him completely then, try sitting down with him and talking serious and just tell him exactly how you feel and don't leave anything out. Come straight out with it and if he can't make up his mind about who he wants to be with, then I think you should just lose contact with him for a while and trust me, if you did that, you would get over him in no time, focus on other things and you'll meet someone who's way better than that. Trust me.
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