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Archived questions from: January, 2019 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My girlfriend wants money and has found another love!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2151 days ago

29 January 2019 (M) - Hello I am suffering in the depression my gf says that she no more relationship with me , because she found new guy but I rely want her and love so much , she want money but I cant give money ,what can I do , I think cant live without hersef . ...

I'm unhappy with the relationship want to end it but partner acts like nothing is wrong

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2153 days ago

27 January 2019 (F) - Hi guys. Im in deseperate need of advice because im literally at my wits end. My bf is 8 yrs younger than me. We have a 3 yr old together and i have a tennager daughter from a previous relationship. We had a whirlwind romance and i ended up pregnant ...

I want to give him one more chance and I also don’t!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

25 January 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and i habe been together for 2.5years.. In our time together ive caught him talking to/ getting pics from at least 10 different women. Hes not a terrible boyfriend.. He can be a jerk and a child at times but i do still love him.....

How long do we try for kids before moving on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2154 days ago

24 January 2019 (M) - I don't want any judgements, this has not been an easy desicion. There is a chance my long term partner can't have kids. I have always wanted kids. I don't want to do IVF treatment. How long should we try before moving on?...

My boyfriend won’t call after we have an argument!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

23 January 2019 (F) - We Dear Cupid: I have been in a relationship for two years. I am 42 and he is 50. He does not like to text nor be on the phone and we do not have hardly any communication during the day and we see mostly during the weekend as he only comes to my ho...

Am I asking too much to have a partner who prefers me or women my age over much younger women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

23 January 2019 (F) - I was in a marriage with a man who was pirn addicted for many years . I have now met another man who I thought was wonderful and believed was very attracted to me x I explained to him that my ex was more interested in women in their twenties despite ...

Should I let her go unless she takes the initiative?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

22 January 2019 (M) - I have been in a relationship for many years. We do not live together because we both agreed we would wait until each of our children are grown before we combine our households. There have been "ups and downs" over the years, but never anything ...

He deleted his dating profile. Did he meet someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2138 days ago

22 January 2019 (F) - Ive been on 4 dates with a guy I met since Oct. I blew him off a few times because I was worried having sex too soon would ruin things but i do really like him. I was tired of all my past relationship mistakes by sleeping too soon and never getting ...

He just revealed his new relationship! How do I get over feeling that I am not enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

21 January 2019 (F) - I met someone about a year ago, it’s been mainly casual and on and off due to different things, (his and my insecurities, me seeing someone in the time we weren’t in touch) anyway we got back in touch and it was going so well, I even for the first ...

I’m going to see my ex, is this a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

20 January 2019 (F) - My ex and I broke up a year ago due to him moving, and me being in uni still for the next year. Fast forward a year later, and we reconnected and are still in love with each other. I got a great job here in my city after I graduate in a few months ...

Ended relationship, but already having doubts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

20 January 2019 (M) - Last week I ended my relationship with my girlfriend of 6 years. I hadn’t felt the same about her for some time, and for the last few months didn’t try to conceal the fact. I felt that I was clinging more to the situation we found ourselves in rat...

Should a man break up with a woman over not getting enough sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

19 January 2019 (M) - Been in a relationship for two years, am 63, she is 58, I work one job she has one full time job an a part time job. I pretty much live with her, own my own house to.what's up is maybe sex once every two months, she always got an excuse.she just ...

Do people like this ever change or am I best out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2150 days ago

18 January 2019 (F) - Hiya I’m in a relationship for 5 years we have a 2 year old son and we live together I just need some advice on this we used to go to school together and met up years later through social media we moved in together and had our son but the past year ...

The other woman or mind games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2163 days ago

17 January 2019 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a woman for five years now. We have hit some rocky patches in our road together but always stayed together. There has been issues involving another woman, an ex of hers that she doesn't seem to want to let go of. ...

I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years because he wouldn't commit but now I'm feeling very down

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2164 days ago

17 January 2019 (F) - I’m feeling really lonely and fed up since splitting from my boyfriend 6 weeks ago. We were together for 8 years. Basically I split from him because I know he will never commit to me and I got tired of waiting. In the end I felt like i’d fallen ...

Girlfriend caught me texting another girl and broke up with me. I want her back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2168 days ago

13 January 2019 (M) - I recently got caught messaging another girl my by gf of one year. Me and my gf had planned to get married and have a future together so I don't know why I did what I did. After getting caught I explained everything that happened and she broke it ...

My abusive ex occupies too much space in my head and I can't move on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2169 days ago

11 January 2019 (F) - Hello. I ended an emotionally abusive relationship in October. He still occupies so much space in my head. I hate it. I don't know why I miss this immature person. He would mock me during arguments and smoke a lot of pot to numb himself. I know I ...

I can’t help longing for my beautiful ex, and it’s ruining my chances of starting a new relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2171 days ago

7 January 2019 (M) - Some time ago I got out of a long relationship (7 years, the only serious relationship I have had) after she moved away for grad school, and now I am trying to move on by going on some dates (but no second dates). My ex was beautiful. Maybe not a ...

Why did she cheat in this way?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

4 January 2019 (F) - Hi everyone! So I recently just got out of a yearlong distance relationship with another woman. I was half her age and was the older one in the relationship and she was also the “man” as well. She lives in another country and even has a fiancé of ...