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writes:Hello I am suffering in the depression my gf says that she no more relationship with me , because she found new guy but I rely want her and love so much , she want money but I cant give money ,what can I do , I think cant live without hersef . please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2019): You CAN live without her. She was not ready for a deeper romantic relationship so she said she has met someone else.
Its not about money.
Maybe she feels too young to have a special connection with anyone.
Did you want sex too early in her life?
Maybe she is only looking for friendship and not ready for love.
You will meet someone new soon when you understand that this girl is not looking for a sexual relationship with anyone yet.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (31 January 2019):
 Actually, you CAN live without her. I do, however, understand that feeling of loss you are suffering at the moment. You are mourning not only the loss of a relationship but also of all your hopes and plans for the future.
When you meet the right lady, the one who wants YOU regardless of how much or how little money you have, you will understand why this relationship didn't work out.
Stay strong. This is not the end. It is a new beginning.
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reader, N91 +, writes (31 January 2019):
 It’s over man, accept it.
Why would you be considering giving your hard earned money to a woman that’s not interested in you? Giving her money won’t win her back, you’ll then be upset and broke.
She’s a user, be glad to get rid of her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2019): You have to try to get-over her. She's materialistic, and didn't care as much for you as you did for her. If she left you for money, she didn't feel anything.
You're old enough to work and should have your own income. To help your parents, or to support yourself. You should budget your money wisely to pay your bills on-time; and still be able to take your lady out on dates. If she's a gold-digger, you're wasting your time; and out of your league. Nothing would be enough and you would be spending most of your relationship trying to buy her affection.
She's not entirely wrong to want you to be self-supporting, and to have a job. She may want gifts now and then; and to go out and have fun. She may not want to have to pay for the dates all herself. If you don't earn enough to suit her; then it was good she decided to go.
You've learned a valuable lesson. It's useless to love someone unless they love you back. They have to love you for you. If you don't have a job and can't afford to take your dates out, you might have to wait until you have your life together. You should concentrate on your education, or get an education; so you can earn more money. Money should not be why a girl wants to be with you; if it is, she's the wrong girl, and she will break your heart.
You'll have to deal with it like a man. It will hurt for awhile. You now can concentrate on getting a job, or a better job. Not for her, for yourself. Don't get in the habit of trying to impress women with what you have; because they don't want you, they'll want what you have.
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reader, Joeyh  +, writes (30 January 2019):
If all she wants is money from you then your better off without her as it seems money is more important than love for her.
Breakups are hard, stay strong and know you can do much better!
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