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Archived questions from: February, 2021 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why would a colleague send me this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

27 February 2021 (?) - I am a married man. A married female colleague of mine, whom I adore, has sent me a fresh pantyliner, what does she mean by that?...

Nothing is ever good enough for my overbearing family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1401 days ago

26 February 2021 (F) - I used to struggle with my weight when I was younger. I was made fun of by my siblings when we were teenagers living at home, and I was told the family at large was wondering why I had gained so much weight. I don't know what the exact reasons we...

My dad plans to leave my mom but doesn't want me to tell her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1399 days ago

26 February 2021 (F) - A week ago, my dad said he needed me to come and help him with going the supermarket and shopping. I thought nothing of it, was only trying to be a good daughter. But it later turned out he wanted me to meet his girlfriend, Rachael (not her rea...

Is my boyfriend's threeseom wish common?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1398 days ago

26 February 2021 (F) - Hey, my boyfriend told me that if I am the only girl he can sleep with in his lifetime he is the luckiest man on earth. But like a month ago I asked him if he - like my other male friends - would agree on having a threesome, he said: If you ...

I have let people walk all over me my entire life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1397 days ago

25 February 2021 (F) - Hi...sorry for this long post but I really need some advice. I have been feeling a great void in my heart. I find I let people walk all over me. And maybe it's because how I was grown. My parents tried to control every aspect of my life, be it my ...

Is there anything wrong with never coming out as gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1400 days ago

25 February 2021 (M) - I am a 36 years old man who is single. I have known since I was about 13 years old that I was gay. I have never been in a relationship with anyone (male or female) and I never came out of the closet. I always hear of people coming out of th...

I feel drained by partner with ADHD and abusive parents

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1400 days ago

25 February 2021 (F) - I feel very stuck in a strange situation. I have tried over and again to get out of it, but never managed it. I really apologise for the long post. I've spent 26 years on and off in a very strange relationship with this person who I now know h...

Whats wrong with being attracted to a married man?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1403 days ago

20 February 2021 (F) - Hi, I’m attracted to a married man. I think he likes me too. I think one can’t help or change ones attraction that just happens and sometimes they happen to be married. Divorce happens too and maybe he’s already thinking of that so why is it so ...

28 and still confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1406 days ago

18 February 2021 (M) - I'm 28 and still dont know what I am, so my question is when does the big relation happen where I'm like "nope I'm straight" or "bi" or "definitely gay" how long will I stay confused? A started having fantasies about men when i was young, alway...

Is this appropriate conversation between a father and daughter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

12 February 2021 (F) - do you think its appropriate for dad to tell his adult daughter in her twentys that he use to change her diapers and when he gets older she can change his ...

I'm unhappy with current job but am confused as to what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

10 February 2021 (F) - Im sadly in a job that i hate , like most people may hate their jobs , but im grateful for having a job and think of the positives in that it goes quick , there is always something to do and i never feel bored . I am a domestic worker in a care ...

I'm having a difficult time getting over the breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1418 days ago

9 February 2021 (F) - I'm going through a really tough breakup and I'm trying to figure out why. My ex of a year wasn't great to me. He frustrated me more often than not, he didn't go out of his way for me, couldn't communicate well and made me feel VERY insecure and ...

My cousin is obsessed with having the perfect baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 February 2021 (F) - I don't know what to think... I understand that my cousin is under a unimaginable amount of stress, but her egotism is getting the best of her. Long story short, we're in our mid forties. Since she couldn't find a guy, she decided to have a child ...

My ex treats me like a friend with benefits

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

8 February 2021 (F) - When you and your guy break up after years of being in a relationship. Why would the ex boyfriend say he wants to be friends, yet when HE wants sex then he’s all over me trying to get some and that’s ok to happen. But other times when he’s over my ...

Is it time to let these friendships go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1424 days ago

2 February 2021 (F) - Ok, so I'm reevaluating my life. I have a few friends that I've known since middle school. I left and went away for college and me and them stayed friends. My question: is it time to let the friendships go? One friend gave a guy that I liked, th...

I really like this girl, but I've already slept with her mum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1421 days ago

1 February 2021 (M) - HELP. I've recently started dating this girl virtually. Obviously we can't see each other in person because of the COVID rules but we'd been chatting on Tinder for ages and never got the chance to properly meet up so decided to have virtual dates on ...