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writes: I am a married man. A married female colleague of mine, whom I adore, has sent me a fresh pantyliner, what does she mean by that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2021): Go ask your wife!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2021): I very much doubt she sent it, unless there is something very wrong with her sense of humour. I think you should ignore it and tone down your feelings for her at work. I suspect others have picked up on it and sent you this as a prank to make a point. She would probably be mortified if she found out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2021): Hi
How do you know she sent you it?
It means you could be both stupid and at least one of you is been deceitful to their spouse. It means somebody has maybe set you up for a laugh. It means you have or will embark on an affair as you state you adore someone else. It could mean a number of things. It could be a prank. It's a waste of our time, that much I do know. That type of symbolism is not really erotic or kinky, it's childish.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (1 March 2021):
 I would doubt if this was even from your colleague, but rather someone else playing a prank on you.
If you know and adore this colleague so much go to her and ask her what this is all about. If you get a blank expression, followed with I have not got the foggiest idea what your talking about, then this will give you half a clue as to where it came from.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 March 2021):
 Well, what the actual F?!!
How did she send you this? Through the mail? To your home?
Are you sure it's from her?
And lastly, if she thinks this is appropriate or funny, maybe you need to dial down the "adore" part A LOT.
It does sound like a joke.
If you know 100% it was from her, I'd ask her what that was about and that you think it's inappropriate.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (1 March 2021):
 I think someone has noticed that you "adore" your colleague and is winding you up. I really doubt that she actually sent this. You might want to keep your adoration in check because you may be showing your feelings far more than you realize. I agree with youcannotbeserious what is your wife's take on it? Did you ask your wife why you would be sent a fresh pantyliner?
Also just to state, I approved this post but I have to wonder if its even for real. I'll state it before someone else comments.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2021): You can ask her indirectly to make sure it is not some sort of prank. such as:thank you for the lovely present.. if she had genuinely sent it then the message is obvious isn't it?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (1 March 2021):
 Whaaaaaaaaaaaat? Seriously?
Are you sure this has come from her and not that someone hasn't sent it as some sort of weird "joke"? As you say you "adore" her, perhaps this is a colleague's way of telling you they think you are a pussy?
How does your wife feel about you "adoring" this colleague?
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