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Archived questions from: September, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

What can I do about my local sport team?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1552 days ago

27 September 2020 (M) - I have joined my local sport team and the guys seem like a laugh, a good atmosphere. The problem I have is I get so little playing time. Some of the players are awful and the coaches have even said it when I've on the sidelines with them. Im...

I want to move out with boyfriend, but barely have savings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1554 days ago

25 September 2020 (F) - Hello, I'm saving up for an apartment with my boyfriend and maintaining my own well, but my boyfriend has been slacking. He's worked longer than I have and saved close to none. Part of it, is that he helps his mother pay for groceries and wh...

I'm Indian from a Hindu family but am considering converting to Christianity

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1554 days ago

23 September 2020 (F) - I'm considering converting to christianity. I'm from India and from a hindu family. My parents would never be ok with this. I strongly feel that the faith aligns with my values and personal beliefs. I am not religious in general but i don't find eno...

How do you make adult children be nice and respect you and most importantly take responsibility for themselves

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1554 days ago

23 September 2020 (F) - so basically i left a really bad violent marriage 15 years ago (the violence was only towards me) and i’ve been trying to make it up to my 2 daughters ever since, my girls are now aged 19 and 21 and ever since walking out the door from my ex ...

Should we think about moving in his sisters house? She's bossy and controlling

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1558 days ago

18 September 2020 (F) - Should we think about moving in his sisters house my husbands oldest sister husband passed March of this year she is now saying she wont s to move out her house. I cannot stand her she controlling bossy and sure a pain in our marriage she sto...

Why is my married boyfriend emotionally torturing me? He keeps leaving me and then coming back!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1563 days ago

13 September 2020 (F) - Why would the married man I've been involved with keep leaving me and coming back? He left me in July and came back. He just left me again. He said he loves me and that's why he has to let me go. Cause he can't stand seeing me suffer cause I want ...

I really can't decide on the advantages/disadvantages of returning to the U.S. or staying here

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1566 days ago

13 September 2020 (F) - I'm an American expat living in Italy with my Canadian fiance. I've lived in Italy since 2014, but am considering returning to live in the U.S. soon. For the past few weeks, he's been wanting to do this social media challenge which concerns h...

How did you finally make the jump to get married? I'm terrified at the thought of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1563 days ago

13 September 2020 (F) - Should I get married now or wait? My fiancé and I have been together for 5 years we’ve been granted since 6 months after we met. I waited all this time to get married because I felt though I said yes to marrying him I wanted more time to see how ...

I'm worried and feeling impatient that my falling out with my friend isn't getting sorted

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1565 days ago

12 September 2020 (F) - I feel silly writing this but here goes I fell out with a friend over something I did with best intentions but my friend didn't see it that way As they are busy working in had to WhatsApp an apology I was genuine as I felt awful and told th...

I’m having problems refusing invitations coming from people who either do not take the virus seriously or have their own biases on what is safe, usually justifying what suits them

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1564 days ago

11 September 2020 (F) - Hi uncles and aunts, I have recently come across a question on « how to say no » and read your great answers. Even though my question is similar, I would really need your help, because it is specific to this pandemic situation. I’m having pro...

Why does he say weird things in the middle of sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1563 days ago

10 September 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two months. Just recently we started to get intimate. Last night was the second time we’ve had sex and I’m not sure if i should talk to him or if it’s just sex talk. Before having sex my boyfriend told me ...

How can I avoid so much conflict in my relationship and be happier?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1559 days ago

7 September 2020 (F) - I have been with my(27) bf (29) for 6 years. Recently things have been quite intense because of lockdown and I feel like we keep falling into certain arguments. My bf is funny and can be sweet and we have a lot in common. However, he struggle...

How do I stop feeling the need to give a valid reason when refusing something?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1499 days ago

6 September 2020 (F) - How do I stop feeling the need to give a valid reason when refusing something? First of all I'd like to let you know that I never blame other people for trying to get their way. This is ALL on me. I had this problem for as long as I can remembe...

I feel lost in life and myself. I don't know what to do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1565 days ago

6 September 2020 (F) - I am truly lost in life and myself. i cry constantly and have anxiety and feel alone wherever i go. i just break down in tears in the street and at home everywhere i grew up with an abusive father who called me names and put me down and wouldnt...

What do I write to this troubled man in prison that is a friend of the family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

5 September 2020 (F) - Dear Cupids, My husband and I bought a house in a village 6 years ago. We go there a couple of times a year and hope to retire there. When we came there, we met a couple. We’re in our forties and they are 55 and 64. They have two grown chil...

How do I meet men of my choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1579 days ago

1 September 2020 (F) - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he's not straightforward forward to me and since then have been left alone. I haven't meet any man of my choice since then. What can I do about that please?...