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Archived questions from: December, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Why do I end up being the side chick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

29 December 2020 (F) - I am 26 years old and I know there is nothing wrong with me ,but for some reason men who are in a relationship always find there away to me . It’s not that I look desperate or something I am no longer doing online dating etc or looking for a ...

Where do I begin to find the children I gave up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1427 days ago

24 December 2020 (F) - My alcohol history started in my teens and I remember being interested in alcohol, cigarettes, bikers, punks, gay people. drugs, sex, masturbation as soon as I heard of them. I thought God, Jesus, Mary, all the saints and apostles and angels were ...

Why does My Mum’s boyfriend blatantly lie all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1430 days ago

23 December 2020 (F) - My Mum’s new boyfriend talks so much BS I can’t tell if he’s just joking around or being deadly serious about it. Anyone who is familiar with the Inbetweeners, he’s basically Jay but in his early fifties. He reckons he’s done so much in his life or ...

I think I outted myself for no reason and now unsure of what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

23 December 2020 (F) - Told my bf of 6 years and my sister that I am bisexual while drunk and now I feel ashamed and disgusted with myself. My sister's reaction was just is that it ? Because I said I have something to say. My bf reacted by saying I could sleep with women ...

What should I do when subordinates start crying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1440 days ago

13 December 2020 (M) - I am a manager of a team of about 15-20 people. Most of them are men. I have only been in this role for about 3 years so I am still getting acclimated. One of the things I struggle with is what to do when faced with the situation where my subor...

I cringe when my boyfriend touches me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1442 days ago

12 December 2020 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 7 years. I'd say 3 of those have been really happy. The last four years have been trying due to family problems on my side. It's been very stressful. I ended up having panic attacks and severe anxiety. I went to ...

How do I help my son out of his toxic relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1441 days ago

11 December 2020 (M) - I’m really not sure if anyone can help, but has anyone ever been in a toxic relationship and know what to do to get someone away from one for good? My son is currently in a joke of a relationship with his girlfriend and they just seem to be going ...

How do I keep my distance from this cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1441 days ago

11 December 2020 (M) - When I was 13 years old (I am a male), my second cousin, who is the same age as me, pressure me into having sex with her. Over the years, until I went away for college, we would have sex once every few months. I am embarrass that I lost my virgin...

Did this old friend ever even like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1440 days ago

10 December 2020 (F) - This is one of the harshest and most disappointing rejections I have ever experienced. Before reading, please keep in mind that I was not aware of what I found out later on and yes, I may have been too forward, I don’t know.. I have know this g...

How do I stop feeling jealous of this situation at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1446 days ago

9 December 2020 (F) - Hello all, So I’m currently working somewhere that I really like but my boss is someone I used to kind of date. Long story short, when I was 20 years old, I worked for a car dealership and he was the GM. I worked in another department so I ...

Should I forgive my abusive brother-in-law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1445 days ago

8 December 2020 (F) - My sister has been with her fiancé for 16 years. He helped my sister raise 3 of her children from another man. They then had a child together. Through the last few years, my sister has shared with me he has put his hands on her when he gets drunk. ...

Am I being a mug? I think she over-spends on gifts at Christmas!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1437 days ago

8 December 2020 (M) - Im not sure if I’m overreacting to the Xmas gifts. My gf and me don’t have much money yet she has spend her whole salary on Xmas gifts for family that do not care about her the rest of the year. I have not said anything. It’s her own money so she...

Should I choose a career path that is not acceptable by my society?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1443 days ago

8 December 2020 (F) - Hi all, I hope you can help me with a cultural question. Sorry if my English is not very good. I speak English at home but I grew up in a Southeast Asian country. In my country I am considered a banana. This means I am yellow on the outside...

I need to know how to stop comparing myself to others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1454 days ago

1 December 2020 (F) - What steps can one person make to stop comparing themselves to other people? I find can have total confidence when I’m on my own with my partner but as soon as we’re around other people I believe are better/more attractive than me I convince my...