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Archived questions from: September, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I be more confident in social situations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2245 days ago

30 September 2018 (F) - I have often the confidence to be quite witty and use my sense of humour to speak and talk when needed to although I am a shy and quite person . I have realised that I tend to be confident and talkative in situations were most people are probably ...

My heart is broken, I have a lot of resentment and I am seeking peace.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2249 days ago

29 September 2018 (F) - I have been married to my husband for almost 35 years, although we were separated for the first 20. While we were separated I did have a long relationship , but he didn’t. In the 15 or so years we’ve been reunited, we have had communication issues ...

How do you cope with the loss of a potential relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2248 days ago

28 September 2018 (F) - I was dating a guy for a few weeks until this weekend. I wasn’t overly keen for the first month or so, but finally something clicked on the weekend and I finally let my guard down and invested. We had sex and he stayed the night. A few days lat...

Advise needed please, about sex and time.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2249 days ago

27 September 2018 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I see eachother every 3 months. Recently, when we saw eachother, we had sex on the first night. He lasted about 30 seconds. The next morning we had sex again and he lasted a long time, maybe 5 ...

Dad needs some help in his relationship.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2248 days ago

26 September 2018 (M) - Hello, Please could someone help give me some good advice, I don't know what else to do.... I am currently in a 10 year relationship and we have 3 young children and the kids are our worlds and we do love each other, but I am deeply disappoin...

How do I learn to filter my comments?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2252 days ago

25 September 2018 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm a 26 year old guy. Started a new job few months back and am in a good place right now. I'm meeting a lot of people with whom I need to co-ordinate to get my job done on a daily basis. The problem is however that I get too friendly...

15 years later I am informed I might be father. How should I handle all of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2255 days ago

23 September 2018 (M) - When I was 18 years old, I had sex with a girl, Dianne, that hung out with my group of friends. She was extremely nice and cute. About two months later, she went away to college which was not a big surprise because a lot of us were going to ...

My fiance is a virgin but I've slept with 6 people and had an abortion. Do I need to tell him all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2259 days ago

19 September 2018 (F) - Hi, I am engaged to a wonderful guy from the last 5 months, we are going to get married this December 2018,I came to know by investigation and inspection and his views and thoughts and actions, that he is a virgin and he is against premarital sex ...

My wife wants to use a sperm donor to ensure that our third child isn't autistic but I’m not sure how I feel about this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2241 days ago

18 September 2018 (M) - My wife (34f) and I (36m) have been married for just over six years and in many ways have an ideal marriage and are very much still in love. Despite two kids, we still have sex 2 - 3 times per week. We still find time for getaways nearby beaches, ...

Is he fobbing me off, I thought we had a good thing going.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2258 days ago

18 September 2018 (F) - I started seeing a guy a month ago. He’s 12 months separated from his wife with two young children. Our relationship seemed really promising but then he went a bit cold. He says his ex wife is being really challenging. She calls him up out of the ...

I'm happy with the way things are, but she is talking marriage and babies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2258 days ago

18 September 2018 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 7 months now, due to my working hours and her studying at college, we only see each other 2-3 times a week. I am happy with the relationship the way it is because I like my space and time to myself, however she is ...

She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2257 days ago

17 September 2018 (M) - Hello This is not so much a dating question or anything, but I have used this website before for advice and found it helpful. A girl I have been on and off chatting to asked me if she could borrow £1000 to repair her damaged car. I agreed...

Do you think she doesn’t want to see me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2242 days ago

17 September 2018 (M) - do you think she doesnt wanna see me? so this all happend last year when i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food...

I’m pregnant by a boyfriend using me for a green card! Advice needed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2260 days ago

16 September 2018 (F) - Hi there I am pregnant 9 weeks I’ve been dating this honderan man for almost two years. My boyfriend has been distant because he wants to get married but it’s to get his green card. He loves me but i am catholic and I want a church ceremony I’m not ...

Why do I attract older women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2261 days ago

15 September 2018 (M) - A bit about myself. I consider myself somewhat of a dork. Not good at sports. Tall but not confident. Naturally skinny. I was never good at dating, girls liked to chat with me but I end up friend zoning them. I always thought this was due to my ...

How do I get over this anger toward my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2262 days ago

15 September 2018 (F) - It's been over 3 months since me and my ex broke up. Tonight a mutual friend said he has been really low for a few weeks and that could I talk to him. I had blocked him on everything and although I felt okay, I wasn't sure it was a good idea.......

My boyfriend's mother hates me and my boyfriend takes her side

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2261 days ago

14 September 2018 (F) - Recently I've been feeling distant from my boyfriend, he s not the person I fell.in love with. He critisces everything I do and makes me feel worthless, I've tried talking to him about how He s making me feel but he says he doesn't put me down that ...

My mother in law brings strange men into our home

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2262 days ago

13 September 2018 (F) - Hi guys, I've been having a bit of a problem at home. Basically my husband's father has recently died and that left his mother on her own. Because of this we agreed to move her into the spare room at our house - but it's a nightmare. She's 60 ...

Our tastes in porn seem to clash

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2262 days ago

13 September 2018 (F) - Hello. Thank to you for reading my post. When me and my boyfriend got together he mentioned porn use a few times casually. And from time to time he's admitted to using it for masturbating during our brief periods away from each other. I thou...

My brother finally introduced us to his fiance - she's my ex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2265 days ago

12 September 2018 (M) - My brother has recently introduced the family to his new fiancée - but there's a massive issue. Basically he lives away and none of us have met her before - we only knew her name. We were all excited to meet her - but when he introduced her to ...

I dumped my boyfriend for sponging off of me but now I feel guilty

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2265 days ago

11 September 2018 (F) - I’ve been dating this guy for 9 months now. Things started off great and though we have had a few issues I feel like they can be worked through. The latest issue though is surrounding money. He lost his job a few months ago and has been having a...

What is the next move for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2266 days ago

11 September 2018 (M) - I don't really know how to read this situation or move forward with it.. I went on a couple of dates last December with a girl i met online. They went really well, however I had to move away early in the new year for work. We loosely kept in touch...

How could he move on so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2267 days ago

11 September 2018 (F) - I ended my relationship with my ex back in February not because we no longer loved each other but because we both had different out looks on life. Realistically it wasn't going to work. I left our house and moved back home. My ex was distraught and ...

I want child number 5 but hubby says he is done!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2267 days ago

11 September 2018 (F) - I have 4 children with my husband, 2 have not been planned and 2 have. He’s been indicating ‘no more’ since our second. Our third child we were using condoms and he didn’t use a condom one time which resulted in the third child. Being the complete ...

I kissed my ex when on a break from my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2266 days ago

11 September 2018 (F) - I need help, me and my boyfriend always break up and this time I thought we broke up for good, but no. He came back like always. But while we broke up I kissed my ex. And I feel so bad about it but I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend told me he ...

Do I leave a new job after only 5 months? It seems to be a bad fit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2268 days ago

9 September 2018 (F) - I feel conflicted as I just took a new job in April and after only 5 months it seems to be a bad fit. The department is very cliquey and back-stabbish, I feel like I don't fit in, one of the people has been very rude to my face and plays it off as ...

Why do I get so turned off after sexual contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2266 days ago

9 September 2018 (M) - I am male and am 21 years old. I'm currently on the dating scene but whenever I'm with someone it seems to be that I am lusting them and after it gets any further I get an immense feeling to be with them sexually, then after any sexual contact is ...

Men never seem to notice me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2271 days ago

8 September 2018 (F) - I am 23 and never had a boyfriend or dated anyone before. Men never seem to notice me. They never approach me or hit on me. Whenever I try to hit on a guy, they just don't seem interested in me back. I have been to bars and men just ignore me or see ...

My 5 year daughter's friends show each other their private parts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2268 days ago

7 September 2018 (F) - I have a 5 year old daughter, and yesterday she came to me saying that boys and even girls show each other their private parts. They are all 5, and i was shocked about it. She told me that 3 boys and 1 girl were asking her if they can show my daugh...

How important is respect in a marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2270 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - How important is respect in a relationship? I am back in the dating scene after 2 years and this always seems to come up for me in terms of “respect” My father has been legally married to my mother for 33 years ( I’m in my early 30”s) an...

His family hired lazy useless employees and I need to know how to cope!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2269 days ago

5 September 2018 (F) - My partner and I have always had a wonderful relationship. We've been together a very long time. This year, he and his family opened a business. His parents made the decisions about the staff they're hiring and what they're paying, without ...

Am I stuck up for wanting basic things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2273 days ago

5 September 2018 (F) - I'm been with my bf for a year and half. He lives with his mum still and now built a cabin in his mums garden and says he plans to stay there. I am not happy about staying there with no bathroom, kitchen, space for my things but he says I am stuck ...

My husband cheated while we were separated

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

3 September 2018 (F) - Hi, I have been married for 14 years now and have a 11 year old son. I walked out of his home 7 years back when I couldnt get along with his parents and he wasnt ready to live separately with ME. He would come and see me and my son on weekends. But ...

She's had more sexual experience than I have. Will I regret it later?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2273 days ago

3 September 2018 (M) - I'm a 25 year old guy, my girlfriend is 33. We've been on/off for a year and have quite a strong bond (we broke up once, recently rekindled it, now its getting serious again. No other partners in the inbetween) I have a real problem with our...

Was I taken advantage of by my now ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2255 days ago

3 September 2018 (F) - Hello aunts I'm at a low phase in life right now. In academics, career and health. I'm doing everything possible to set those things right. I feel people take advantage of my niceness. I used to be naive and vulnerable before and never stand up f...

Stay or look for other opportunities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2275 days ago

2 September 2018 (F) - Hey guys, I'm wanting a bit of advice in terms of life direction at the minute please! I'm 25, recently broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, moved to the city and continued my job which i've been at 8 months now. I am very happy with how m...

I lied about my age. Can I salvage this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2251 days ago

1 September 2018 (M) - Hello, Im new to the Dear Cupid community. I never thought I would resort to a site like this but I really want to save my relationship or get advice whether or not my relationship is worth saving. I know this entry will be a lengthy one.. so...

Follow up to an earlier question about some decisions I have to make

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2257 days ago

1 September 2018 (M) - This is technically a build on my initial concerns that I raised a question about in January. I am fortunate and pleased to say that an excellent career opportunity presented itself, moving back in to my desired career field and I have regained a ...

Brother got support, I got torn down?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

1 September 2018 (F) - When growing my dad was hard on both of us. When my brother got lectures, it was more of "I know you can do better". My lectures consisted of getting completely torn down, getting told I'd be obese (5'5, 135 pounds, no weight issues ever), that I ...