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Big Questions: Help and advice

Can physical attraction develop over the years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - How do you become sexually attracted to the guy you want to marry? We have been together for 4 years, and things are perfect, yet i am not physically attracted to him, and sex feels wrong. I want to fix this, and feel it is all in my head. What ...

Should I do myself up even more to be good enough for him? And change my personality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - so my boyfriend broke up with me a couple days ago.. and i'm still not over it. we went out for about a week but i really liked him. usually it wouldn't bother me like this but i guess i really do like him. i guess i wasn't good enough for him. he's ...

How do I turn a hook-up into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - So I've been hooking up with a friend of mine for the past few weeks. We have a fantastic chemistry and I love spending time with him (and yes we spend time together beyond hooking up). He recently got out of a relationship (although not a very ...

How can I convince him that my boobs are an ok size?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

2 October 2008 (?) - My boyfriend always seemed to like my body. But he was very critical yesterday. There are things I can change, but there's one that I can't: my breasts. Full B's. But he says he'd prefer they were bigger. He says I look good anyway, but if they were ...

Where do I get advice about my 16 year-old having a stash of viagra in his wardrobe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - One day whilst I was off work this week, I decided to clean the house, since we have guests coming round. As I was cleaning my son's room, I found a large amount of Viagra tablets stashed in a wardrobe of his - all the tablets were unconsumed....

How do I tell him my real age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married 4 years. When we met 5 years age I told him I was 31 when I was really 35. I'm turning 40 soon and must tell him. How, I'm scared?...

How do we find out what our secret fantasies are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - My wife and I are both interested in exploring all of our sexual fantasies, we are both very kinky and uninhibited and want to go further. Is there any way for us to share our deepest darkest fantasies without the other knowing if we don't share the ...

Please, how can I woo her back into my life - show her that I am a great guy for her and that I love her.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months. We completely fell in love the first time we met, it was like magic. She was 23 at the time and i was 18. For the first few months there was a lot of sex and passion and everything was great. it ...

He's the one I want, and it would really help me if you told me what you thought.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I was with this lad for about 2 months (june + july). i've never liked anyone this much before, honestly in a way he changed my life. everytime i get a tex on my fone i always hope its off him but it never is. i got a one tex off him the other day ...

He has lied to me in the past but never cheated. We're trying to work on it but I found out that he lied again about a really small thing. I have no self-esteem, I am paranoid, and miserable. But I love him. Please help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - We've been together for 4.5 years, since we were both 17. I love him so much and can't imagine my life without him. He is my soulmate and my best friend. We are sexually, spiritually, politically, romantically, and intellectually compatib...

What can I do to show him how serious I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy for the past 6 months. Things started off really well and we met and chatted frequently. Over the past few months however things have begun to change. He still loves me very much, but seems to be stru...

Will he forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, i love him more than anything in the world! Lately, our arguments got worse, and it was mainly because of me,i get mad about literally everything to the point that i disrespected him, he told me we ...

How do I get over my abusive ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do. I need serious help. I broke up with my fiance a year ago, and I have been in a new relationship for 6 months. I broke up with my fiance because he was abusive on many levels, and plain disrespectful. He would constantly get ...

Why do girls give oral sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - do girls give guys bj's because they want to or do they just do it to make the guys feel good in a relationship...

Whats with him? I am unable to understand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - The other day something strange happened to my boyfriend. I dunt know why but he suddenly kept comparing me with another girl we both know. He compared my ways of talking, my abilities and even a the way I care for him. I dotn know what had happened ...

Should I risk our friendship by telling her how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - Ok I need some major help here: I love my best friend, she is the most beautiful, interesting, amazing woman, and I have known her for about 4 years and 9 months, and been in love with her for about 4 years and 8 months, she is 23, I am 24. I can ...

I'm so confused - did he ever really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - Im 19 years old and feb this year i met this guy in one of my university classes. hes 19 as well. The first day of class I was sitting by myself and he was too. He came up to me and asked me if i wanted to work on a project with him. I said yes....