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writes: I was with this lad for about 2 months (june + july). i've never liked anyone this much before, honestly in a way he changed my life. everytime i get a tex on my fone i always hope its off him but it never is. i got a one tex off him the other day but it was to the wrong person and i was so nervus/excited my hand was shakin, and i got butterflys in my belly, but i had the biggest smile on my face, he's all i ever think about, i miss him so much that everytime i see him i just want to wrap my arms around him and never let him go. A few weeks ago he told me exactly how he felt, he asked me to get back with him and i was stupid enough to say i dont no althought i liked him so much, anyway by sayin i dont no i lost my chance with him.its been 9 weeks and i still feel the exact same for him if anythin i like him even more. i told him how i felt last night and lets say he didnt exactly say he liked me back. I think he likes somebody els even tho his friend said he didnt. Tomorrow me and my mates are goin out and he is goin to be there with his mates. i really want to go because i havnt been out with all my mates at the same time in ages. but if i did go it might be dead awkward because it will be my group and his group all together. should i stay at home or should i go ?Please dont say anythin about theres plenty more out there, I've heard it too many times. he's the one i want.it would really help me if you told me what you thought Thanks in advance :) Xx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, This_face +, writes (24 October 2008):
It sounds like you got really nervous or maybe there is some reason you were not fully sure about getting back together with him. I don't see any harm in going out with the friends and he for the night. I wouldn't get my hopes too high, but there isn't much harm. I wouldn't blame him for moving on to another person if you said no. He might have wanted to get rid of the rejection or he might have felt that you too had moved on. Go out and have fun if that is what you want. You'll never know if you don't try.
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