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writes:I'm feeling a bit indifferent about my boyfriend getting his new tattoo. He wants a tattoo with a bike and then some lady on it. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years, not planning to seperate, anytime soon at least. I would like the lady to resemble me a little bit so it's not just some "hot" "sexy" lady he has on his calf. Is this wrong of me? I know it's his body, but I have to see it too. I just keep thinking how he would act if I decided to get some "hot" "sexy" man put on me somewhere, you know? Is this thinking stupid? Or should I say something to him? I know it's not the biggest deal, but I just feel a little uneasy about him getting just some lady put on him. Please let me know what you guys think. The tattoo will be coming within the next couple months.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Hi
I wouldn't see it as a big deal no. Few yrs ago, i had a lovely calendar with girls in bikinis on bikes. Im female and far from lesbian! The female physique is very attractive thats all, i like bikes andv i liked the pictures. I wouldn't read anything into it personally, but thats just me. I also hae a couple of pictures of Randy Orton the wrestler in jus his shorts, in my living room, no one ive dated has batted an eyelid tbh. (apart from the last ex wondering if he was my husband who might of been working away, the first time he came round) haha
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reader, bambro  +, writes (31 July 2008):
Hello: I am a guy with no tattoos, but my wife has a rose on her right shoulder. I think its sexy but it reminds me of betty boop. If it makes you fell uncomfortable then tell him and he should respect your concerns. At the same time you should discuss it and come to some sort of compromise if not then that could show you that either you are to controlling or he is not willing to compromise to make both of you happy. Welcome to the world of relationships they drive me nuts. Just remember to communicate and don't try to dominate each other. I hope this helps. Good Luck
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Hey
I have tattoos and my BF does as well. I honestly have to say, I would never want him to get my name on face on his body .. and I wouldnt do it to myself either. You nver know whats going to happen with your relationship and htan you guys have each other tattooed on some part of your body and you have to look at it for rest of your life? NO WAY ... its better he wants just some scatch of some absolutely non realistic woman on his body .. he doesnt know her, she most probably doesnt even exist and if she does, who knows where she is ... so it doesnt matter. Dont worry about it and let him do his thing ... it doenst mean anything ...
Maybe you guys could change her a lil .. maybe shehas long hair and youhave shorter and darker .. ask him i he can do that .. that maight make you feel better aboutit, cause she would have alil part of you too ...
But I honestly wouldnt worry aboutit at all ! Its not like he is getting a "Jenifer" tattoo while your name is "Therese" .. you know what I mean :)
Good luck girl
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