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Archived questions from: 30 May, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It was just a one night stand for him but it meant more than that to me and I'm depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33, single. I went to a monastery to inaugurate an event (work related...I'm a diplomat). There I met a young monk (he's 42, he's supposed to be celibate) and we got on rather well together. He sort of followed me around, which was flattering, and we debated religion and ... (501 words)

Drunken fumble, was what the guy did normal making out or was it more than that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I was at a party recently and we both were pretty drunk and horny, and started making out and it turned into a very intense one. He started moving my hands all around her body including my breasts and my butt, and cupped my breasts and butt lightly. It was all over the shirt ... (173 words)

Did he mean anything by this or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and this boy have known each other for a while, although until recently we've gone a few months without talking just because we haven't seen each other. The other night we were at a mutual friend's party and we started talking, and the next day he sent me a picture of us th... (166 words)

Should I talk to my co worker about our fling, or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, need some work/relationship advice!! So I recently started working at my job a little over a month ago. One thing I love about this place is there are a lot of people my age and we're all motivated to work, but can still have a good time. Well there I've neve... (632 words)

Did he just want to have fun with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My name is Aliyah and am 30 years old,separated and from Mauritius. I would like to have an advice please. I have know a guy on an online dating site since last December,he is actually working for an international company in South Africa but his home town is Mauritius j... (1686 words)

I made some inquiries about a co-worker, she must have found out and now avoids me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

30 May 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - hi all, i know this lady since 3 years ago, we are working in the same place not the same department. we will bump into each other a few times in a week and sometimes will start a conversation. Most of the times she will be the one initiating the conversation and Our conversa... (338 words)

I can't stop stalking my ex on social media and I can't get over the way that he dumped me mercilessly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't get over my ex and stalking him on social media; this is pathetic and I don't talk about it beside my therapists that doesn't approve my actions but here it is and I am hoping that someone might have some advice - my relationship with my ex was very brief -but I really ... (373 words)

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

30 May 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often than I should just to see her ... (818 words)

My mother says it will ruin my reputation if I am with this guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this black have been talking and i told my mama about it and she doesn't approve. she mad me feel horrible about the whole situation and I told him that we were gonna have to be friends. I dont know what to do because i dont see what the big deal is. She says I will ruin ... (152 words)

He's unbalanced and often will not take his meds. I'm scared of making another mistake but I know I have to leave him. How can my children and I leave him safely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I've decided to leave but I am scared. I've been married twice before. The first 14 years and two children and he cheated. The second was a rebound one child but he was abusive. I had 5 years on my own with my three children and we were happy. I met someone who had bee... (862 words)

I want to tell his wife that I was his mistress

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 44 years old divorced woman. 15 years ago when I was 29, I dated this one guy who was an American soldier. I wasn’t very much attracted to him at first, so it took a lot of effort for him to get me into a relationship. We never said ‘I love you’ to each other, but I ... (500 words)

I am not getting enough quality time with my boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

30 May 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - For those of you in a long-term relationship, how much time do you spend with your significant other? Lately I've been feeling frustrated with the amount of time my boyfriend and I spend together. We've been dating for five years and don't live together yet, but he sleeps ov... (329 words)