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Archived questions from: 10 May, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm fixated on having a boyfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 15, i have had boyfriends but not proper relationships. I am desperate for a boyfriend. It is on my mind all the time. I don't know any lads my age who would want to date me. I fall in love too easily and always think about boys I don't know how to stop myself. My mum says ... (120 words)

How can I sort out this mess?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - The worst thing happened to me today, I planned to go on a date with my girl, and she brought some of her friends too, and i was with my friend too, so during the date, she was constantly trying to put up a fight with me, like insulting my character and asking me questions like ... (251 words)

A long term friend dated my brother, treated him poorly, and now she wants to reconcile with me, without explaining. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this is so long! My best friend from grade school went overseas for college and upon returning started a relationship with my brother. I was living in a different state by now and she initially wanted him to keep the relationship a secret from me. Our families had ... (1388 words)

What can I do? My Gf of 5 years says she wants to have sex with another guy.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

10 May 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. Recently I started noticing a big change in our sex life like she was losing interest. After a few months and started asking her what changed and all she would say was I don't know. After it eventually turning into an argu... (231 words)

I'm upset my girlfriends parents haven't integrated

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

10 May 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend have been dating for three and a half years and renting a flat together for a year. We have a good relationship, are very much in love and plan our future together. There is, however, one issue that drives me insane. Her parents don't speak English.... (135 words)

Is it wrong that I get more sexual satisfaction from masterbating and my sexual fantasies, and less satisfaction when having sex with a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

10 May 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey. I have been masturbating since I was younger. A lot. I'm 43 years old now, cannot settle down, never found a man who really satisfies me (maybe 1 or 2) because they always get off for themselves and can't really be bothered with me or my sexuality. I watch porn because ... (223 words)

How should I approach this situation? I think he is messaging other women.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently I have had suspicions that my partner is messaging other women and watching porn. What makes me think this? On a few occasions I have heard orgasms, which made me feel uncomfortable, as I don't like the thought of my partner getting off over other girls. Our sex l... (459 words)

She behaves so sweetly in public. But she cheated on me. What can I do to forget a crafty girlfriend, who I trusted and love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - My LDR girlfriend cheated on me. I found out and I told her about her cheating. She cried, she denied her cheating. I said to her that I would not sponsor her into U.S as the fiancee. She replied to me that she did not want to go to U.S. After that, She kept posting p... (449 words)

Why would my ex male friend partially ghost me instead of going to complete NO Contact? How do I end this madness?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

10 May 2017 (F)

age - First he tried to ease me into a FWB, after agreeing to friendship. We spoke, text and video chatted practically everyday. We did have sex twice. He wanted to continue to have sex as an FWB. I informed him recently that I was not FWB material. I stated I would not be part of h... (206 words)

I'm torn between boyfriend and a new guy. Do I stay with my Bf or go with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a huge age gap 11years??. We met at work and fell hard for each other. We've obviously had our ups and downs but grew stronger throughout the year. My boyfriend has two kids and is not ... (294 words)

How do I converse with my crush? I'm shy. Should I try, or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - So i have a crush on this boy at my school, he's in the same year as i am, but I've never talked to him, not like a real conversation. I'm very shy, and also his friends are like not the same group of people as my friends. I'm afraid that if i talk to him he'll tell his fri... (101 words)