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Archived questions from: 10 December, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am lonely and get depressed and can't seem to make friends. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone in dearcupid. I have a situation I would like some advice. I am due to be married soon me and my fiance have been together 5 years and we have been living together only for 2 years I love my husband so much I call him my husband already even though we're not ... (924 words)

How do I control something that is so compulsive in my nature?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

10 December 2017 (M) age 30-35 - I dunno if this is the right place to ask this question but here goes... I'm a motorcyclist and I'm impulsive and crave the thrill of speed.I had another accident today... This must be my fifth and it looks like I have completely torn my rotator cuff tendon this time.. I'm ... (158 words)

Do I tell my girlfriend about an unwanted kiss?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

10 December 2017 (M) age 30-35 - Hi I am a male aged 25 , I have been with my gf for almost 2 years , I am studying abroad so we are in a LDR for like a year , yesterday I went out and I was with my friend there and he talked to a girl and I was his wingman and started talking with the friend of hers so that ... (216 words)

I was cheated on and now feel like every man will cheat on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, one year ago I ended a 3 year relationship with a guy who I figured was cheating on me. I was devastated and I think it has affected me a lot in all my relationships with people. I doubt everything anyone says to me. I recently met a guy he seems very sweet, but I ... (99 words)

This is the second abusive relationship I've been in. Am I picking the wrong type of men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my boyfriend punched me in the mouth. I've left him. He asked me not to leave. But I said I have to be alone right now. It came about after an argument over a male friend of mine. My boyfriend said that my face lit up when my friend arrived at the pub and thought ... (444 words)

On and off relationship with FWB has me confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - So I been seeing this guy off and on since 2011, we hooked up, gone out slept over each other houses and all. We got into a huge fight stopped talking and recently start talking again. But this time he's more distant when I text him so doesn't reply I told him how I felt and he ... (80 words)

First time sex was this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2558 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I had sex for the first time and I noticed it wasn't that comfortable. As it was my first, I assumed it was just a matter of getting used to it. However at one point, it really hurt and was uncomfortable around my bum which I wasn't sure about. Like is that normal ? ... (60 words)

Just lost a parent and he’s gone away. Should I break up with him for this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Just looking for some advice at what is already a confusing and low time. I’ve just lost a very close family member, a parent and I feel like my partner hasn’t been as supportive as he could. I’m not taking it well at all. We were very close. This was very recently, j... (797 words)

What are the odds of this girl getting pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

10 December 2017 (M)

- Hello. I went out on a date with a young 26 year old lady that I met online, and things went pretty well. Anyways afterwards she invited me to her room and well we started making out and one thing lead to another and we ended up undressing and continued to make out and which ... (233 words)

How can I slow a guy down when he's getting physical too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I went on a date with. On the first date, he kissed me, and I wasn't expecting him to use tongue, but he did. I usually don't kiss guys on the first date, but I kind of wanted to kiss him. Later on in the date, he managed to get my finger in his mouth and st... (234 words)

Troubled relationship don't know how to deal with my mother in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone help me to identify what personality trait my mother in law has? She is not a very motherly figure. She has 2 daughter and 1 son who is my husband. She look up on the first daughter as she has luxury lifestyle,but behind that she often lend money from my in law f... (651 words)

I want to help my niece but I'm not sure how to do so

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have a niece that just turned 18 and I just turned 25, my sister had her early and our parents had me when they were a little older. So, my niece has always been very shy and quite. But she started to break out of her shell when she was in middle school and she was ... (342 words)

She's left me twice does she deserve my respect? Or do I just be her friend like nothing ever happened?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello ladies, got a question for you, I was seeing this woman, she left me for another guy, OK, five years later we started to see each other again, she did it again, with a friend in a band, now he dumped her and she is trying to talk to me, am I doing the right thing , I ... (98 words)

I still don't know if he's prepared to be in the sort of relationship I want to be in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

10 December 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend of 2 years have spent the last 4/5 months very much on off. We initially broke up 4 months ago because we started back at uni and he was spending none of his time with me, with all his free time dedicated to going out with his friends, and only seeing me when it ... (396 words)

I'm paranoid about getting someone pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

10 December 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm paranoid about getting someone pregnant. I'm currently 31 and have had 1 or 2 sexual partners every year since my mid twenties. Every time I do have sex I use the condom properly, and most of the women I've been with are also on the pill or some other form of birth... (228 words)