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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I let go of these obsessive thoughts about his past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

4 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I have met my boyfriend last year and Im so happy with him. The only thing that bothers me is that I keep digging up the past - one day I woke up and wondered, did he really was with me and only me from day one of us knowing each other? This started consuming me and my time of ... (383 words)

Was my childhood strange?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) age 30-35 - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I would really appreciate your help since I need some perspective on the relationship I had with my mom. I know she loved me and did the best she could, but I sometimes felt abandoned by her. She decided to have a child when she was 39. She was... (496 words)

I lost a good friend and now feel guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

4 December 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear All I just need some advice. About 4 months ago I met a girl online as a language exchange partner. Purely platonic. We talked a lot and became really good friends. As we grew closer she said many things that made it clear she was not looking for a relationship, and ... (783 words)

I refused to trade nudes for friendship. Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

4 December 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - A few months ago, a group of boys at my school saw me sitting alone, and asked if I wanted to join them. I never dared to approach them before, because I like one of them. They became my friend circle. I felt happy, hanging out with them, and being close to my crush- he eve... (1138 words)

My ex isn't apologetic about his behavior and its starting to turn me off

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

4 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke things off with him because he kept gaslighting me. Anytime I wanted to talk to him about something he’d call me a drama queen, sensitive, emotional. I got so drained trying to salvage things. The last straw was when he told me to shut up as i told him to stop calling ... (521 words)

I have feelings for my drug addicted friend's girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

4 December 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! I'll try be brief. So I have a friend who is going psychotic due to his drug use that he denies to a psychotic extent. He twists reality and makes everyone his enemy if they try to confront him (I have tried a few times and he angrily lectures me). I went to a ... (363 words)

How do I tell my wife to work on her weight problem and not just moan about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

4 December 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I encourage my Mrs to lose weight. We have been married 6 yrs, she was gorgeous slim when we met. Over the years I have told her she is getting big and she should try and maintain shape before it gets out of control. Her response is that she is not big. It’s not end o... (341 words)

I am devastated to think maybe our marriage doesn't have a future

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

4 December 2017 (F)

- Hi everyone, not been on here for absolutely ages and had a rough few years. So my question is the following! Sorry it’s a bit drawn out. Ok so I met my husband 22 years ago at work, he was married to the daughters boss, but not happily. Anyway I was in a very abusive relation... (313 words)

He doesn't turn me on but I don't want to hurt him by dumping him harshly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

4 December 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my closest male friend asked me out 3 years back. He swept me off my feet with his romantic gestures and when he asked me to be his girlfriend i said yes to him.Some 6 months into the relationship I realised that I am do not have any passion for him. I have a lot of ... (264 words)

My ex's actions make me feel like I was never worth fighting for

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

4 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, So this is an ongoing problem with my ex bf that has left me feeling confused, angry, resentful, but mostly hurt, and I need advice on how to deal with the situation. So earlier this year, I posted on this website about whether or not I was justified in breaking ... (1197 words)