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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Going cold on wedding plans

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

19 December 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm engaged to be married next August, and although I do not have any doubts over whether it's what I want, or my fiancée feelings either, I'm just not excited about any part of it. Recently we have been seeing friends and family due to Christmas parties etc and they all kee... (385 words)

I don't think I can ever trust again...Even my family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

19 December 2017 (M)

age 22-25 - Generally, I am not open at all. Not shy either. Just prefer to keep things private and off limits. This has happened because I've lost trust so many times that I built up this barrier, and I know it's unhealthy. But that's happened because of fbibgs I don't want to talk about. ... (376 words)

Could health issues develop that I might need to deal with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

19 December 2017 (F)

age - I've met a chap recently on an online dating site, nothing serious or has developed, although I am pondering if I should encourage things further to get to know him. He told me he is overweight at the moment and wanting to have a Gastric Bypass surgery very soon. Good on him if ... (121 words)

I'm crushing on my ex's brother, his partner is my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

19 December 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I no this might sound really bad. But I am so confused right now!! I split with my ex over 3 years ago we have a child together. I have stayed close with his brother and with The brothers current partner. Me and the brother have always been flirty that’s just the way it’s ... (180 words)

Husband is cheating, wants me to leave the marital home.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

19 December 2017 (F)

age - Hi, I hope you can give me some advice. My husband of 19 years asked for a divorce in April this year, straight after I finished treatment for breast cancer. There has been no intimacy for 2 years now. He has refused to leave the family home as he is adamant that he ... (357 words)

An older man wants me to move in as a live in lover.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

19 December 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im kinda thinking about maybe accepting this proposal to be this guys full time sort of live in lover.He was the one who suggested it would make him a kinda suger daddy. He seems very nice (we have met on 3 occasions now and althogh i managed to be sick in his car on th... (212 words)

Still mising him two years on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

19 December 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - What is making me cling to memories of my ex? He dumped me two years ago. He abruptly ended the relationship (after months of dating he broke up over text) basically I didn’t fit his schedule and needs anymore and he disregarded me. Obviously he isn’t Prince Charming but I ge... (278 words)

How do I get started with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

19 December 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Little background: I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. Total geek, overweight, and not handsome/physically attractive in anyway. Basically no redeeming qualities for the opposite sex. I've long thought about just seeing a prostitute/escor... (263 words)

Did this Married Man forget his former mistress already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

19 December 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a Married Man (MM) for a year and a half. We both worked at my dad’s office. He got caught by his wife 3 times but never left me. The 3rd time he got caught things got pretty bad. He started going to counseling and distanced himself from me. Eventually things got worse ... (165 words)

1st date, he touched my butt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

19 December 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - So i was texting my coworker for almost 2 months and sometimes we were flirting and sometimes we were talking about work or trying to get to know each other. He has no girls, he does not drink like me, and he does not go out so often.Finally 2 months later he asked me out. We ... (227 words)