I had an abortion and I'm depressed over it. My bf doesn't seem to care.
Q. I'm 18 and I had a medical abortion. My bf doesnt seem to care that we killed the baby but i am depressed about it, what should i do to get back to normal?And how should i get some emotion / thoughts out of my bf about the pregnancy. ...
A. 7 January 2006: He probably doesn't care to be honest. it's a simple procedure to remove some tissue that's not a baby yet.
he's not ready to have a child, what did you want him to do? have the child and hate you for forcing it on him in years to come? he's not... (read in full...)
During sex my boyfriend admitted to sex with another girl. He says "it's just sex", so it shouldn't bother me!
Q. My bf lives abroad and we only see each other every few weeks. I have just spent a wonderful Xmas with him and during sex he told me that he had sex with his former gf a few weeks previously. He says that he loves me but also that he sees no reason ...
A. 7 January 2006: You know he's an asshole, why are you asking this?
dump him find someone who cares about you.
he stuck his D**k in someone else. there's no excuse.... (read in full...)
How long to fall in love?
Q. how long does it take to fall in love?...
A. 7 January 2006: about .5 seconds it's a chemical reaction in the brain sometimes it keeps going.... (read in full...)
I have to move interstate, and I worry that I might find someone else besides my boyfriend!
Q. OK, I need help. Here it goes... I've been dating this guy for about 8 months now and I really do care for him. I'm moving to a different state and I still want to be with him, but a few months ago my boyfriend went away for a month and I s...
A. 7 January 2006: if you were a guy i'd say keep it in your pants...
what you need more than that? ok dump your BF you obviously don't care about him enough to be faithfull and cheating is worse than dumping... (read in full...)
I have a gay crush on my younger 19 year old co-woker
Q. I am 23 year old male and in a position of authority at work. I have never been in a relationship and have very little experience. Recently I have developed a huge crush on a younger 19 year old male colleague. He is straight. Is it wrong to declare ...
A. 7 January 2006: Don't tell him. people say not to keep things bottled up but to be honest.. it's a huge pile of BS, by telling him you like him you'll just make things uncomfortable at work.
What do you think will happen? you think he's going to suddenly jump up ... (read in full...)
Everybody wants my friend and her ex back together!
Q. Hey guys, I need some advice for my friend. You see she was seeing this guy for about a year. She was in love with this guy, but a few weeks ago one of her friends told her boyfriend she wanted to break up {she really didn't} but he be...
A. 7 January 2006: he was a bit too quick to walk away, maybe you should think about that before trying to get your friend involved again.
My girlfriend is more important to me than anything else because I love her so much, if one of her friends told me she wanted t... (read in full...)
My daughter got caught taking pics of girls in the school changeroom! What is the best to deal with this?
Q. Recently I got a phone call off my 14-year-old-daughter's school complaining that my daughter had been taking photos of girls getting dressed in the changing rooms. The teacher told me her camera phone has been confiscated. What are the best thin...
A. 7 January 2006: Thankfully her 17-year-old brother hasn't got into any trouble... what? what the hell has that got to do with anything? he was involved in some way? or maybe you're the kind of parent that pits children against one another.
as it is there's ... (read in full...)
My husband told me he doesn't love me and is considering an affair. What should I do?
Q. My husband told me he doesn't love as much as he used to and that he considered having an affair with someone that he works with. He now refuses to even talk about the problem and only says that he would like it fixed....
A. 7 January 2006: Ok... tell him to do it. you'll file for divorce and get a good settlement.
don't tell me you want a way to stay with this guy? why would you degrade yourself like that? he's scum. nothing more to say about it. you're better off without him.
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How can I come to terms with the fact that I am 'not' my husband's type?
Q. How do I come to accept that I am not my husbands 'type' and that he married me mostly for personality and connection. Although I know he loves me Im having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that the type of women he finds attractive are ...
A. 7 January 2006: You can't... maybe you should think about why he chose someone who isn't his type.
he loves you and chose you for what's inside. how many women with large breasts complain about men never talking to their faces? He wants YOU.. the actual you, on ... (read in full...)
Is she on the rebound...does she care anymore for me??
Q. Sorry for writting maybe to much but i have a lot to say: MAIN QUESTION IS AT THE BOTTOM I met this girl when I was 13 yrs. old and she was 9. We met when our brothers were hospitalized and were having cancer treatment. We both were from the same...
A. 7 January 2006: Dude she doesn't love you. women can be cruel it's happened to us all.
She can't be trusted either even if you did get back with her... how long till she looks somewhere else?
maybe you just seem to clingy and desperate mate... try going out wi... (read in full...)
My ex teacher, also my ex lover, keeps trying to contact me! Temptation is constant...
Q. A question for 'Irish' ... I really respect your advice and answers to a lot of questions and would appreciate your opinion on this issue if possible? I am in counselling at the moment after a year long relationship with a female teacher from sch...
A. 7 January 2006: do you know how old people are when they wake up and say.. "oh look, i'm an adult"... no? neither do I.
because nobody wakes up one morning and feels grown up, your teacher was in a position of trust granted, but she's still human. she's not thin... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and I think my 13-year-old cousin is attracted to me!
Q. I just turned 20 and my little cousin is about to turn thriteen. I only see her a couple times a year and when I saw her over Christmas she said she had a nightmare and that I was killed and when she woke up she thought of killing herself because ...
A. 7 January 2006: she's a kid, in 10 years time she'll be sitting in the local pub biting her first as she remembers her most embarrasing moment.. don't worry about it too much mate.... (read in full...)
I don't love my wife of 2 years, should I stay with her?
Q. I am in a situation right now with my wife, we have been married for about 2 years, and have known each other for almost 4 yrs. We got married when I was 19 and she was 20. We still live with her parents in their house. Our marriage wasnt really ...
A. 7 January 2006: you're worried about her not being loved.
that sounds like you care for her quite deeply, most of these topics are people talking about themselves but you actually mention the person you dont want to hurt and say why you don't want to hurt her.... (read in full...)
She swallowed my sperm and claims she is pregnant!! Is this possible?
Q. i am a 13 yr old boy and my girlfriend and i have been having oral sex she wants to go all the way but i am afraid of having a baby, she wants a baby i dont. She said that because she has been swallowing that she is pregnant now, I said thats ...
A. 7 January 2006: Haha.. a gallon?? my god man!! how much do you give out!!!
the average amount to ejaculate is around 10-15mls... that's a spoonfull... think how much u'd have to give her to make a gallon.
No you can't make her pregnant like that.. but if she i... (read in full...)
Should I wait for her to get over him or let it go??
Q. hi ive known this girl for a long time, and she just broke up with some guy after a long term relationship who i know too. we have done everythng together so she must have feelings for me but still likes her ex too... should i be patient and wait...
A. 7 January 2006: you know him too?
you're a selfish person never thinking of her feelings or the other guys. I'm happy to say I don't know you, and people like you would not be counted among my friends.. you'll find no validation for your actions here.... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my underage girlfriend? She says she's ready, but I'm not sure about the consequences...
Q. I am 20, my girlfriend is 15. She's said she's ready for sex with me, but I'm feeling like I'm doing something very wrong. I feel a lot for her and we're really happy together, but, I just don't know where I would stand legally if I have sex with ...
A. 7 January 2006: wait a couple of months it's better than being a registered paedophile.. and that's how the law views it.
you'll have to register to go on holiday you know... tell the local police where you're staying just in case something happens in the area... (read in full...)
He verbally abuses me but wants to marry me. But I'm not sure I love him! Help!
Q. Hi,i have been with my bf for about 8 months and we were really serious and he's all introduced to the family and said to my momma he wants to marry me and he loves me but i have a prob. I dont know if i just love him or if i am in love with him. ...
A. 7 January 2006: Lol.. I love this "in love" "i love" thing... like there's a difference really. if you're not sure then don't marry them. if you love someone you just love them, there are no seperate little definitions.
Marriage is something that should last for... (read in full...)
We always had a marriage with no secrets...now he's out all night and not telling me where he's going! Please help.
Q. my husband and I had a very bad year and were recovering from our problems until he began his new job where apparently someone is very pushy and he considered having an affair. He is now asking for lots of space in lay mans terms he is going out ...
A. 7 January 2006: Ok... you know it's an affair right? I mean you knew this before you wrote your problem? what do you want anyone else to do?
nobody buys a seperate phone to text people all the time when it's "john from the pub" confront the situation say you're n... (read in full...)
I cheat on my boyfriend, usually when drunk, leading to feelings of self disgust and loathing. Could I be a sex addict?
Q. Hi, i am 21 years old and have been with my current boyfriend for 2 and a half years. i love him to bits and i know he loves me, but he has mood swings. The problem is me. i cheat on him and i dont know why because i dont get nothing out of it excep...
A. 7 January 2006: Nope you're just making excuses, Sex addict is just a politicaly correct term for someone who can't be faithfull, in the past words like slut or tart may have been used but you don't want to be branded like that because "you're not like them".
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