What do we need to work on to better our sex life?
Q. three years ago I brought up a sexual comment to spice up the night and my husband threw me off,maybe we had a fight before, i dont know. Today I feel that he is not the sensual guy. There are other times that I see that he is not into the sensual ...
A. 14 October 2009: to fidshish: no he didnt threw me off physically, just didnt accept the comments. Its the first one, he is open about sexuality in a way, I just think is not his thing. ... (read in full...)
Husband angry because while seperated I slept with someone else
Q. My Husband and I were separated. While separated I slept with someone else. I now am trying to get him back. How do I keep my husband. He read some stuff on my computer and got very angry. Again we were separated. What do I do ?...
A. 12 October 2009: Well i believe that communication is the key to most things, so writting down how you see yourself with him in the future and telling him about it assuring him that he is the person you want to spend your life with. Letting him know that you are ... (read in full...)
How would you interpret his comment in your point of view?
Q. My husband and I went to dinner at somebody's house where there was wine. We met a new person (older man) who we had to walk with on the way. My husband didn’t like his company and I didn’t mind his company. After he left on his way and we on ours ...
A. 21 October 2008:
REPLY TO FADE878
well he doesnt see this man as a threat, he just thinks that i dont make sense and i'm wrong by thinking that he ment i was drunk, that any normal thinking person would know this didnt insinuate me as a drunk. so then he asked "w... (read in full...)
Why is it such a big deal to me to think about my boyfriend's sex life with his ex'es?
Q. My boyfriend has had two girlfriends before me, both of which were long-term relationships. Naturally, he was intimate with both of them. And I totally understand that. However, it really bugs me to know the extent of their physical relationships. ...
A. 21 October 2008: Well i think he shouldnt give you details and describe those things to you, naturally it does bother. try to tell him not to share to much info and try not to think about it. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to give me oral sex but finds it hard because she was molested as a child... any advice?
Q. Hello, my girlfriend and I are in a rather unique situation. We've been doing sexual things for just over four months now. I've given her oral and fingered her, and she's touched me. We have never had sex and she has never given me oral. Here's the ...
A. 21 October 2008: My advice is to keep things the way they are, not to talk to much about it and just keep letting her know, if she asks, that there is no pressure and let her know that you support her and when ever she feels ready then she can do it, but not to ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want to have sex and dismisses all my suggestions!
Q. My wife has never been greatly interested in sex. Now, after 13 years of marriage and her suffering a bout of depression and flirting with a work colleague, she tells me she is sexually frustrated - doesn't want to have sex with me - but wants to ...
A. 21 October 2008: well, are you guys really tired in the moments that there is a chance to have sex? or is it just in general? either way, i suggest that you guys start dating again, like old times. Make time. It is crucial in this case to have time for each other to ... (read in full...)
Do any women feel it uncomfortable or painful when their clitorus is licked?
Q. I was just wondering if there are any women out there that get uncomfortable or even feel pain when there clitoris is touched or licked etc. I have been with my fiance for about 6 years now and I really want to know what to do if anything to make ...
A. 21 October 2008: Some women are afraid to hurt your feelings so dont tell you that you are doing it wrong, and wrong, so if i where you, i would ask her how she likes it. she need to let you know. ... (read in full...)
I want to get over him so badly but don't know how! Help, need some advice!
Q. im very upset at the moment over some guy..we were kind of together for about a month..we just hadnt made it official yet. he even said he loved me and how much he liked me..but then things changed and i was basically just his booty call for about 4 ...
A. 21 October 2008: I suggest to date somebody else. ... (read in full...)
Advice on giving head?
Q. I need advice on giving head! I gave my boyfriend head two times already but I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. since I was shy to get it out of him. I lied and said I was never going to give him head but he said why not? I just want him to be sa...
A. 21 October 2008: you shouldnt be worrying for this type of things at this age, youll have many more years to come to worry about that. right now you should be having fun at school with friends and doing school activities. ... (read in full...)
In College and confused about my sexuality!
Q. So for as long as I can remember I haven't ever really thought a guy was, "cute," "hot," or anything like that, but I have always thought girls are pretty. I went all through out high school without a boyfriend, and didn't think anything of it. Now ...
A. 21 October 2008: well I think that if you watch a movie with a sexy actor and you say to your self "How handsome this man is, I wish i would kiss him" then you are attracted to men. checking girls out doesnt mean you are gay, there are lots of women who check other ... (read in full...)
Take a chance & ask her out?
Q. I've known my friend for about a year now. We've grown really close in this time and love each other's company. I've liked her since the time we started talking and I know that she liked me as well. We've both have had hard times and this has brou...
A. 21 October 2008: Yes definately take the chance because you will suffer more if you dont. imagine you never tell her? then you dont go any where. imagine you never tell her and she meets someone and now you have to suffer seeing them together thinking to your self ... (read in full...)
Friends and guys and yea
Q. so i have these stupid friends, or so called"good firends" and they treat me as if they dont know me during school. but when we hang out its like we are bff's and its really pissing me off. i feel like i might be annoying them in a scince but i dont ...
A. 21 October 2008: If i were you, i would busy my self with something i like like: soccer, cheerleading, some activity at school that would involve me in meeting other people and keeping my head busy and away from drama and problems. and with your friends you should ... (read in full...)
Prob. saying no
Q. I have a small issue, there are quite a few guys that like me but i really don't date i prefer being single but with so many school dances and the like, the guys are pestering me to go with them, but i don't attend school dances. It's too loud and ...
A. 21 October 2008: Just talk to them in person with a cheerful smile and tell them im sorry with the truth. and mention that maybe not to the school dance but definately to do something else "as friends". ... (read in full...)
I took his socks, is it really selfish???
Q. Me and my husband went snowboarding, my feet were very cold, and i stayed in the snow a little longer, than they got to a point that i couldnt feel them any longer so i decided to go put on some more socks on to see if that would help, i notified my ...
A. 4 June 2008: Birdy, what you said it is exactly what he said to me, it is not about the socks, it is about being caring for the other and thinking of him before you, i agree honeslty, but i dont know why it didnt occur to me then. but i do think he made a big ... (read in full...)
I couldn't cancel the bookclub plans in favour of dinner with my husband's family, this created much tension between us. Your opinions?
Q. My Husband asked me if we can go to his brother's who is visiting for four months has invited us to eat dinner, i told him that yes i would love to go, but that the bookclub was that night, so i told him that i may cancel so we can go. i cont...
A. 4 June 2008: Thank you guys for your postings and advices, i feel more comfortable to hear your opinions, they help alot!!!... (read in full...)
I took his socks, is it really selfish???
Q. Me and my husband went snowboarding, my feet were very cold, and i stayed in the snow a little longer, than they got to a point that i couldnt feel them any longer so i decided to go put on some more socks on to see if that would help, i notified my ...
A. 4 June 2008: there is other issues besides the socks, he believes that my family is very selfish and that i may have some of those traits in me, i agree that my family acts selfish, but i believe that im not, i know i took his socks but i felt comfortable to do ... (read in full...)
I took his socks, is it really selfish???
Q. Me and my husband went snowboarding, my feet were very cold, and i stayed in the snow a little longer, than they got to a point that i couldnt feel them any longer so i decided to go put on some more socks on to see if that would help, i notified my ...
A. 4 June 2008: Thank you for all of your answers, i do get a clearer picture when you get advice from someone looking outside of the circle that you are inside.... (read in full...)
I can't let go of my ex now we are just friends
Q. hey, broke up with my boyfriend about 8 months ago, and I have constantly texted him I dont know why. Think I still want to feel close to him as he has moved away. I have wished him best for the future and have not tried to get him back, just wanted ...
A. 4 June 2008: I believe that you need to tell him in his face that you still love him and if he is a good guy he will sit and listen, than after his response you will know what comes next, but you cant just expect things to happen without any action being done, ... (read in full...)
How do I help my moody gf with her problems?
Q. Hi well theres this girl im sort of seeing (we've had an on/off thing now for over a year). But shes a very moody, stressy person. Shes had a lot going on with parents divorcing,failing at school a bit and having a lot of pressure on her ...
A. 4 June 2008: First of all women tend to need to see some type of authoritarian side in a man, you need to sit and talk even if she doesn't want to listen you sit her down, and all of what you wrote in this disscussion you need to say it to her word by word, and ... (read in full...)
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