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... Send *ithout_reason a private message | | | *ithout_reason's profile:Hello, I'm Melissa :] I live in North-West England, and am currently on a gap year. I'm hoping to go to university next year to study Major Psychology, Minor Sociology. I would love to get into the helping professions..
My hobbies are reading fiction books, movies, travelling, learning about cultures etc.
I have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years.. But have recently broke up :[
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Should I leave him even though we still love each other?
Q. I don't know if I should leave my bf. Our relationship isn't much of a relationship anymore. Its not going to get any better. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me. We're pretty much just friends that live together. No communi...
A. 8 May 2011: Yes you should. Even though you both love each other, like you said it doesn't seem like it's much of a relationship at all, without the affection, and you can always be friends. You both deserve to be in fulfilling relationships. You should also ... (read in full...)
Depressed because of age. Any advice?
Q. I am getting terribly depressed and although not suicidal. I keep getting very depressed because I am coming up to 60 years of age. No man will want me now I know that and cant help wondering what a bleak future. I know one doesnt have to have a ...
A. 9 April 2011: Age is inevitable - it's going to happen, and you have to face it and embrace it. These days 60 isn't even old so there's no point worrying about age. As for the men, I'm sure those that go for the younger ones aren't worthy of you and you shou... (read in full...)
More than best friends but less than a couple. Now she says it's gone weird. Help me.
Q. She'd broken up with him, i gave her 1 1/2 months to get over him, and then she asked to meet up with me. Ever since, i've been seeing her for nealry 6 months now, and we do get physical: more than best friends, less than a couple, we love each ...
A. 7 June 2008: Give her her space.. Let her know you are there for her. Try not to talk to her.. unless she makes the move.
When she's ready.. She will come to you.
That's all i can say
x x... (read in full...)
I'm 20, she's 15. Can we date?
Q. Hi I've been hanging out with a girl I met online and we both like each other lots. We both like each other lots and hae said its likely that we may end up dating in the future. The one that worries/bothers me is the age difference and law...
A. 1 June 2008: It is not illegal for you to date :] only illigal to have sex with a minor (under sixteen) where if you do, you may end up with a similar sentance to that of rape even if she consents.
So.. Her parents are happy with it, there's nothing wrong wi... (read in full...)
I want to get him back..
Q. So i written before about me an my boyfriend/ex.... whichever it seems to be at times. We are on an off and have been for 3 years now. I know many people dont put up with it an sometimes everyone gets mad at me for going back but i really love this ...
A. 26 May 2008: I think you should stop having him back.
The relationship you're having with him isn't a proper relationship.. You can do a lot better, and being with him isn't helping you find the guy that will love you no matter what..
Stop being his back-u... (read in full...)
I want to do something to really suprise him sexually, as he complains I do not like sex! Not true! Any suggestions?
Q. my husband is on a business trip and will be back in a week`s time. i want to do something to really suprise him( sexually). he complains i don`t like sex and sometimes he thinks i am a lesbian.well,i am not.i need tips on how to waoh him and set ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hmm.. how about buying some sexy clothes.. (suspender belt?) and surprising him with that?
Also, try feeding him sexy foods such as strawberries and cream..
Maybe even try whipped cream on each other!
Haha, there's lots of things to do! Ex... (read in full...)
He called me by his ex girlfriend's name, should I be worried?
Q. ok...my boyfriend was with a girl for five years, aparently it was a rocky relationship and she broke up with him. He persued a couple of relationships since, then went two years without anything. he's been with me now for about eight months, and ...
A. 26 May 2008: This has happened to me in the past.. I tend to do it when I'm in a situation I have been with an ex..
He had been with the girl a long time, he wont forget her.. But as Isabella stated, it was just a slip of the tongue.. nothing to worry about.
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Why can't I fall in love again?
Q. Hi There My Question is: why cant I fall in love again? The thing is I was with a girl for 2 years and she was my first love and first sexual partner but we split up about 10 months ago after there were suspicions that she had cheated ...
A. 7 December 2007: Maybe it's because you can't stop thinking about your ex..?
You need to forget and move on. You're still young, and you're probably going to have some more relationships that will go wrong.. Also don't automatically think of love when you're w... (read in full...)
She is the girl of my dreams, but communication is a problem...
Q. i saw her just two week ago, I love her so much because she is the girl of my dreams . she has no phone, I am in school, don't have the money to buy her one.now communication is a problem ...
A. 7 December 2007: Does she live far away? If so, letters are very romantic.. :]
If not, organise a day or two to spend together a week.. when i dont talk to my boyfriend on the phone for a few days.. I miss him. Then when I do see him, it feels wonderful and more... (read in full...)
I feel like I want to break up after I proposed.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for nearly 2 1/2 years now and everything was great, couldnt ask for anything more so i decided to ask her to marry me (im 21), she said yes. My problem is that since i proposed about 1yr ago ive been feeling ...
A. 7 December 2007: You should never be in a relationship where you're not happy..
You need to have a talk with her, and explain how you feel.. as for her hurting herself.. I doubt she would. Of course, she may get upset at first.. but some relationships end, and she ... (read in full...)
Any tips on overcoming my fear and gaining confidence with guys?
Q. I have never kissed a guy, I am so scared and cant get myself to just do it. Any tips on overcoming my fear and gaining confidence with guys? Thanx...
A. 8 November 2007: I felt like this too when I was your age, and I hadn't yet kissed a guy, my first was when I was 17..
But, once I met him, everything came naturally :] and it will do so for you, so don't worry :]
and about the fear, and confidence, once... (read in full...)
It seems to be a very one sided relationship and I don't know what to do.
Q. I need some advice on how to deal with my girl friend. I'm 22 and she is my first love. I'll try to paint a full picture for you by telling you a bit about her personality. A lot of the time she can be self centered, rude, spoiled, and ego...
A. 5 November 2007: It seems to me that she's a bit of an attention seeker.. When she hangs up the phone, she wants you to call back, and when she says she probably won't see you, she wants you to question why.. I think she does want to see you, you said before that ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins but she's more experienced than I and it bothers me. I don't want to hurt her...
Q. hey guys would like your help please Me and my gf have been together for 10 months now we're both virgins and are planning to have sex for the first time. my gf told me that she loves me, i think i feel the same but i have a p...
A. 2 November 2007: It's good that you've waited this long to first have sex with each other, it shows you both want more than just sex in a relationship..
As for her past bothering you, it may just be so because you're jealous of the other guys.. Don't let this bot... (read in full...)
I thought she was the one. How can I get over her?
Q. Probably no point in saying this really but i am going to put in out there. A couple of weeks ago i was told by a girl that i like that she likes me. i told her the same. she said she liked me but didnt want to rush it. after 2 weeks of getting ...
A. 2 November 2007: It was probably lust and now it's over, she doesn't seem to be interested.. There's no point worrying about it :]
It's nothing about you, or your personality, these things just happen.
As for finding the one, enjoy your life, your one will co... (read in full...)
I cringe at the thought of telling my mom that I have started my periods, help?
Q. ok i am 14 and have just started my period how can i tell my mom without cringing....
A. 2 November 2007: Hello :]
There is absolutely no need to worry about telling your mum! Just tell her privately, she's most probably expecting you to tell her soon anyway :]
Every girl has their first period, your mum went through it too, she'll help, you're not... (read in full...)
Is a wedding a good venue to make a move on her?
Q. Ok so I've been friends with this girl for about a year. I've invited her to a huge family wedding to which she gladly accepted. I have had a thing for her for some time and this is going to be our first one-on-one type of thing. There is ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello :]
If you're scared of making her feel awkward, then don't make the first move on her at the wedding, unless she's giving out the signals.. But instead, act a little more than her friend.. look into her eyes alot, compliment her, ask her to d... (read in full...)
Should I just continue being friends and see what happens in the future?
Q. I need serious advise people [i am 18]. I have liked this kid ever since i started talking to him three years ago. But the problem is i dated his cousin over a year ago. However, i still like him and i know he likes/liked me too. We have so much in ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello :]
Just because you dated his cousin doesn't mean that he is off limits!
But he has a girlfriend now.. and I think that if he didn't like his girlfriend so much, he'd hint this fact to you. Also, he wouldn't have felt uneasy when he was ... (read in full...)
This boy is sending mixed signals, its driving me crazy, help!
Q. I have had feelings for this boy for over a year now. I recently found out that he had feelings for me as well, but he's not sure how he feels anymore. I told him how I felt...which ended with him asking if we could pretend the situation never ...
A. 31 October 2007: I think this boy is confused.. He likes you, there's no doubt about it.. But perhaps he feels as though he shouldn't be with you?
I personally think you should forget about him, you've been interested with him for over a year, and that was plen... (read in full...)
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