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*ambo1987
writes:Hi ThereMy Question is: why cant I fall in love again?The thing is I was with a girl for 2 years and she was my first love and first sexual partner but we split up about 10 months ago after there were suspicions that she had cheated on me and since then every relationship I have tried to make work hasn't because I haven't been able to fall in love with my partner and all I feel like doing is getting revenge on girls by going out and cheating on them which I know isn't fair because I have never cheated on anybody but I know what it feels like.Please Help why am I feeling like this and why am I finding it so hard to fall in love???
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reader, without_reason +, writes (7 December 2007):
 Maybe it's because you can't stop thinking about your ex..?
You need to forget and move on. You're still young, and you're probably going to have some more relationships that will go wrong.. Also don't automatically think of love when you're with a girl.. get to know her as a friend.. do things together, take her out.. get to know her, then perhaps take it further. Love doesn't come straight away.
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