More than best friends but less than a couple. Now she says it's gone weird. Help me.

A male age 30-35, *heTrustworthy writes:

She'd broken up with him, i gave her 1 1/2 months to get over him, and then she asked to meet up with me. Ever since, i've been seeing her for nealry 6 months now, and we do get physical: more than best friends, less than a couple, we love each other but we're scared of each other. We say 'i love you' and it was easy for me to say it at the start, but then slowly, it got really tough, and i became inconfident and wouldn't say it, and so she'd say it first. It was bottling up inside me, and yesterday night i asked her out; i begged and begged her for a chance, and she said to me that she doesn't want to take the risk as we are young, she doesn't want to repeat the same mistake, and that those feelings that i have will not last forever... but i told her i wanted to marry her, but it got really late in the morning but she would not give in whatsoever, and as it got late, i slowly fell asleep. I spoke to her earlier and when we brought this subject up she told me it's gone weird... what should i do now? PLEASE HELP ME!

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