Situation with my professor has become quite awkward but I need his classes!
Q. I'm in a really awkward situation. I was very attracted to my professor and he was interested in me but I'm very shy and I guess I didn't respond to his flirting in the right way. He kind of ended it and that was in December. I have to be in 2 of ...
A. 25 September 2010: Hi. Males take rejection differently than females do. As a man l would probably do the same once l decided you were not interested.
So what to do? Talk to him. Find an opportunity to get him aside and say, "can we talk sometime soon?"
Beli... (read in full...)
Bennefits of Porn
Q. Hi: I have read a lot of negative things at forums about the dangers and evil of PORN (OMG) and wish to offer my perspective on Porn. When I got caught up in Porn, it was not because something was missing in my current marriage. I just liked ...
A. 25 September 2010: l think Jim missed the point. Most porn is boring and unromantic. The producers of these films seem to believe we are all perverts interested only in seeing a so so performance between people who are not romantically interested in each ... (read in full...)
I want to be more than FWB! how can I tell him?
Q. so me and this guy have been friends for about a yr. but recently this past week and a half we have decided to be fwb. this all started during the trip with some of his family and i told him we couldn't talk to each other when we got back to school ...
A. 12 September 2010: Why not say "l want to be in a relationship with you" the next time he kisses you?... (read in full...)
The story of a swinger
Q. At age 70 I have had what many people would consider a "sinful" life. I was married to my first wife for 27 years. During the ninth year of our marriage we became "swingers". It was not something my wife wanted to do. We had just moved to New ...
A. 12 September 2010: l thought swinging meant exchanging partners but you seem to get off on seeing or knowing some other dude is bonking your wife... thta's weird.
My last 2 wives have been filipinas and beautiful and as most filipina ladies are; unin... (read in full...)
My sex drive is a lot higher than my husband's
Q. I am 28 year old women. I have been married for 5 years and my sex drive is A LOT higher than my husbands. I think about sex all day everyday. I stay so horny that my lower stomach cramps because i want to have sex with my husband so bad. I could ...
A. 12 September 2010: Hi... There's no simple answer to your question my dear. But lets look at the facts. Women reach sexual maturity around the age of 29... so you are right at the peak of your sexual desires. Men reach this point at 18.... yup... 18... That's why ... (read in full...)
It irks me that I have to initiate sex now!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am way too horny. I shouldn't be this way. I don't orgasm and I only started having sex three months ago. But every time I see my boyfriend, I want him. Tonight we went fishing, he dropped me home and I groped and kissed him like mad ...
A. 12 September 2010: I need more information in order to address your question..... But l weill assume you are young as is your b/f. He probably has some experience but not enough to cope with your strong desires.
As a youth with a body that produced far too much... (read in full...)
I met a pillar of society with a hidden cocaine, alcohol, and cross-dressing habit.
Q. I met a man who posed as a great guy, deacon in his church, father of 5, honorable discharge from the marines with a steady decent paying job. What he neglected to tell me is that he had a 10 yr coke habit, kids that wouldn't talk to him due to his ...
A. 11 September 2010: It will be cowardly of you to not go to his latest victim and relate your story to her so that she may protect herself from this vulture. She seems to have more than enough on her plate..... and only YOU can help her. Sure temporairly her life ... (read in full...)
The more he tries to pull away, the more I push
Q. All the answers to my previous question make sense given the info I provided but I'm not convinced it is the full story. To recap, I met a guy 8 weeks ago and we became intimate and intense very quickly. When we are together he is very loving and I ...
A. 11 September 2010: You seem to be a rational person yet you cannot see the big picture.... Life with this insecure and isolated person would be aconstant hell.
Find his old flame and talk to her.
Unless you are willing to ho along with this guy's life sty... (read in full...)
How do I prove that I'm willing to change?
Q. My ex and I were together for almost 3 and a half years. We'd always had problems during the relationship, which lead to us being on and off quite alot. But in the end we always got back together. Back in June, we broke up, and days later he starts ...
A. 5 September 2010: It seems your lack of communication and lying drove him away.... and preventing this guy from getting back into the same old relationship with you.... So what can you do? Try being honest .... l mean truly honest to both him and yourself....
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Why do I like older guys?
Q. help. i like older guys. but not as old as like 40 just younger then that. im not sure if its because of my recent relationship just ending and im so upset about it still even though it was 3 months ago but i just love flirting with them and i love ...
A. 23 August 2010: Many young woman and girls are attracted to "older" males. Why? Because they are mature, more reliable, more intelligent, more faithful, better lovers and can afford the dinners, flowers etc..Some years ago a 21 year old girl wrote to Playboy ... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel pleasure when I have sex?
Q. ive had sex more then 10 times but i dont feel pleasure in it. ive never orgasmed and im always soooo relaxed. his penis is big and im always in the mood but i just for some reason dont feel pleasure when i have sex with a guy. someone helppp? ...
A. 23 August 2010: Perhaps you should hold off on the penetration and focus on the foreplay...on what arouses you..sweet words and kissing... touching..A caring partner will do these things before entering his partner.. ... Does he caress and stimulate your ... (read in full...)
Is 3 years later too late to report being raped?
Q. well, heres the thing when i was 14 i lost my virginity to rape. i kissed him first and willingly chose to be alone with him so i feel like i lead him on partially and am not entirely blameless in the situation. but then he did it to my friend. she ...
A. 23 August 2010: You have an obligation to his future victims to do something.... and its not too late.
Get together with one or more of his other victims and together either go to the police .... or contact your local rape victim center.
By the way; you were... (read in full...)
I have difficulty ejaculating while having sex!
Q. Ok I'm a bit embarrassed about this but I need help!!!! I cannot seem to ejaculate while having sex... I can go for hours and nothing at all... This has happened with the last few girls iv slept with... But last night while I was having sex with ...
A. 20 August 2010: For most young men premature ejaculation is a problem. Perhaps your failure to ejaculate with every girl is simply a case of bedding a girl that you are not really attracted to..... just using her body ..... If you met the most interesting ... (read in full...)
Any tips to lose some weight?
Q. im a male in my early fifties my wife is in her late fifties we have been married for 32 years almost 33 im 6ft 1 shes a tiny 5ft2 she weighes about 125 pounds and all of it still in all the right places she could pass for 35 or 40 she takes care of ...
A. 20 August 2010: The first writer is absolutely right. You must burn more calories than you consume... ... and if you're walking and exercising as you say you are then the problem lies at the table.
A man wighing 250 needs 125 ox of WATER each and ever... (read in full...)
Ever since he came back, he hasn't been the same!
Q. I have been with my husband for almost 4 years. We were together a full year before he got sent to Iraq. When he got back he just wasn't the same person. He was always sweet and caring and buying me roses for no reason. Now he is so short tempered ...
A. 20 August 2010: He's been throgh a lot.... while you sat at home.... so give him some time to adjust..... After going off to war in a foreign country Sitting down with a priest or minister may help to open some doors and start the healing process. And rem... (read in full...)
Please get out of my head!
Q. Hey Everyone. So I really just need som advice on how to get a boy off of my mind. I made the huge mistake of becoming friends with a boy who is a complete player and will try to convince girl into doing things that they arnt ready for. I was one ...
A. 19 August 2010: Your friends have identified this guy as a loser... a player.... and you already know this.
Some guys will say or do anything to get a girl into bed... and once the girl gives in he will be already shopping for his next conquest.
So h... (read in full...)
Do I go for it or do I wait?
Q. hey im 13 and in a month im gunnu lose my virginty im not shur if me or my gf are ready we both realy love eachother if i had 2 lose it to anyone its her and this bleeding think is frekin me out and im kinda strong and dont know my own strength if ...
A. 19 August 2010: l assume your girlfriend is the same age as you....... so my advice is to hold off. This does not mean the 2 of you can't enjoy the wonders of sex. Your girlfriend can perform oral sex.... which l can tell you is very romantic and satisfying. ... (read in full...)
There's a big age gap, but can it work between us?
Q. Will a 35 year old female marrying a 60 year old male make a successful marriage?...
A. 18 August 2010: Age is an overrated and much less important element in a relationship thanthe things that go into making our day to day lives happy.
Among others compatibility and love are paramount to a sucessful relationship..
While dating my wife and l di... (read in full...)
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