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The story of a swinger

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Article - (24 August 2010) 2 Comments - (Newest, 12 September 2010)
A male United States age , murphy41 writes:

At age 70 I have had what many people would consider a "sinful" life. I was married to my first wife for 27 years. During the ninth year of our marriage we became "swingers". It was not something my wife wanted to do. We had just moved to New York City and I had exchanged letters and photos with an older couple who wanted to meet us and swap spouses. My wife was a very attractive woman. I agreed to bring my wife and to meet the other couple in a mid town Manhattan Hotel. They were from Connecticut and my wife and I were living in Brooklyn. I told my wife we were going to have dinner with one of my business associates and we rode the subway in to Manhattan. As we got near the hotel I told my wife what I intended. She refused and we walked around the hotel arguing for awhile. Finally I told her we would go up and meet the other couple and tell them she didn't want to swap. We met the other couple and went to dinner at a nice night club. We ate, danced, listened to the music for a couple of hours. My wife had several drinks. By the time we got back to the other couples hotel my wife was in a "good" mood. The other couple had a suite and I took his wife into the bedroom and proceeded to make love to her. After some time we went back out into the living room where I assumed my wife had been having sex with the other guy. She was very quiet on the way back to Brooklyn. When we got there she said the other guy had been unable to "get it up" because he had drunk too much during the evening. At this point in our life my wife had never had another man. She had been a virgin when we married. The other guy called the next day. Very embarrassed. Invited us down to their house in Ct. the next week. This time my wife didn't object. Thought she owed the other guy. The next weekend we went to Ct., had dinner, listened to a new album "Jesus Christ Superstar" and the four of us went to bed. This time my wife and the other guy had very enthusiastic sex.

Over the next few years, after we moved to England, we often swung with other couples. My wife, who was from the American South, always refused to swing with black couples. So one night I decided to hook her up with a black guy, A sergeant in the British Army. Most evenings she would take a long bubble bath. This particular evening when she went to take her bubble bath, I picked up the Sergeant from a nearby pub and brought him back to our bedroom. My wife was still in her bubble bath. When she came out she was wrapped in a large, white bath towel. Looked absolutely beautiful. The black guy and I were standing their nude. When she saw us she was startled and dropped her towel. Her took her to the bed., spread her out and started kissing her from her lips and ears, past her nipples and down to her belly. By that time he had a huge erection which he slowly put in her. Really went to town with her. Afterwards the three of lie in the bed and told jokes. Wonderful evening.

During the years we lived in England, which was full of swingers, we swung with many other couples and went to many swinging parties in London and Paris.

Our marriage ended after 27 years but not because of our swinging. My present wife is a conservative Filipina and very much against swinging. During our 21 years of marriage we have had only one experience outside of our marriage. It was while we were living in China. I persuaded her to have a threesome with the other man being a 23 year old student from Switzerland. He was very horny and really gave her a ride. Nice evening. Since that time she has steadfastly refused to take another walk on the "wild side". Much to my regret.

Life is short and swinging is just another way to enjoy life.

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A male reader, wisernow United States +, writes (12 September 2010):

l thought swinging meant exchanging partners but you seem to get off on seeing or knowing some other dude is bonking your wife... thta's weird.

My last 2 wives have been filipinas and beautiful and as most filipina ladies are; uninhibited in privacy, but ultra conservative in public.

Although l am now 76 l still love to be romantic and my new wife of 25 (a virgin when we met 2 yrs ago) adores sex and can't get enough be it penetration... her favorite .. or being "tasted" or fingered ... she experiences multiple orgams each time we make love wgich is almost daily.

l have convinced her to allow a friend to see her nude because such a beautiful body should be shared, but l would never allow nayone to touch her...

That is the part of being a swinger l don't understand. l would not care a twit were one million men staring at her gorgeous nude body but one touch would earn the toucher my wrath.

are you still in a marriage? hmmmmmm....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010):

Thank you for your honesty, now I don't feel weird anymore.

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