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writes:hey im 13 and in a month im gunnu lose my virginty im not shur if me or my gf are ready we both realy love eachother if i had 2 lose it to anyone its her and this bleeding think is frekin me out and im kinda strong and dont know my own strength if i ever hurt her i wont forgive my self but she wants to i want to its just the age thats stopping us do i go for it? Reply to this Question
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reader, wisernow  +, writes (19 August 2010):
l assume your girlfriend is the same age as you....... so my advice is to hold off. This does not mean the 2 of you can't enjoy the wonders of sex. Your girlfriend can perform oral sex.... which l can tell you is very romantic and satisfying. Look into her eyes as she sucks you and caress her breasts and run your fingers through her hair..... and do it as much as you want... its safe and wonderful. For her you can fondle her CLIToris... and lick it ... and the lips around her vagina .... Once she learns to relax her orgams will come too.
Put off taking her virginity for at least a year or more.
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reader, mylittlenana +, writes (19 August 2010):
 hey there.. honestly i think u r too young to be having sex.. i dont mean to sound old aged but i lost my virginity when i was 15 and i got pregnant... i was too young i am now 25. .. i think back n say .. i was soo stupid.. but u r the only one that can decide for urself.. if u do decide to go for it.. make sure u were a rubber.. and dont force it upon her..
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reader, reachingforthestars1025 +, writes (19 August 2010):
honestly, that is to young. i'm 17 and have had sex and am now pregnant. so in my eyes 17 is too young too. you may think that teen pregnancy wont happen to you, but it can. i was on birth control and he used a condom and i still ended up pregnant. So it can happen easier than you think. So if you wanna avoid things like that think it through before possibly throwing your life down the drain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): I'd wait. I had sex at 15 and now 2 years on I feel it was much too early. Think of how you think about the year below you at school- immature kids, right? Well in a year you will still think about them that way but they will be your age. At 13/14 I thought I was grown up and that I knew it all and I really didnt! Honestly.. the older you get the more you'll be glad you waited. I think 16/17 is the right sort of age, but 13 is only just a teenager.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Read this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/pregnant-preteen.html
Don't for a second think that can't happen to you.
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reader, Duckiies +, writes (18 August 2010):
 we can only you give you advice. This is the question you need to answer.Can you take care of her? Do you know what to do and have a safe sex? What happens if the condom break? I read in the news a 13 year old kid had a baby with a 15 year old. The condom didn't didn't break . They just use the condom improperly.
I highly don't recommend you having sex yet. If you asking on here and having doubts .. then you shouldnt do it.. Wait and be patient.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (18 August 2010):
 I wouldn't if I were in your position. Yes, as teenagers, you're both going to really want to. But there's a strong chance that's just hormones. I know you think you love each other but you're 13, it's not likely (though it's not impossible either) that you've met 'the one' yet.
In the UK the legal age you can have sex is 16, but I don't know about the US.
If neither of you are 100% sure and you're freaking out about the fact she might bleed (which is totally normal) then I'd say you weren't ready. Just tell your girlfriend you love her enough to wait until you're both older, more committed, and 100% ready.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 August 2010):
No, you should wait. 13 is far to young to be having sex. If you still feel this way about eachother in a couple of years, then maybe. Please wait. You'll have your whole life to be an adult and worry about sex. Please enjoy the simplicity of youth while you have it.
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reader, katie123 +, writes (18 August 2010):
Please wait until you are older, I know everyone will probably say this, but trust me, I waited till I was 17 and glad I did. When I was 13 I didn't even know what love was, I thought that I knew, but I didn't.
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