Is there such a thing as having no heart and being incapable of falling in love?
Q. What's the matter with me? 55 years old and when I date someone, I can enjoy them for about 15 minutes then want them out of my space! I am not attracted and just can't seem to "feel" for anyone. Is there such a thing as having no heart and being ...
A. 26 June 2006: Wow I so relate to that. I'm 30 and every guy but one has hurt me. i'm currently trying to let down my barrier to let this one guy in but let me tell you it is very hard. i'm a very independent woman. i can tolerate guys i date for about a date ... (read in full...)
Climax Dilemma
Q. I don’t think I have ever felt an orgasm even with all the foreplay (finger me , clitoris) my ex used to do, he was the only one reaching one, now I am alone and horny , and I don’t want to have one night stands or frees because of this, can you ...
A. 23 May 2006: get yourself a vibrator. i was 30 before i had my first orgasm and i gave it to myself... (read in full...)
I told my friend I liked a guy at school and she promised not to tell anyone... And now everyone knows!
Q. I admitted to a friend recently that i really like a guy at school but i made her swear not to tell anyone. However the day after everyone of my friends knew. I confronted her about it but she just denied it. Later, she came to my house after school ...
A. 7 May 2006: there is no way you can make her stop. she is not what i would consider a friend. do not tell her anything again. she is not trust worthy. all you can do is try and pick up the pieces as graceful as you can and learn from this experience. good luck ... (read in full...)
I have cerebral palsy and everyone treats me horrible. Can I change this?
Q. Dear Anyone. I'm 42, living in England, with Cerebral Palsy. This comes out mainly in my face - I look like a freshly shaved gorilla! And that, in a nutshell, is the question. How do I get people past the face and disability to the person ins...
A. 6 May 2006: that's terrible the way people treat you. i would never even think about treating someone that way. what about church. God is there for us 24/7. i don't know what i would do without him. the only person you can be is you and if people can't see that ... (read in full...)
Never had an orgasm in my life. What can I try?
Q. Hi there, I am 51 years old and my boyfriend is 36 years old. I can't get an orgasim and I have never had one in my life. I feel so ashamed and I can't enjoy sex. Can you suggest anything? ...
A. 19 March 2006: I'm 30 and I didn't have my first orgasm until the week before I turned 30. And I did it with a vibrator by myself. No man has ever been able to give me an orgasm. And it hasn't been for their lack of trying. That's the only advise I have to give, ... (read in full...)
I'm leaving my husband soon and I want a relationship with my married friend from the ice cream shop.
Q. Dear Cupid, I am an unhappily married woman with 2 children. My plan is to leave when my husband finishes school in June. There is a married man who is a friend of mine. His daughter and my daughter are classmates. He also owns an ice cream sto...
A. 15 March 2006: leave him alone believe you me I know I am also interested in a married man that has expressed to me how unhappy he is in his marriage and how he wants to be with me and all that jive- well, its been 4 months and he is still with her- i've ... (read in full...)
I feel that a man needs a vent for peace of mind, my wife disagrees and pressured me to sell my beloved dirt-bike! Reasonable or not?
Q. Do I need a swift kick? Hello, I'd appreciate any wisdom that this community could share. I first realize that my issue is pretty small compared to many others, but I still want to do the right things in life. I am a 31-year-old business man wi...
A. 12 March 2006: Everybody needs time to themselves and I think you are right about this. I work full time and I am a divorced mom and I look forward to the weekends when my daughter is with her dad. It doesn't make you a lesser parent. It makes you human.I think ... (read in full...)
What do you think is the definition of Love?
Q. I was told this, do you believe this is love or the starting point of it. “mmmm I don’t know what the definition of love is, but it's a feeling that you get for someone. Sometimes you don’t really notice it is there. Like when the person you l...
A. 5 February 2006: to me love is just an emotion: a person can easily fall in love as well as out of love, however the love for your own child is an experience all its own... (read in full...)
How do i get someone to like me for what I am?
Q. how do i get someone to like me for what i am?...
A. 31 January 2006: Just be yourself and the right person will come along.... (read in full...)
I'm a divorced man who loves my son. But my new girl wants me to see less of him!
Q. I am a 39 year old man and my marriage broke down in june 2004 in september 2004 i meet a girl that i really liked, she gave me the impression that she had no problem with me being divoiced and supported me thourgh the whole thing. she even played ...
A. 9 January 2006: Women are a dime a dozen. You only have one son. He should be the most important person in your life. I am a divorced mom and my daughter is the most important person in my life and if any guy has a problem with that, he can hit the road. If your ... (read in full...)
Her ex-husband buys her expensive gifts still...
Q. I've been dating someone who is divorced with two children (Age 6 and 9). We argue during the holidays (or gift giving time ex. birthdays, mother's day) because she see's nothing wrong with receiving a gift from "her children" but bought by her ...
A. 3 January 2006: I have a 5 year old daughter and my ex-husband buys me birthday, mother's day, and christmas gifts that are from my daughter and I do the same for him. It is so that my daughter feels good about giving us gifts. We don't spend $500 on the gifts ... (read in full...)
He gave me a ring...now he wants us to become sexual and have a baby. What should I do?
Q. I am a sophmore and am really in love with a guy. He is older then me by 6 years but we have been dating for over a year. We are really close and can communicate by looking at each other eyes. He got me a ring for christmas, and is ready to take it ...
A. 27 December 2005: you are only a sophomore- you have your whole life ahead of you-there is a world out there that you haven't experienced yet- go to college and have some fun before settling down and having a family because once you settle down, it's hard to get back ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose...the ex bf and hope he changes? Or the friend who's always been there for me?
Q. Hi. I'm abit confused. Broke up with my ex one month ago. He said he wasnt ready to commit and we have been on for five years. I'm 33 and at that stage in my life when i wish to settle down with a family. He is also very difficult to please, and all ...
A. 27 December 2005: i agree with honey 62002- she is right on- I'm trying to pick up pieces also. and it's been 2 years.... (read in full...)
He slept with someone else before we were serious. I think that counts, but he doesn't!
Q. Help - I can't forget about something!! Me and my current boyfriend, Lee* were seeing each other before I left my ex, Paul*. I was mad about Lee from when we first met and it took us a long time to get together but in the end we did and now we're ...
A. 19 December 2005: I think you are blowing it out of proportion- you were still sleeping with Paul- you were with someone else, why can't he. You cheated on your boyfriend and you have a problem with a single sleeping with someone. I don't get it.... (read in full...)
My social time is so limited now. Should I try online dating?
Q. Hi, I've just graduated from uni and have started a job. I'm a musician, and teach in schools part-time whilst playing with a fast growing band. Since I've graduated, although I'm living in the same town, loads of my best friends have moved away ...
A. 19 December 2005: Go for it- I'm doing that now and I have met a few interesting people.... (read in full...)
I feel like a failure as all I've done is work for my folks
Q. help, im really annoyed,and frustrated, im 22yrs old, yes i am still starting my life, when i finished school i went to work with my folks straight away, as i felt that i wanted to work and earn myself a living, right, that didn't exactly work out. ...
A. 18 December 2005: You don't need a fancy diploma to make yourself feel worthy. But, if you want a college education I say go for it. I'm 30 years old and I am a single mom and I am currently going to college. It's a good experience. If you want to go out and see the ... (read in full...)
Why can't my ex be friendly with me?
Q. If your ex, whom you shared a deep and emotional relationship with at one time is distant, what does this mean? This particular ex is friends or at least nominally more friendly with all of his other exes than he is with me. Right after the break-up ...
A. 18 December 2005: No, I don't think you have done anything wrong. My ex-husband is getting re-married next thursday to a woman who he despised at one time. And let me tell you that it hurts me more than anything. However, your ex might be hurting as well and he ... (read in full...)
Do I tell her what her boyfriend says about her?
Q. I was recently at a works night out with the girls from work and their is this girl who i realey like she is so nice very careing and wuldnt hurt a fly and she sees good in everyone but when i was standing at the bar her boyfriend was slaging her ...
A. 3 December 2005: Okay let me ask you this would you want someone coming up to you and telling you this about your boyfriend? and if the answer is yes, tell her. If she was my friend, I would tell her... (read in full...)
Should I wait or walk away?
Q. I am seperated from my husband and i have 2 kids.I have been seeing a man for over 2 years,he hasnt any children and he works away during the week and comes down to see me weekends.I want him to move in with me but he doesnt really want to because ...
A. 27 November 2005: That is something that only you can decide. It doesn't seem to me that he is making up excuses, sounds to me like he is being honest with you. Kids are a big responsibility and maybe he is not up to that. Has he lived by himself for awhile because ... (read in full...)
Go with the current boyfriend, or reconsider my ex?
Q. I am having a rough time right now. I am divorced and currently dating a younger man. The problem is my ex still wants me back and I still care for him. I don't know what to do because I also care for the guy I am currently with. I feel like ...
A. 16 November 2005: Make a list of what you want in a relationship and be honest with yourself. Then write down what your ex offers you and what your current boyfriend has to offer. You might be surprised that what you want has nothing to do with either one of the guys ... (read in full...)
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