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writes: Hi there, I am 51 years old and my boyfriend is 36 years old. I can't get an orgasim and I have never had one in my life. I feel so ashamed and I can't enjoy sex. Can you suggest anything?
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reader, atomic +, writes (20 March 2006):
The only way a man has ever made me orgasm is by oral sex, this is the best and most intense orgasm, have you tried this? My BF just fooled around and he knew what I thought felt good by my reaction! Once he has found that 'spot', you gotta go with it and let it come..it's not your fault that you haven't experienced one yet, it's such a common problem! Well I hope this helps, good luck!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2006): A small... what are they called? A bullet? It vibrates. It more easy to move around because it's smaller than a vibrator. It can go anywhere you please and easy to hold. Try placing it on the clitories and hold it in place with a little bit of pressure. And kegal while doing that. It should work. I love mine. But take your time and just enjoy feeling around until you find a spot that starts feeling good. Don't get frustrated, relax and feel confident. Your well in for a good one, have fun and tada!
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reader, wishes +, writes (20 March 2006):
 Dont feel ashamed. There is no reason you shouldnt enjoy sex even if you dont orgasm. Are you still feeling pleasured? Most of the time, the best thing about having an orgasm is the lead up to it. Take it slow. Try to enjoy your time with your man. Take the other ladies advice and use a viabrator, or your hand to make yourself feel good. It may take a few shots but do it in a relaxed atmosphere without rushing yourself. Will porn help? Maybe watch this to turn yourself on first and while you are touching yourself. Your boyfriend wont be able to make you orgasm until you know what feels good yourself and are feeling completely comfortable with it. Best wishes, and have fun trying ;o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2006): I agree with the last reply. A vibrator is your best bet. Once you can reach orgasm by yourself you'll then be able to instruct your partner on how to help you achieve them when you are together. There are also many vibrators on the market that you can use with your partner to help you reach orgasm.
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reader, watrbot +, writes (19 March 2006):
I'm 30 and I didn't have my first orgasm until the week before I turned 30. And I did it with a vibrator by myself. No man has ever been able to give me an orgasm. And it hasn't been for their lack of trying. That's the only advise I have to give, get a vibrator.
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