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writes: I admitted to a friend recently that i really like a guy at school but i made her swear not to tell anyone. However the day after everyone of my friends knew. I confronted her about it but she just denied it. Later, she came to my house after school and we went on msn. The guy i liked was online, she started flirting with him and talking about having sex with him. I started thinking about what she had done and realised she has done this kind of thing with every guy i liked. Why is she doing this? Is there anything i can do to make her stop? Please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, I'd just like to say, thank you all so much for your advice i really apreciate it ^_^
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (8 May 2006):
 It sounds to me like your friend is a very selfish one! She obviously can't be trusted with a secret, she knows that you like this guy and she starts flirting with him? She's not a true mate if she does this to you! She is obviously jealous of you for some reason!!! Its a pure sign of jealousy! Don't try and compete with her cause you will just look as bad as her! Trust me she will end up feeling the fool in the end (whether she shows it or not)!
Take my advise, if you still wanna be friends with this girl then you really have to stand up to mates like this! I ahve a friend like this and she is just trying to steal your shine...if you still wanna be mates with her then you just need to be careful...she's not one of those friends that you can tell everything and shes definitely one of those friends that you have to play a little harder with!
Keep me posted on how it goes...good luck!
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reader, sweetangel23 +, writes (7 May 2006):
the only thing i can say is its happened to me. if you like somebody its better to keep it to yourself if you know your friend is like this. the only thing i can say about what you should do about your friend is drop her like a bad habit cause it will only get worse and she'll never stop. later on in life the backstabbing will only become more serious on more serious subjects....family kids(when you have them) etc. trust me on this i know from experience
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reader, watrbot +, writes (7 May 2006):
there is no way you can make her stop. she is not what i would consider a friend. do not tell her anything again. she is not trust worthy. all you can do is try and pick up the pieces as graceful as you can and learn from this experience. good luck and God bless.
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reader, lani +, writes (7 May 2006):
i can understand where u r this i also had a friend who done this but she went a step further + slept with my husband who i divorced+i forgave her but when she tried it on with my new man well i dumped her,no decent friend would do that 2 any 1, u say shes on promising sex well what young boy aint going 2 knock that back +she will end up with a rep. as a easy lay dont u follow in her footsteps cause it may seem fun 2 her now but no decent man will have her ,when ur friend comes round leave ur pc switched off .u could always start a conversation on msn with this boy then when uv got 2 know him better on line u could speak 2 him off line about being on line my advic about the friend get rid of her shes not worth it+will do this 2 every guy u meet its jealousy .
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): aaahh yes, we've all got freinds like that. The one that just wants to be the centre of attention all the time. She's just tryna "steal your shine". Don't worry about it, guys will see whats she really like. Hey, use it to your advantage, cos you'll look like the perfect super-nice girl next to her. In future you'll know not to tell her anything you don't want anyone else to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): She doen't sound like much of a friend to me. I wouldn't confide things in her anymore and find a better friend you can trust.
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