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writes: I'm having a confidence crisis.I had a bf for 6months and it all went wrong, 2 years later i'm having issues with my confidence around guys, i'm perfectly fine flirty and outgoing until it gets to that stage where you get asked out somewhere and all of a suden i have nothing to say, nowadays my mini relationships or flings should i say usually involve me having a little something to drink to get me to relax a little.This just leaves me lusting for the nice guys and dating all the bad ones?Does anyone have any tips for me on how to put myself back out there when things start to heat up?Thnxps i'm almost never shy accept for thisx x x
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reader, vixsfix +, writes (7 April 2006):
vixsfix is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks x x x
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reader, bridget +, writes (30 March 2006):
 Hey there pet,
Yeah you have closure now.. You now have your time to move on from the ex and your friends taht have been bad to you,
You dont need "Friends" like that anymore..
I have always believed in the old wives tales, (maybe because I work with them!!) that "what goes around comes around"..
So, I wish you happiness for the very near future and dont let the ex partner or the friends stand in your way of having the lead in your life...
Good Luck
Jacqueline
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reader, vixsfix +, writes (30 March 2006):
vixsfix is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanx, i think that ur right, since i broke up with him 2 other of my 'frends' have been out with him, one of them not even consulting me first, and even though i don't want him back it's knocked me and still effecting me, do you recomend closure. if so how do i get this, i don't even see him anymore. thank you. x x x
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reader, bridget +, writes (24 March 2006):
Hey there Visfix..
Just wanted to reply to you as you sounded as if
you needed some good advice..
I think your confidence levels are kind of falling and it might hav something to do with your 6 month relationship...
Would you say that you are fully over it?
Just by the way that you are explaining things, It sounds as if you are not over your last relationship..
Its not a bad thing or anything to be ashamed of, alot of people find it hard to get over previous relationships..
Although it is easier said than done at times, Time does heal alot of pain...
Good Luck
Jacqueline
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