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writes: i was sitting with my boyfriend the other night when he asked if i'd be interested in giving him a golden shower. i was taken aback considering that i had never heard of it until he explained. i dont know if i'd enjoy doing THAT on a mans chest! could someone explain what it is that makes it appealing, and should i do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2006): You ought to strike a compromise here. Explain the "g spot" and female ejaculation to your bf, and then tell him that if he performs properly, he can have all the "showers" he wants as often as he can "turn you on." By the way, about a decade ago Vanity Fair had an article about Adolf Hitler's getting "Golden Showers" from his niece, Geli Raubal. Is it true? i don't know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2006): i'll try anything once... some things i like, and other things i don't. part of loving someone is exploring your sexuality and trying out new things.
don't try anything unless you want it and you're ready for it. my boyfriends have never pressured me to do anything i don't want to. when we finally do decide to try something, it's because i'm ok with it. afterwards, we just laugh and say, man that was nasty, or hey, that was kinda hot.
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reader, CanadianGirl +, writes (24 March 2006):
If you are not comfortable doing it then say no
thats that and if he has a problem with it then you know thta he does not respect your wishes...goodluck sweetie
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2006): My husband and I have always joked about doing this. One day while I was sitting on the toilet about to go, he had just finished having a shower and walked passed me naked, so I grabbed his cock in my mouth and started giving him a head job while I was sitting on the toilet. I was trying so so hard to make myself do a wee, (its sooo hard under pressure) but he was getting turned on just on the thought of me trying to do a wee. Turns out I wasnt actually able to until he started cuming in my mouth, then I just relaxed and weed. It funny enough was quite a turn on for me to. Not sure why, or even why it turned him on. Its just something different. Its got a naughty and kinky side, but a "why not?" side as well. Good luck! Let us know what you decide!
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (24 March 2006):
 You've got nothing to loose... Well, bar your dignity.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (23 March 2006):
 It's hard to explain sometimes why one thing can turn on one person and disgust another.
This is a tricky one - As Carrie Bradshaw said "its a regular fantasy - the princess and the pee".
I think that you should ask him why it turns him on because for everyone it will be different so its best to hear it turns him on so much.
Then you need to decide how comfortable you are with the whole thing. If you are keen, fine, if not, then don't do it.
It is completely up to you but your boyfriend's explanation of why this act is a turn on to him may help your decision.
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reader, PrunellaGringepith +, writes (23 March 2006):
 It is a fairly common fantasy, although I have never understood the appeal myself.
An online friend once told me that his first real life glimpse of a naked woman was when when he was a kid, and a friend of his big sister burst into his bathroom when he was having a shower and peed right in front of him. Of course he got an instant erection and has fantasized about women peeing ever since.
I'm not saying this is your boyfriend's reason, but it gives you an insight.
As to whether you should go ahead or not that is entirely up to you. If the whole idea disgusts you then don't do it, but if it doesn't, then maybe you should give it a try and perhaps you might quite enjoy the idea. Of course if you DO, may I suggest having him lie down in the bath tub first...it's gonna save a lot of messy cleanup!
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reader, vixsfix +, writes (23 March 2006):
 Your not the only one, i think that that is just disgusting and i personally could never do it. But tht is just my opinion.
My opinion aside, for you if you're comfortable with the idea then don't do it, you should never do anything that you don't want to, DO NOT LET HIM PUSH YOU INTO IT. Calmly explain to him that although this is something that he is interested in you are not comfortable with the idea and its not going to happen.
IF HE REFUSES TO ACCEPT THIS BIN HIM, HE IS NOT WORTHY. If he's good about it then thank him for his understanding and tell him that it means a lot to you that he listens to you and understand him. (You may then reward him in anyway you deem appropriate)
Hope this helps.
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