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writes: I met this guy through some friends a year ago on my birthday. I didn't really know him then but I could tell he wanted to chat to me.We got chatting a couple of months ago and I started to really like him - I could tell he had some feelings for me too! But I dunno why we'd stop chatting now. He used to call me every night, texting each other all day. Calls me out every now and then, treats me out, giving me hints that he'd liked me and etc. I'm sure I gave him the same signals back to him, but I really don't know why he stopped. Could he have gotten bored of me that quickly? Or just realised I aint the type of girl he goes for? =S I also heard he's a player...so could he have moved on to a next girl already?The last time I saw him was like a month ago, with some of his friends I didn't really know. I'm quiet when I'm around people I don't know. Could this have put him off? Cos we stopped chatting since dat day! I really miss him =( Is he just messing with my mind??Well he DID tell me he didn't want a girlfriend at the moment. But I know he told his friend he was looking for one! o_O I'm so confused...This happens to me so much, every time I fall for a guy, I'd know they'll be feeling the same way, and then somehow, after some time, we just stop chatting and things won't work. I've only ever had one boyfriend...that was 3 years ago and I loved him so much and was so hurt when we broke up. I dunno if this is pushing my confidence down. I've had many guys asking me out, but I rejected them because none of the ones I liked asks me out! This guy is also my ex's friend. Would it be wrong for me to go out with any of my ex's friends? Help Please!! Thanx!! xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006): he has a girlfriend now!! =( ..(i asked this question)
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reader, dr good advice +, writes (20 March 2006):
forget him, he sounds like a real jerk! that special someone will come your way, someone who will appreciates you and give syou the respect you deserve. as i say forget about this guy and move on, dont blame yourself or feel bad cos he has stopped chatting to you, he probably has found some other poor female to smarm! men like him dont find love, they are incapable of loving, this is because they love themselves too much. dont worry, keep you head held high, get tough, dont let anyone treat you like a door mat. remember this! good luck mate, forget the jerk. x
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reader, vixsfix +, writes (19 March 2006):
 To be honest it sounds liken this guy doesn't know what he wants!I think you should but your time and effort into someone else but try a different approach this time~:- dnt get too attached too soon- Do play a little hard to get, so he doesn't get the impression your easy (this helps to weedle out who's in it for the long haul and who's just in it for the quickie!)- dnt base your whole relationship on txts emails and the phone, people are completely different face to face than they are in any oher form of communication- do trust your instincts, if you're having doubts they're probably for a good reason- never believe what everyone tells you, unless you really trust their opinion- do go out and have fun with them, see them as much as you can with out compromising your te rest of your life.And finally if the dating isn't going well, you're young cut your losses before it turns to nastiness or heart ache.Most importantly be yourself and remember to be positive, it will show through.Good luck (and bin the loser)
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