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... Send *ncle_baj a private message | | | *ncle_baj's profile:hi folks,im onl y 24 but ive experienced a hell of alot in the last few years,ive had the worst relationship imaginable for 3 years but ive finally walked away,now id like to help others in similar situations,ive fought depression,low self esteem,drugs and alcohol,since these times ive devoloped a keen interest in psychology,whis has helped me understand alot of things that ive done and have been done to me,and if i can prevent these hings happening to others then ill be happy |
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My boyfriend calls me names around his friends, what should I do?
Q. hello , i have bin with m? bo?friend for around 6 month and now we're getting abit serious . but when hes with his cousins and mates well , he acts different and i know that hes only joking and messing around but when he calls me likee '' silly ...
A. 12 May 2008: hes doing this simply out of insecurity,he shouldnt put u down,lads take the piss ut of each other cos thats how we are,its makes each other laugh,but if ur boyfriend has got nothing but derrogatory comments towards u,to make people laugh then thats ... (read in full...)
Why have I still not got a boyfriend?
Q. hey, Okay... I feel like a pathetic 17 year old- ive never had a bf.. I used to be a bit of an ugly duckling, but I've grown into myself more, gained some confidense ect, that was 2 years ago...why have I still not got a bf? There have been so ...
A. 12 May 2008: as im sure everyone will say......dont look for love it will find u,i wasnt attracted to anybody and felt i had some sort of problem,this was until the one place i wasnt lookin for a potential partner,work,and in came a girl (1st girl that ever ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes me do things I don't want to do
Q. my bf always wana let me do stuff i dont wanna do like sex and smoke i told him i dont wanna do these things but then we together again and he says he wont do it again but he just does and i realy love him what should i do cause we realy love each ...
A. 12 May 2008: ok,a bit of psychology for ya,u say u love each other which i dont dispute but this guy wants to have this typical lifestyle and hes makin u do it too,but he does this cos he thinks if someones doing it with him then it will justify it in his ... (read in full...)
I don't love her as much, what should I do?
Q. What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...
A. 12 May 2008: i had the same problem,but i worked hard at getting those feelings back,by that i mean try and remember what made u fall for her,have u stopped appreciating her? do u see a future? theres many questions but if u do still love her then theres ... (read in full...)
I get extremely hot and sweaty during sex, is this normal?
Q. Why do I get so extremely hot and sweaty during sex? I am mostly holding up my body weight the entire time but I always have.......
A. 12 May 2008: its a fact that guys sweat more than girls during sex,dont worry about it its just down to ur bodies cooling system if u like,dont worry m8... (read in full...)
I'm confused but I love him. I need some advice.
Q. hello, i have liked this boy for a long time and we have a really special bond , he even says that we are really close he comes to sit next to me all the time in school and everyone says he always flirts with me so i flirt back and he loves it...
A. 12 May 2008: it sound to me like this guy is just in puberty,he will want to have sex and that but wont want to be tied down to one girl as alot of lads do most of their 'sha**in about' whilst theyre young,that natural,but my advice is dont give him sex,if hes ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure how to give head. Help please?
Q. The past weekend, I was asked to give head, but I'm not sure how to. I really liked the guy who asked me to give him head, but I had to tell him no, becuase I don't really get how to. Help please?...
A. 12 May 2008: one way will pleasure one man then the opposite way will please another,theres no set way of doing it,but my tips are,use alot of eye contact whilst ur doin it,its natural for men tolike that,plus u will be able to tell if he likes wot ur doin,also ... (read in full...)
He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant
Q. Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...
A. 12 May 2008: it jumps out to me that your very inexperienced,firstly if this guy was anygood for u he wouldnt respect the fact that ur not ready,and who to say hes not gonna leave u like he did the other girls?it sounds to me like this guy is lying,u shouldnt ... (read in full...)
I think I may have been date raped by my boss.
Q. I think I was date-raped. I ran in to my boss in a bar after I had already been drinking, and he offered to get me a drink. I asked for a vodka orange, but he asked me if I would prefer vodka redbull, and got me that instead. After that drink, I...
A. 12 May 2008: personally,id totally ignore that comment below cos that to me just sounds like someone whos bitter towards men,valium or ro-hypnol will usually be used and it sounds to me like something like that has happened here,what did he say the next day? ... (read in full...)
I need help arranging a threesome as a gift for my boyfriend.
Q. Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and I wanna have a threesome with another women. Not a friend, just an anynomous hottie. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend and I love eachother very much and our sex life is amazing, but I wanna give ...
A. 12 May 2008: ive never known a threesome go to plan,3thinigs jump out to me str8 away,u said your sex life is great,if so,why try to fix what isnt broken,2nd,its been 6 years,if he gets to have this girl do this ti him do u think it will stop there?he will think ... (read in full...)
Did someone perform some sexual act on him to 'last blow his load'? Because it obviously wasn't me!
Q. Please I need some help before I start pulling my hair out!! And i'm sorry but i'm going to be blunt there's no beating around the bush with this one. Ok some background info I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years we have a good r...
A. 12 May 2008: im confident he just had a wank,he changed the subject cos very,very few man can talk about something like that with their g/fs,infact blokes barely even talk about it with each other,its just a male thing babe so dont worry,hope this helps? x... (read in full...)
Is a 4" penis sufficient?
Q. I am with 4" penis is it sufficient for sex?...
A. 12 May 2008: right m8,this ones simple,dont put the emphasis of sex just on intercourse,many ppl assume that what its all about when in actual fact those ppl couldnt be more wrong,concentrate alot more on foreplay as this is how u satusfy the woman,of course ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do when I'm on top!
Q. PROBLEM: I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WHEN IM ON TOP!! I am 18 years old, I been having sex for a few years now and I would love to be in-control on top of the guy but when it comes to it I just dont know what to do.... What ever I seem to do it dont rea...
A. 12 May 2008: dont worry about ur performance some people just arent satisfied in certain positions,or mayebe watch a video or read something if the video thing isnt for u... (read in full...)
Now if this doesn't make you believe in true love I don't know what will.
Q. All my life I have believed that true love was just a fairytale. I mean it's just so unreal. Something people would call "too good to be true". My past boyfriends made it so much easier to believe that true love was a myth...Especially since all ...
A. 12 May 2008: lol,that just sounds like something anyone who loves someone will do,youve just had bad experiences but dont look at these as bad situations,instead work out what went wrong and learn from it,and another thing,u mention all the lads want is sex,well ... (read in full...)
Do these feelings mean I'm a lesbian?
Q. hi i was going shopping with my mates and i saw a lesbian couple kissing and i was all confused cuz i had never thought about that before well not really and i had this funny feeling all inside. when i got home that night i was a bit board so i w...
A. 12 May 2008: this is just natural,trust me,dont go thinkin ur a lesbian,your merely curious as most people are your age,its just puberty,so dont worry about it too much,ask yourself other questions,are there any boys u like? do u daydream about boys,are there ... (read in full...)
I'm shy about my underarm hair!
Q. hi iam ------- i need help when my friends go swimming i feel shy getting my clothes off i think theyll make fun off me im the only one who has under arm hair they are all normal what should i do?????...
A. 12 May 2008: turn the joke around,ur obviously hitting puberty quicker than everyone else so if anybody says anything just laugh at them cos ur becoming a man and they are still little boys,be proud son,not ashamed... (read in full...)
My lecturer's been with his wife for 15 yrs, I really like him, so I'm planning to act!
Q. The lecturer I fancy knows my name and i think he likes me. He's married but he's been with her for over 15 years (even though hes only 35, i'm 20) and has indicated to me he's a bit bored. He's so clever and interesting and i'm dying to spend time...
A. 12 May 2008: stay away,you want to be labelled a homewrecker? imagine if you found the man of ur dreams,built your whole life around them and decided he was the one,then some girl came along at his work and stole him from u,A) how would that make u feel? and ... (read in full...)
I love my Science teacher!
Q. Hey everyone!! I really need your help!! I'm 12 years old and my science teacher is 27(15 year age gap)and i LOVE him but the problem is he's got a girlfriend and i'm not sure if he's engaged.Anyway i've been in love with him for the last 9 ...
A. 12 May 2008: this will pass,i know its been a long time but it is natural to be attracted tto an elder person (usually a teacher) it natural part of becoming a teenager,its all part of puberty,so start focusing on other boys in school and not teachers,and the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: ...and another thing, use protection, he's obviosly sleeping with other girls then, sleeping with you which is putting your sexual health at a real risk. Just do yourself a favour and get away from this dangerous excuse of a lad, 'cos although he m... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: Sorry but i had a hard time reading that, have u lost your mind? You shouldn't be anywhere near this guy, he's very selfish and a bully, any man who threatens to hit you almost will eventually hit you. You are still young and you shouldn't be tiei... (read in full...)
We keep breaking up and I don't know why I keep going back?!
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have dated for almost 5 months... and we have broken up 4 times already over stupid things. but i dont like to argue with him and i dont. but I dont know why i keep goin back to him. But I know im in love....
A. 12 May 2008: if this guy was the one ur supposed to be with then he would be showing u off at every opportunity,yet hes not,wouldnt it be nice to have someone who s gonna treat u like a princess and make u feel good about urself?cos my advice to u is end it ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex?
Q. How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex? I always have to do it and if I dont initiate the sex then we never have sex! I know he likes having sex with me but I always have to actually start it. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets...
A. 12 May 2008: he doesnt initiate it cos he doesnt have to,as u say,u start it all the time,i know it may be hard lol but resist temptation to have sex with him,dont talk about it or anything to do with it then trust me he will start,roll reverse ad u will see a ... (read in full...)
Should I just let this go and completely forgive him and believe that I'm the best?
Q. This is a weird situation and I don't know how should I feel... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He loves me a great deal, as he supported me through depression, always does his best to make me feel special and is v...
A. 12 May 2008: the only reason he sees it as more pathetic is cos he loves u more than the others,so when u do something wrong it makes it more worse than the ex cos it matters more you see? hes obviously proud of u and the though of your naivity at that time has ... (read in full...)
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