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I may be young but people often tell me I have wisdom beyond my years. I've always been good at fixing other's problems, just my own seem harder.
I'm in York, and very happy with it.
The boy of my dreams is pratically within my grasp, and I very sure of his feelings for me, just trying to figure out my game plan. |
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Am I being to foward? Is there any other way to be with him?
Q. Alright, Tuesday, I'm to see my crush I'm fairly sure he likes me. I've talked to him before, but I need a way to really get to know him. He always looks me in the eyes for what seems like forever any time we even see each other. I've talked to his ...
A. 8 January 2008: thanks, you're a great help! I'm to see him tomorrow so i'll follow your advice. Is it okay if some of my mates bring their bf?... (read in full...)
He's shy--So how can I let him know that I want him to ask me out?
Q. I have feelings for my friend of over a year and recently he admited he has feelings for me to. It is really important for me that he asks me out because he is shy and it would show me that he cares about me as much as I do him and it would show me ...
A. 4 January 2008: Your welcome, please dolet me know how it goes!... (read in full...)
Could the fact he is (one year) younger hurt our potential relationship?
Q. The love of my life that I can't get off of my mind, well I'm thinking of another problem. He's one year younger than me, but it's not even a year, but some people take offence to it and I think he would be okay with it. We're not together yet, but ...
A. 2 January 2008: Thank you all so much, you've been a lot of help. And you helped build my confidence. Thanks!... (read in full...)
He's shy--So how can I let him know that I want him to ask me out?
Q. I have feelings for my friend of over a year and recently he admited he has feelings for me to. It is really important for me that he asks me out because he is shy and it would show me that he cares about me as much as I do him and it would show me ...
A. 2 January 2008: That's a good idea, it will probably encourage him enough to ask you out.... (read in full...)
He slept on the couch last night. Is our relationship worth saving?
Q. hi I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I'm with my boyfried of 2 years. We moved in together in sept and this was our first xmas in our new home. And to be honest it was rubbish, and the final straw came last night when we had a massive ...
A. 1 January 2008: It's just sleeping on the couch and beside a relationship that is without struggle never lasts long. Struggle is normal.... (read in full...)
How do I make him want me?
Q. Im gonna be specific in this question and give detail, im 15, and i met someone a year older than me through a friend, we got chatting and everytime my friend was chillin with me, i would ask him 2 come round aswell, because at first i felt more ...
A. 1 January 2008: sorry, i mean't can't force it upon him ... (read in full...)
He's shy--So how can I let him know that I want him to ask me out?
Q. I have feelings for my friend of over a year and recently he admited he has feelings for me to. It is really important for me that he asks me out because he is shy and it would show me that he cares about me as much as I do him and it would show me ...
A. 1 January 2008: You could try to say something really deep, do you think he needs any time to prepare? When I confessed my feeling to my ex, the next day he asked me out, though, the conversation beforehand was him trying to see how I felt.... (read in full...)
Should I try to see if I'm attracted to men for my wife's sake, and what happens if I enjoy the experience?
Q. My wife considers herself bisexual. I have no offense to this but was wondering if any one out there has the same problem as me. My wife enjoys women and thinks if I gave it a chance I might enjoy men. My feelings are open to most things. I'm ...
A. 1 January 2008: This isn't a descion that anyone can make for you. You got to do whatever makes you feel comfortable. And if nothing does, do nothing.... (read in full...)
How do I make him want me?
Q. Im gonna be specific in this question and give detail, im 15, and i met someone a year older than me through a friend, we got chatting and everytime my friend was chillin with me, i would ask him 2 come round aswell, because at first i felt more ...
A. 1 January 2008: Just let him be, you can force it upon him.
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I'm going out with someone I met online but my friend also likes me and might break up with his girlfriend for me, what do I do?
Q. I'm really confused on what to do and i really need some help. I have been going out with a guy i met on the internet got about a month and two weeks now. Only one of my Friends know about him because I didnt want everyone to know because they all ...
A. 1 January 2008: Stay with who you are now and just know you have a backup plan. That's really all I can say now because it confuses me a little. Can you explain some more?... (read in full...)
Are we in love?...
Q. Last night, new years eve, i was on the phone with my bf. he was at his cousins and one of them, who i know, got on the phone and started talking to me. shes only 12. she said to me "(his name)really loves you (my name). he didnt stop talking abo...
A. 1 January 2008: Nothing to worry about. That's all good. If his family knows, he's really in love. His cousin was just trying to embarrass him since she knows his soft spot now, him caring about you.... (read in full...)
Any ideas as to why my gf seems to be ignoring me??
Q. Heya, I have been seeing a girl now for just 1 month I no its not a long amout of time but i already feel that I realy like her as I have had a massive crush on her long before we started dating. The thing is I am already having doubts about her...
A. 1 January 2008: You're welcome, every girl is different, not all girls exhibit these sign because they're "playing" you, but because they are unsure of themselves. I'm a girl, I should know. Happy New Year.
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I want to be with him. How can get him?
Q. I'm so falling head over heels for this guy who i'm very sure has feelings for me too. But I need a plan to make a move on him and really get to know him and his feelings for me....
A. 1 January 2008: Thank you, I'm trying to make a goal to become friends with him and am thinking about asking him to join me at the movies with some friends this weekend. Happy New Year!
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New year blues and so full of despair, what can I do to rectify this?
Q. happy new year. thank you for your advice last year concerning "broken hearted (unemployed) and dreading xmas" question.all the advice is invaluable. i celebrated the new year with a couple of friends and although i quite enjoyed the comp...
A. 1 January 2008: Try to find a new girl or a cool hobby to get your mind off it. Stay busy till you can know you are ready to face it and move on. Give some more detail and have a happy new year!... (read in full...)
The love of my life has moved away away but we still love each other.
Q. hey im 14, The love of my life literally jst moved hours away. I broke-up with him, but im still in love with HIM. What do i do? He wont answer txts but he tells his sister to tell me he loves me. im confused help me xx...
A. 1 January 2008: I think you could do better together, he seems like he didn't want the break up. He seems to want you back. What caused the break up?... (read in full...)
2008 is here and I want to start fresh... But I keep thinking about my ex. What can I do to forget about her?
Q. We entered the new year 2 1/2 hours ago. Any advice you can give me? I'm 21 years old, I was with a girl (also 21) for 4 years, she was my first love, first kiss and first everything else. We connected well, shared looooads of great times toge...
A. 1 January 2008: It's always hard if you felt you were good with that person, but there will be someone else out there. Find something to take your mind off her, but you don't need to completely isolate yourself. Sincce it's the new year, just try to put it behind ... (read in full...)
Any ideas as to why my gf seems to be ignoring me??
Q. Heya, I have been seeing a girl now for just 1 month I no its not a long amout of time but i already feel that I realy like her as I have had a massive crush on her long before we started dating. The thing is I am already having doubts about her...
A. 1 January 2008: I understand why you feel this way. Since it's so early, it's hard to see a cause. Maybe she's not completely over her ex and is trying to straighten herself out. Or she may feel she made a mistake with her ex and is trying to make sure she doesn't ... (read in full...)
Humans before pets no matter what?
Q. My guy hates my cat, and told me that I can't take him with us when we buy a house. He's not allergic to the cat, and the cat hasn't done anything bad or been mean at all. He just thinks my cat is annoying. I had the cat before I meet him. Should...
A. 1 January 2008: If it were me i would say the cat and me are a package deal. From my stand point it almost seems like he's trying to see if he can manipulate you and how easy he can get what he wants from you. Happy New Year.... (read in full...)
We've been together 6 years but he's told me he loves his ex as much as me, and he wouldn't be able to resist her if the chance came up. Do I stay or leave him??
Q. My partner and I have been together for 6 years and I have a Daughter from a previous relationship who calls my partner Dad(No contact with my ex).When we first got together he explained that he and his ex were still friendly and i accepted ...
A. 1 January 2008: You're being too good of a person. You are too good for him. let him go back to his ex. But make sure that your daughter gets detached from him or it won't be a clean break when it's ended. Make yourself confident that he is not worthy. You must do ... (read in full...)
I'm shy and need tips on flirting with a friend
Q. Theres this boy I like and I've known him since I was 7 and now I'm 13 and so is he. When we where younger we use to be pretty much best friends but when we went up to secondry school, I started to fancy him. But now its like we barely know eachothe...
A. 1 January 2008: if you're afraid to do certain things, you could go to the movies with some friends ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a very confusing love triangle...
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend have been getting quite close agin.. ..i have been hoping we could get back together but am afraid of ruining our friendship if he doesnt feel the same way. However there is another problem my other ex boyfriend know that i ...
A. 1 January 2008: Wait a little longer and watch for more signs but if you pm me with a bit more detail, i may be able to help more... (read in full...)
He's shy--So how can I let him know that I want him to ask me out?
Q. I have feelings for my friend of over a year and recently he admited he has feelings for me to. It is really important for me that he asks me out because he is shy and it would show me that he cares about me as much as I do him and it would show me ...
A. 1 January 2008: Well I think you should let him know you like him but if he's really really shy let him hang a little after you tell him, preferably on the phone that way you give him time to compose himself so that he can feel that he does it right when when he ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get my bf to come here to live?
Q. Hi, im gay, soon to be 17...and am in like my fourth proper serious relationship. Ive been with him since July - and hes definately the best. Just so perfect, 21, sexy, i wont go into cos it might put some people off answerin but yeah he makes me ...
A. 1 January 2008: well, if it's love, there's no avoiding it. i'm sure it shouldn't be that hard for him to settle in somehow or find a way. And if he has a degree, that'll make easier to find work, if there are any other complication you should voice them or you can ... (read in full...)
I always call her during holidays, I feel it's a one sided situation. Should I keep waiting?
Q. My friend who I fancy for over a year now has still not contacted me over xmas. I always ring her durin holidays. I Don't Wanna ring her cause I just feel ltm it's a one sided thing. I really wanted to take her out. I'm nuts about her. Any ideas? ...
A. 1 January 2008: You can call, it's alright, I have guy friends that call me, and if you wanna take her out maybe go see a cool movie with her and a friend or two, then try to sit beside her and just be very friendly. Watch how she reacts and if she seems okay with ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he's the one?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I love him with all my heart but I'm not sure if we are right for each other. The only issue he seems to have with the relationship is that i tend to get jealous. I feel that he would do anything, change ...
A. 18 December 2007: I think you should give it a bit more time because most relationships are about in essence accepting each others faults. I think you should stay because if you didn't get jealous, that would mean that on a subconcious level, you feel that he is not ... (read in full...)
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