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writes:hiI am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I'm with my boyfried of 2 years. We moved in together in sept and this was our first xmas in our new home. And to be honest it was rubbish, and the final straw came last night when we had a massive row. I don't really know what to do we said some horrible things to each other. He slept on the couch and we haven't spoken to each other since. To be honest he is pretty high maintenance sometimes but i do love him and i think he loves me. My question is should we break up or struggle on. We've been struggling living with each other so im wondering is our relationship worth saving..is love ment to be this hard.. i hope someone can helpthanksl
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reader, Somethingeasy  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Struggle on, you will be so disappointed if you break up over a silly one night fight.
All healthy relationships have fights
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): Hi me and my girlfriend just broke up last night we argued a lot. We'd been together for just over 2 years and the arguments dragged us down. To be honest i'm really sad but underneath that sadness i feel a little bit of relief because i know that we were not right for each other and that we stayed together in the hope something would change but it never happened and now a fresh start for both of us is probably the best thing in the long term even though it hurts like hell now. What you have to look at is the past 6 months of your life and ask yourself, would i want this to repeat itself over and over for the rest of my life, im 21 my ex-girlfriends 19 and life is too short to be unhappy, u must look and assess your life and situation only you can really know what the right decision is.
Hope this helps!!!
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reader, tytoalba  +, writes (1 January 2008):
 It's just sleeping on the couch and beside a relationship that is without struggle never lasts long. Struggle is normal.
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