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*arcus 29
writes:My wife considers herself bisexual. I have no offense to this but was wondering if any one out there has the same problem as me. My wife enjoys women and thinks if I gave it a chance I might enjoy men. My feelings are open to most things. I'm having the entertaining thought of trying this for her, but am afraid it may be beter than I originaly thought. Should I try for her sake and what happens if I do enjoy it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Marcus 29 +, writes (2 January 2008):
Marcus 29 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your responses. They were all heard and I'll take advantage of all answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): You are standing on the edge of a cliff and watching an eagle soring up in the sky, then this crazy idea pops into your head. He can fly,why can't I? So you take the plunge and you die. And Bi-Sexuality for you too just may not fly. And if it does you might end-up kissing your Bi-Sexual wife goodbye.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (1 January 2008):
 I suspect if you had the inclination that it would have occurred to you long before this. I really don't think that this is something that you should try for the sake or pleasing you wife. This is WELL outside of the for better or for worse part of the vows that you took, so if I were you, I'd stick to your own proclivities.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): I'm bi and my partner is too, but what you're talking about is a whole new can of worms I think there are some questions you have to ask yourself
First - do you think you might be bisexual?
Are you currently in an open partnership and if so how open is it? (ie flirting is okay, full sex is okay, sex is okay but only with same sex partners etc etc)
Are you okay with your relationship becoming more open?
are you okay with potential physical (STD) and emotional risks of open relationships
Why is your partner pressurising you to try out bisexuality?
Is this something you could incorporate via fantasy - rent a few gay/bi films to watch together maybe?
I DO recomend bisexuality, but I generally DON'T recomend experimenting because someone else wants you to OR being in an open relationship unless you are ALL very secure and grown up.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (1 January 2008):
 I guess it all boils down to personal preference really. There is no way on earth i could ever enjoy a man, getting intimate with a male i would find a major turn off.
Im with Ponungalungb, no woman could ever get me to try it either.
Good luck
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (1 January 2008):
 If you can get past having another man's balls resting on your chin while your sucking his c*ck, then, by all means, have a run at it. LOL.
No woman could ever get me to try it, however.
Good luck with that.
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reader, tytoalba +, writes (1 January 2008):
 This isn't a descion that anyone can make for you. You got to do whatever makes you feel comfortable. And if nothing does, do nothing.
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reader, Uraz  +, writes (1 January 2008):
 Why? what are you trying to do...
I think your wife is having this idea of making it ordinary to be bisexual -it is not- and trying to make you feel or believe that you may be also.
It is irresponsible and contrary to the spirit of marriage.
I am not judging someones sexual choices I am making a statement in relation to your situation.
Be careful: If you go ahead with this sensational idea you will be entering a new realm where you will be challenged personally socially and professionally.
I do not recommend this.
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