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Hello im 22 years old i have a 4 yearold daughter and im 6 and half months pregnant . I live in bristol england . Im all about the people .ive dealt with things on my own and felt like cracking up so i want to help others in any way i can .ive been in a realationship for 6 years . Ive had many life experiences from good to bad please feel free to mail me , im here to help xxx trinnity

I stopped chasing him and being nice. Now he's saying that I'm a mean person. What should I do?

Q.   hey. basically, i like my flatmate at uni. He knows how i feel through a stupid mistake. however, since we came back after uni, i have kind of changed towards him - i am a lot meaner, don't do things for him anymore and don't chase after him ...

A.   30 January 2008: sounds like a game of cat and mouse , try to get an equal mix of nice and mean then maybe he will realize how much you mean to him good luck... (read in full...)

My older boyfriend is now in jail.

Q.   Well I'm 15 and I have a 24 year old boyfriend. We love each other but when I told my mom she told a counceler and he was forced to report it, so now he's in jail, He still calls and writes and says he loves me and stuff but I'm not sure what to do, ...

A.   30 January 2008: guy ur age maybe immature but 24 it taking things a bit far . you need to find some one else your a young girl with plenty of life ahead of you what about a 16 or 17 yearold a bloke in his twenties should be with a women not a girl .... (read in full...)

My son is punished everytime my husband drinks.

Q.   my husband is the greatest guy in the world until he starts drinking, he loves my son from a previous marraige, but when he drinks it seems like my son is the worst kid in the world and I am the worst mother. I was going to leave him a couple of ...

A.   30 January 2008: protect your child , you have a divin insict to protect your offspring so do it before the abuse damages him or gets worse trinnity... (read in full...)

Mom said I never have feelings.

Q.   ok my problem is my bf lied to me and i broke up with him becasue his ex ws bitching me out but i don't fell bad we broke up my mom said i never have feelings is there something wrong with me?...

A.   30 January 2008: not neccacerily you just might not of had feeling for him i wouldent worry i dont think there is anything wrong with you x trinnity... (read in full...)

How can we get his ex to leave us alone?

Q.   I've known my boyfriend 12 years then we got together. I have a fear of losing my boyfriend because his ex (who was with for 4 years) messed with and is still messing with his head. She’s crazy, she stalks him and talks to friends and family about ...

A.   29 January 2008: being in this situation is not nice ...i know . the best thing i can say to you ignore her if he does it for long enough she will eventually get bored if all else fails a restraining order could be needed. this would not affect him seeing his child ... (read in full...)

How can I get sex?

Q.   I'm a 15 year old boy who needs sex, and I don't know how to get it. Any Suggestions?...

A.   29 January 2008: Lets be honest you dont need it you WANT it , two totally different things . And also ur attitude towards getting sex would be offputing to potential partners .Im not nieve but arnt you a bit young to be thinking this way , whats the rush u have a ... (read in full...)

Is he playing with my feelings or being genuine??

Q.   Okay its me again...... I sent an email on 28th dec because i had broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months over whether he would support me if i got pregnant. We had used double protection (i went on the pill, he used condoms) but he had trouble g...

A.   29 January 2008: if you still have feeling for this guy , do you honestly think you could just be freinds ??? maybe you should contact him if he really wants to be freinds then it should be a mutual thing not one sided , just make sure your ready xx trinnity... (read in full...)

My friend assaulted his child!

Q.   If you had a friend that you had known for a couple of years and then you found out that some time ago they had been in the paper for assaulting their child who was 3 at the time, would you then see that friend in a different light and would it make ...

A.   29 January 2008: it would make me see him differently , and if i had children he would no be allowed any where near them . and yes it would clear the matter up of my he is not allowed access to his children xx trinnity... (read in full...)

Cheated before, I have the right to know if she has after we got married

Q.   My wife is an oral sex freak, by that I mean going down on guys. Before we were engaged she told me she blew about 12-15 guys and wasn't sure of the exact amount because lots of guys she did lots of times. I overlooked this because her reas...

A.   29 January 2008: its ur wife that cheated mate her freind dint force her we all make our own decicsions in lifemaybe you should address this problem with your wife , but stop transfering blame it wont help , xx trinnity ... (read in full...)

I feel uncomfortable when he touches me.

Q.   This may sound odd, but I've had an interest in my accounting teacher for awhile now. He has always seemed nice to me, but only recently has it seemed like he's been intereted in me, which worries me. He asks me to stay after school to help correct ...

A.   29 January 2008: This is not ur fault . He should know better . the best to thing to do it make it clear to him that you feel uncomfertable and dont put ur self ino any vunrable situations with him , if it continues maybe you should speak to your parents or another ... (read in full...)

Two weeks later having my period.

Q.   I'm over 2 weeks late with my period and i just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated inside of me 3 times, what are my chances of being pregnant?...

A.   29 January 2008: The chances are pretty fair ,you should get a test done to be sure , it only takes one time to fall pregant please dont delay in finding out . talk to your boyfreind xx trinnity... (read in full...)

She's experienced and I'm scared

Q.   I'm dating a girl who is 15 and 17. We had dated but I know we will kiss soon, I want to so badly but I've never kissed before I know it sucks but she has had alot of experience. I'm kind of scared. Any advice for me?...

A.   29 January 2008: The more you stress about it the less you will enjoy it , just go with the flow the rest will come naturally have fun xx trinnity... (read in full...)

What are my chances of getting pregnant and some advice on Triphasil.

Q.   Hi Please can someone give me some light on this situation: I started taking the birth control "Triphasil". I started it on the 15th January 08 (the same day that i got my period). When is it safe for me to have sex without any other protection...

A.   29 January 2008: pretty much yes , but as i said nothing is foolproof xx trinnity... (read in full...)

I'm 9 weeks pregnant..and I'm so happy about it. But I'm booked for an abortion!! ! Help!

Q.   i am 9 weeks pregnant and to be honest im really happy about it. unfortunately my boyfriend is not so happy. this isnt because he doesnt want it but the cost of trying to support our baby. we are both in our 20's do not have a stable home to live ...

A.   28 January 2008: No you cant becuase you will regret it for the rest of your life think carfully before you make any decistions please dont just do as ur told because once its done there is no going back .take care xx trinnity... (read in full...)

I don't want the abortion...But they're all pressuring me!

Q.   I'm 17 and 8-9 weeks pregnant. I have my first midwife appointment on the 25th February. My boyfriend and parents are basically forcing me into an abortion that I don't want because I KNOW that after it I will be a wreck. Sure abortion is for ...

A.   28 January 2008: Please dont be forced into an abortion , it has to be ur decistion if your forced will spend the rest of ur life regretting and suffering from this , its only you who can sign the consent forms no one else , take some time out and consider what you ... (read in full...)

Pregnant and worried..that I may be having a miscarriage! Help!

Q.   I'm just over 8 weeks pregnant. I've had alot of dischargey stuff since finding out I'm pregnant and read alot of women do. But today I noticed it's going a beige colour and I don't think this is normal and it's starting to worry me, could I be h...

A.   28 January 2008: Your not having a misscarrigde , discharge is quit normal in pregnancy and so is sickness . When ur pregnant every little nigle worries you i know ive been there if your still really worried a trip to your gp will put ur mind at ease congrats hun xx ... (read in full...)

If I took antibiotics, what are the chances of me falling pregnant?

Q.   Okay.....first off let me say that I know I made a mistake. But, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while. I am on the pill. We both have been tested, so we do not use condoms. However, I took an antibiotic Thursday and one Friday. I ...

A.   28 January 2008: the odds are slim but still possible , accidents happen try not to stress it wont help, you can either do a pregnancy test and put ur mind at ease or wait for your period good luck sweet x trinnity... (read in full...)

What are my chances of getting pregnant and some advice on Triphasil.

Q.   Hi Please can someone give me some light on this situation: I started taking the birth control "Triphasil". I started it on the 15th January 08 (the same day that i got my period). When is it safe for me to have sex without any other protection...

A.   28 January 2008: The pill is only 99% at all times if ur not looking to have a baby take someother precautiions aswell just to be safe . nothing is ever fool proof . But if you started on ur period you should be as coverd as humanly possible with the pill xxxx be ... (read in full...)

Is he cheating or was he really just joking??

Q.   My boyfriend of over two years likes to play jokes a lot. Recently, however, his jokes have included telling me he has been: 1. seeing someone from his gym for a few months and they really like each alot, then saying just kidding. 2. he is ...

A.   28 January 2008: Maybe you should look for someone who treats you with respect not plays with your feelings, he sounds very insensitive and mean , if he countinues with his little jokes how much more could you take ? what if his jokes are just a last minuite cover ... (read in full...)

My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!

Q.   My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...

A.   28 January 2008: i can understand how you feel but take a step back dont you think ur being shallow .you love ur wife dont you , its not all about looks and she was trying to make her self happy with her body . Is it really worth throwing away your marrige for , ... (read in full...)

Broke up with my clingy bf 3 weeks ago and he won't leave me alone!

Q.   i broke up with this guy about 3 weeks ago and he wont leave me alone recently i have got together with somebody else but he gets really annoyed when my ex rings me. he calls me about 50 times in an hour, this was one of the reasons why i broke up...

A.   28 January 2008: Change ur number , make ur feeling very clear and hope he excepts it if all else fails get help from ur parents and report him to the police good luck be happy xx trinnity ... (read in full...)

He's being used by his gf and I like him...but now he's ignoring me on MSN.

Q.   I really like this guy. But today he's been blanking me on msn, and i don't know why. I told my friend that i liked him and im worried that she's told him. How do i ask him if he told? And how do i make ammends to the person i like? Who, by...

A.   28 January 2008: you should try and speak to him face to face , clear things up and have a word with ur so called mate if they told , as its not what real freinds are supposed to do , if hes not interested settle for being freinds and move on good luck be happy ... (read in full...)

Will I ever win my ex bf back?

Q.   I broke up with my ex around 2 years ago this may. However we still keep in close contact and see each other every day. I have been through periods where I've had another love interest and felt I was over him, but at the end I've always gone back to ...

A.   28 January 2008: You need to ask him or you will never really be able to move on your life good luck be happy xxx trinnity... (read in full...)

Is he having or had an affair?

Q.   This is an update to a post i put on dated 18.12.07 regarding a "Happy Birthday" text sent to my husband. I have as advised kept an eye on things this month. There have been phone calls between him and her, which would be work related. Last Tu...

A.   28 January 2008: Until you have something concrete i think it would be best to keep u eyes peeled so to speak , theres alot riding on ur marrige for you to just jump in with two feet , and what ive read so far could very well be innocent be safe xxx trinnity... (read in full...)

I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?

Q.   Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...

A.   28 January 2008: lose your virginity when you feel ready , don't feel presured . in this case it's about how you feel about it , if you're comfortable with it and you want to do it then the answer is clear . but will you regret it ??? why not wait until you know ... (read in full...)

Am I jealous of my friend?

Q.   well i was wondering if im jealous of my friend? you see me and her have the same classes together last year and this year.shes a alright looking i think.anyways this year a lot of boys like her.i dont know why? but she have big boobs.i mean lar...

A.   28 January 2008: i do'nt think you are , be honest with your self do you really want boys to like you just becuase of your breasts?? it's not the be all and end all . have confidence in yourself and the rest will follow . be happy xxx trinnity... (read in full...)

I cheat on him to get back at him and because I am lonely! Help

Q.   God I am so stupid, well I know what everyone is going to think when they see this, "what a whore". Well here it goes... Iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and Im only 21. We love eachother and we have had a lot of problems but we have always ...

A.   28 January 2008: Firstly your not a whore , just confused . To get out of this mess you need to stop cheating and speak to ur man explain how you feel and tell him that if he wants to make a go of it then you need to honest and monagomouse because all this ... (read in full...)

She won't speak to me now and I am confused and lonely. Advice?

Q.   i met a lady in september 07, in two weeks she was wanting to get married, took her mom and daughter dress shopping, told my mom we were getting married , set the date and everything,we spent every day of the next 3 months together,I wanted to slow ...

A.   28 January 2008: To be honest i dont think she knows wha she wants , and maybe you two being apart is not such a bad ideal , if she can act like this now , think how ur married may have been , if your still stuck on persuing this lady give her some time she may come ... (read in full...)

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