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writes:well i was wondering if im jealous of my friend?you see me and her have the same classes together last year and this year.shes a alright looking i think.anyways this year a lot of boys like her.i dont know why? but she have big boobs.i mean larger than a a regular teenager girl.shes been asked out 2 times in the beginning of the school year.right now she been asked out 3 more times.oh yeah today in my english class this boy who's a friend a mine said to her that the boys that hang out with him was talking about her.i was wondering if its bad.i wish it was but it wasn't it was good.most of the boys that likes her only liked her because of her huge boobs.mine's are small compared to her.i asked her if she wants to make any surgery on her body.cause it was a topic that was in school today she said yeah.i was like what do you need to surgery? she was like i want to make my boobs smaller.later on i said a lot of guys like you and she was like i know but i dont like that.it made me feel less envy of her because the way she said it seems that she had a lot to go through.i really dont know.if its jealousy or not.so can you please help me out?
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (28 January 2008):
 Its not jealousy over the the breast size, its jealousy over the attention she is getting from males. You are who you are. And you are right to be glad that you are not big like that, they cause back problems and it will make it harder for you to find a not shallow guy which is the kind of guy you want. And the only reason they like her is because she has large breasts there are 3 girls like that at my school and they constantly are hit on and rarely do not have boyfriends. Juts be glad you dont deal with it, it gets annoying to them when all guys care about is there breasts. One of the main reasons my ex liked me so much until recently when we broke up because her ex came crawling back and he uses her and now has abandoned her. Well she had large breasts and her frame made it seem like they were even bigger then they were because her waist and body was so small she was 5 foot 2 and had a tiny waist and wieghed only 120 pounds, And she had D cup breasts. Well i liked her for who she was, and most guys just liked her because of her assets. And most of them would constanlty look at them which made her uncomfortable. I didnt look at her breasts unless she was teasing me which she liked to do later on but hwne we first started likeing each other i didnt look because i knew it made her uncomfortable and i repsected that. And she really liked that and how i treated her and things escalated from there. So i hope i helped clear things up a bit
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reader, LouLee  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 Yeah, it sounds like jelousy but i can totally understand why you're jealous...big boobs, all the attention, why wouldnt you be jealous?!
Despite the fact boys ask her out, she doesn't like this mainly because they're most probably asking her out not because they like her personality or anything like that..mainly just because of her boobs and most girls don't want to be recognised for that.
That's all i really have to say.. hope i've helped in some way! :) x
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reader, Trinnity08 +, writes (28 January 2008):
 i do'nt think you are , be honest with your self do you really want boys to like you just becuase of your breasts?? it's not the be all and end all . have confidence in yourself and the rest will follow . be happy xxx trinnity
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reader, cd206 +, writes (28 January 2008):
 I wouldn't term it as jealousy, that seems a bit extreme. Maybe wistfulness, meaning you wish you had what she did... but really I think it's the guy thing you're jealous about more than her boobs. It's common at all ages to have friends who get more attention with men than you. I woul guess even the biggest breasted woman in the world has this problem as does the most beautiful and the smartest girl and the sportiest girl and all the other superlatives. The truth is, there will always be a reason to envy people in your life and doing so doesn't make you a bad person just as long as you don't end up resenting them for it. Remember she is first and foremost your friend and she's not asking for all this extra attention. The boys are going to come to you soon enough. It's just that guys your age can often be shallow and not see good things that are right in front of them but just because they can't see it now doesn't mean they never will and there is probably one person right now who likes you anyway. Be open to new people and flirt with guys. It doesn't need to go anywhere. Just see it as harmless fun and good practise for when the right guy comes along. Good luck sweetie.
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