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He's nice and I'm smitten, but what if I say something and he rejects me?

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Question - (19 July 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2006)
A female , *adySteele0806 writes:

I am 21 years old. I have been single for 2 years and 9 months.

I recently meet this wonderful guy who I seem to be smitten with. I like everything about this guy but I'm afraid if I tell him he will reject me. He acts pretty friendly towards me and does lil things to make me smile, like the first night I met him he had to tell me how pretty I was. Then on another occasion he walked up to me and leaned against me and placed his hand on my knee for a second or so then moved his hand, but stayed leaned aginst me.

He also can sing and he did another sweet thing towards me. He seem to have waited on me to sing my favourite song. We had been talking before, then also and he told me before we met he couldn't wait to meet me. And after he met me he told me I was, pardon the expression, "kewl as hell".

Well I wanted to know if I should dismiss this and keep what I think to myself, or if I should pursue it. And if so, how? What do I say? It's been so long since I liked someone that I don't know how to go about it.

Please, I need advice.....

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2006):

willywombat agony auntI would be positive about this and think yep, he ahs a thing for you....

looking good.

xxx

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A male reader, Tray-c +, writes (19 July 2006):

Tray-c agony auntI would think him asking you out is just around the corner so keep it cool for now and show subtle interest in him (touching, eye-contact, teasing etc.) If he still hasn't asked you out bite the bullet and ask him come on whats the worst that could happen.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2006):

I would say he appears to be as keen on you as you are with him.I would pursue it because what you got to lose? i would do it a way like.....next time he acts like this around you say something like i think you are kewl as hell aswell or i like it when you are around you brighten up my day or anything along them lines and see how it goes.He might be afraid to go a step further and ask you outright so if you make a effort so say something positive he might know where he stands and take it a step further.Hope it works out for you good luck xx

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