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*exc_sadie
writes: Well, last weekend I was out with my friend when we met some really cute lads. Me and my friend are both 17. Turns out the boys are only 15. Thing is, I got chatting to one of them and we have been txting and talking on msn and meeting up. I am starting to really like him and he likes me but I'm scared that hes too young for me and people will say horrible things. He's a geniune person, makes me feel good about myself and makes me smile, as well as being cheeky and funny. And he doesnt act 15 either!I'm so stuck. What would you do ?
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reader, Tray-c +, writes (18 July 2006):
2 years is nothing go4it, and remember the golden rule -half your age and add 7. Thats the limit people
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reader, sexc_sadie +, writes (18 July 2006):
sexc_sadie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankss everyone, we are together noww :D:D xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2006): hey sadie babes its megz.
u no wat i think about it, n everyone is absolutly right in what they say i have ruined afew relationships coz of wat ppl say. at the end of the day if he makes u happy n makes u feel special like he keeps saying to me that u are !!! lol GO 4 IT GIRL love u love ur matey ........xxxxxxx.......
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reader, miss_nice2006 +, writes (14 July 2006):
hi i am miss_nice2006 and i think if u really like him then dont worry about it because i think the age duse not matters reall i am 15 an i like this 19 year old guy and he fancy me but i dont think u shoud worry to much a bout it so what if your m8 say some thing about it just dont lison to what your m8 say ok from miss_ nice2006
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reader, sexc_sadie +, writes (14 July 2006):
sexc_sadie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe anwsers that have come back are great thank you very much, you are all so right and the advice is really making me realise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): Go for it! If you really like each other. 2 years is nothing. Just remember one thing, don't sleep with him until your absolutely sure (and he's 16). Sorry to sound so practical, but it's worth the wait because once he's legally allowed to have sex and you take proper precautions there is less likely to be major repercussions.
Good luck!
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reader, Bev Conolly +, writes (14 July 2006):
If you click together, and you like him, then to hell with others' opinions. Two years isn't much difference, and it sounds like he's a nice lad, who makes you happy.
Isn't that the most important thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): Hey, my friend is in the exact same situation as you and i told her to go for it. So she did and guess what, no one thought nothing of it. If you really like him you wouldn't care what other people think and say so i say go for it! You guys cleary like each other and love each others company so why not! All the best! Take care!
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