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writes:A question for lads...what makes you fancy a girl. I want alot of different responses so get typing please x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, moocow89 +, writes (31 July 2006):
I'm a weird one. When I see a girl I like , I just get a feeling inside, feelings that tell me I have feeling for this girl. Usually, my friends tell me the people I like are ugly, but if I am attracted to a person, whatever their looks, they start to look better over time as I like hte person more. Usually, what attracts me is common interests, or just someone who is easy to talk to. I am not very social, so I guess seeing someone else that is about my equal is what attracts me. Really social girls don't turn me on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2006): I had a perfect partner post in another thread, but as far as attraction goes...
Asthetics: Fit - lots of stamina, slender to a little extra meat according to her height, flexible, strong enough to carry some camping gear around without feeling low in energy, a roundish face, big bright eyes - the type when you look into will bring me a smile, a clean complexion, preferrably has a nice slappable (sp?) ass that looks yummy when bent over, and of course, if she has stiff baseball size breasts, that would be a bonus! 83
Manners: publically proper, genuinely nice to people, politically honest, modest, and courteous.
Mentality: thoughtful, compassionate but not a leftist, nothing radical, spiritual but not religious, aware of her surroundings, basic perception of the people she interacts with, the willingness to experiment and learn new things with me and on her own, brave and even courageous since I’m not very courageous
Action/Reaction: sometimes acts in a naturally cutish way (randomized all the better), feminine but not too girly, spontaneous, can accept impulsiveness, talkative but knows when to be quiet and just chill
Comprehension: creative visually and mentally, has her own stance on subjects
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (30 July 2006):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question All these answers are great but i still want different opinions so keep em coming plz x x
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 To be honest, looks are pretty high on my list. This gets me interested. Mind you, everyone has a different standard for beauty, so don't put a great deal of stock into this. Just make sure you project a sense that you take care of the body that God has blessed you with.
But after this "animal attraction" part is over with, then the really important things take over - mostly the ability to listen. If someone seems truly interested in what you have to say, it sets up that feeling of connection. For me, this is what keeps me interested in a girl. The opposite is a total turn off for me. That is, if all someone talks for sake of hearing her own voice AND doesn't seem interested in what I have to say then I won't even like her.
I hope this helps - good luck and take care!
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reader, chirpychicken +, writes (27 July 2006):
 i am a girl but have lots of blokey buddys too...i know that they like a woman who is confident has a nice smile nice smell, nice personality and a great sense of humour some of the guys i know are a little shallow and these tend to go for looks alone but im telling you...they aint really what i would class as bf material the ones who go for the genuine things in a person and like a girl for who she is are the ones who matter. just be yourself not many guys like women who are fake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): I like a girl with a nice personality who is smart and funny who is good to talk to but she must have a nice pair of boobs too
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (17 July 2006):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt sounds like you all want the perfect woman/girl lol!what can average girls do to make themsleves more sexy and attractive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): Me personally? I have to admit that i do like girls with a good body, but thats not all. She has to have A GREAT personality, Nice eyes, A beautiful smile, and I want to be able to talk to her about anything.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (17 July 2006):
 They need to remind me of my mother
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reader, Tray-c +, writes (17 July 2006):
 Ok goona break it down for you, there are 5 catorgies of attraction for women on just first appearencesHOT - Explains itselfCUTE - This is just a cute girl could be a bit shy but very friendly and approachableQUIRKY - This is being different somehow whichs attracts a lad could be your a keen pool player or your into Anime something different and originalKINKY - Into music, piercings, tattoos the works very sexySITHOT - Every girl has this, its situation hotness. It could be a friens brother that cracks onto you or a co-worker, just by the situation your in adds extra sparks
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): to me, she has to be decent (not looking - as in not being a slut and having a flirt with whoever she sees), and at the same time she has to be my best friend at the same time
thankfully i found my match ages ago - shes the best
what i like about her - her eyes, and the way i can talk about anything with her
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reader, ogga +, writes (16 July 2006):
For me it would be conifdence like anon sed if ur good looking it helps but confidence makes u seem so much more attractive. and also just being genuinely nice and want to not hurt anybody is a god thing for me. but also if i cant find something to talk about with a girl then i know it wont work out. so confidence, easy to talk 2, genuinely nioce, good looking, flirting always makes u seem moe attractive as well and more fancyable.
hope i helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2006): well i think you gotta have a good sense of humour! a naughty twinkle in your eye ( u get that when you fancy someone rotten) not too much makeup and loadsa flirting.that'll make us fancy you. but don't give away the goods too soon if you're looking for a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2006): I know i'm a girl, but I've got lots of lad mates, and they say confidence and being a good flirt is what makes them like someone. They said that having a nice body and looking good is important, but if you are confident you automatically seem so much more attractive. And being a good flirt you need to have confidence. i hope this helps.
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reader, ste +, writes (16 July 2006):
for me a girl has to have nice eyes ( dont ask y thou haha)and of course she i have to be able to get on with her easy 2 talk 2 and she has to be laid bk chilld outed thats all i ask 4 not a lot haha
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