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How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out?

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Question - (18 October 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2007)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out? She is so hot. Wow! HOT!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

You are way too young in my book to be carrying on like this, but that is up to you. Go up to her and ask her if she would like to go with you to a burger bar on pizza house, say saturday afternoon. Get to know her gradually and maybe she will want to date you in the future. But, enjoy your childhood first! This is adult stuff!!!!!

take care

xx

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (18 October 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

The fisrt thing you need to realize is that if she doesnt feel the same way for you then your frienship is NEVER going to be the same again, you might even risk losing her. So make certain before you ask her out that the feelings are mutual.

Regards

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A male reader, Trax United States +, writes (18 October 2007):

Trax agony auntwell first off, wanting to be with someone just because of looks is shallow and will ge tyou nowhere but a one night stand. and second you're between the ages of 10 and 12, come on you don't need a girlfriend yet, wait till you are at least 13, but since i am a nice person look for a reason a little less shallow and then just tell her you like her and why

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

xapathyxrebornx agony auntHoney your like 10-12...

Just go to the girl

say 'i really like you'

act a lil older and she might like you more

and then just like...help eachother at school, homework and stuff x

~Rosanna

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A female reader, Dark.Charmer Canada +, writes (18 October 2007):

Dark.Charmer agony auntOkay seriously kid you want to ask a girl out because she is "Hot" first wrong move there. Seriously you have to wanna ask her out for other reasons besides that like she is your friend so start looking at that. Think what makes you like her besides her looks. But then again it says your 10-12 so don't expect anything serious becuz well for one thing you wanna go out with a girl becuz of one thing; she is hot. But my advice to you is think about what you like about her besides that she is hot and tell her that you really like that about her and that you really wanna be her girlfriend. One thing...make sure she doesn't have a big tough boyfriend that will kick you butt!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

FIRST, may I point out that you are most likely puberty-driven in terms of having the great urgency (based on your previous unedited words) to get yourself a girlfriend, or in this case, possibly into the pants of your 10 to 12 year old 'love' interest.

For Fat Buddha's sake! [laughs] If you really need to get yourself off, do it in the privacy of your own room, doors closed, or better yet, in the bathroom with a locked door. I suggest you don't go after your friend for the reasons of possible sexual interaction with her.

However, I am sure you're going to try anyway. Oh woe is the world with the horny pre-teens. [sobs]

So if you're going to try, I suggest you try to get into a situation where you can be closer to her - eg: try to partner up with her during a project (do they have projects in grade 7 and 8?), or while she's at the playground playing tag, no wait, you kids don't play tag anymore do you? Hmm... Yeah, changing classes, recess, just get her somewhere away from others.

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