B/f proposed to me but I'm unsure since he seems addicted to porn
Q. My bf of 2.5yrs has asked me to marry him. I know most women would be absolutely giddy with happiness, yet I told him that I needed to think about it. Earlier in the year I walked in on him jacking off to porn. When we first started dating he told ...
A. 24 April 2012: I'm more concerned with the fact that the porn is coming from local girls rather than general porn sites as well as the fact that he is downloading it. Furthermore, he finds a need to hide it from you. This says that there is something wrong. ... (read in full...)
I love my friend but he is married!
Q. Hello, I'm in love with my friend and he loves me as well madly! The problem lurks in the fact that he's married !! First of all, regard the fact that we are muslims while analyzing our story ( as for the traditions, customs, etc..) Las...
A. 24 April 2012: As a Muslim, he's allowed to have up to four wives, though I'm not sure whether your country allows that. If he is allowed to have two wives, I'm not sure why you see the need to wait to marry him until after he divorces her. I don't think many ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if he's just stringing me along?
Q. Boyfriend of a yr and a half only talks about us getting together when we're retired - that 17 yrs from now! We both own separate homes now yet we spend 3-5 nights together every week. I want to be under one roof but he says nothing about our near ...
A. 24 April 2012: If he has no intention of being with you until you two retire, then it sounds like he is stringing you along. That's over a decade away. He has already decided this after a year and a half. You can always ask him about the possibility of ... (read in full...)
This four year relationship has worn me down
Q. I've been with this guy for about four years, we have had our ups and downs. He has always been extremely controlling and I have changed into this person I'm not sure is me. I used to be outgoing, fun, successful, and felt like I had things going ...
A. 24 April 2012: It sounds like you need to get out of that relationship. The most important thing is that he is controlling, and you don't feel like you're able to live your life. He's living your life for you, and it sounds like he's possibly using you for the ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me? Would it be right to pursue him?
Q. This takes place in Virginia. I'm of legal age and my former teacher and I have a weird relationship. When I had his class he would look me up and down a lot and ask me to stay after a lot. Now I just finished having his class last semester but I ...
A. 24 April 2012: This just sounds like a bad idea. Waiting 3 years to actually be with someone is generally stupid because a lot happens in even one year, especially at your age. If he continues to flirt with you, he is risking his job. If he really is in his ... (read in full...)
Why am I talking with a guy online who I don't trust?
Q. Dear cupid,I am 24 and i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years 6months ago. The problem I am having now is that I talk to this guy online. We text,talk over the phone and all. But I have no feelings for him. I just need someone to talk to. I miss ...
A. 24 April 2012: Just keep it to a friendship. It's good that you have someone to talk with about things. If you don't trust him, then leave off some of the details of your life such as if you're seeing anyone else. However, perhaps his feelings for you are real, ... (read in full...)
how long to know a person before marriage or having a relationship?
Q. I am looking for a longterm relationship. so i started to join the online dating. I am 34 age old and i like to have a family. If i meet someone in person a couple of times, and like each other, but not sure whether we are the match. should i ...
A. 24 April 2012: Being in between friends and boyfriend/girlfriend is just fine at the moment. It means that there are feelings present, but he doesn't see you as actually dating just yet. He told you that he is interested in you, so my gut says that he may just ... (read in full...)
In love with my "straight" best friend
Q. My best friend and I once had a very strange relationship. I came out to him and confessed all my feelings for him one night and he did the same to my suprise. So we had about a 4 month relationship behind his GFs back. 2 years later, we are stil...
A. 24 April 2012: Move on. You're in high school. It's important that you keep the friendship, but don't insist on having a relationship with him. If he "doesn't remember" having a relationship with you for four months, one of two things is up. Either he didn't ... (read in full...)
How do I distingush whether he likes me or just likes to have sex?
Q. I started to date a guy and wish to have a serious long term relationship. If the guy want to have sex with me? How do i distingush whether he like me or just like to have sex? How long or how many dates should have before the intimacy? thanks an...
A. 24 April 2012: Have sex with him when you are ready, but don't do it until you are absolutely sure. If you're looking for something long-term, you may want to hold off on the sex until you feel really comfortable with him. If he can't wait for the sex, then he's ... (read in full...)
Spoke to online date on the phone - he sounds effeminate!!!
Q. I met someone online and we seem to have alot in common - we both think each other is attractive and I have given him my number to call me. He has called but his voice sounds effeminate! I don't know what to think. I have gay friends and I k...
A. 24 April 2012: You're overreacting for sure. If he says he's straight, he's not gay. He may be bi, but that shouldn't mean anything if he's looking for a relationship with you. Try getting together with him in person. It may be that his voice is much different ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who has done porn?
Q. I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? ...
A. 24 April 2012: It may affect your relationships for a while, but if it's just this one time, people will get over it. It may even get you some dates from guys for a little while, though those guys may be more interested in you for your sex appeal rather than in ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't like my mom living with us and she can't live alone
Q. My 84 year old mom has lived with my husband and I for the last 22 months - my husband had agreed for her to move in but now he has a change of mind. The only time my husband ever speaks to my mom is when he bids her the time of day. He doesn't ...
A. 24 April 2012: First, stop lying to your mother. She's still your mother, which means she knows everything. Admit to her that your husband isn't fond of her living with you. However, you also need to assure her that you will continue to take care of her. Your ... (read in full...)
Should I move on with my feelings and sex drive?
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year. We are pretty good/happy together but it worries me that he never tells me he loves me he only said it twice that i can remember...but everytime i tell him i love him he replies by saying "i know" :( when we ...
A. 24 April 2012: I hate to sound harsh, but it seems like he may have lost interest in you romantically. From what you describe, he seems to like you well enough, but he doesn't seem to want sexual contact with you all the time. Perhaps this is one to keep in the ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be upset?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I really need your advice because this situation is really, really upsetting me/ making me nervous. You see, my boyfriend and I have been together for nine months and I've known him for a year, at least. He is a v...
A. 24 April 2012: Let this one go. It sounds like he was honest with you about his feelings, which is the most important thing. The fact that he has been talking with you for the past two months about marriage means the thought has crossed his mind, and he probably ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes to spend more time with his friends than me!
Q. Dear cupid My bf of 2 years likes spending time with his friends rather than with me. He is always coming up with thing or another not to spend much time with me. I know for sure that he is not cheating, but he is always hanging out with his f...
A. 24 April 2012: Some guys are more into their guy friends than into their girlfriends. Sometimes, it's a matter of how long they have known their buddies versus how long they have known you. Other times, people are more comfortable with one gender or the other. ... (read in full...)
how long to know a person before marriage or having a relationship?
Q. I am looking for a longterm relationship. so i started to join the online dating. I am 34 age old and i like to have a family. If i meet someone in person a couple of times, and like each other, but not sure whether we are the match. should i ...
A. 23 April 2012: Nothing says you couldn't see another person a few times, just to make sure your feelings for your current interest are genuine. I'd suggest that you go on a date or two with the other person, and then start up a casual relationship with your ... (read in full...)
He's a workaholic, what do I do?
Q. I am dating someone that is a major workaholic. He told me this when we first began dating but I'm now seeing it first hand. We've gotten along great up until about 1 month ago when he began having alot of problems at work and all his time is taken ...
A. 23 April 2012: He wanted to see you even though he's extremely busy with work. That's a sign that you do matter to him. Not hearing from him for a week may be because he is still busy with his job. Ride it out a little. If you realize that you need a boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that my boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends mum?
Q. Is it wierd that my boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends mum about how much he misses the family? Let me give you some background.. He was with the girl for about a year and a half and, as it was a long distance relationship he would often go...
A. 23 April 2012: It was fair to bring it up with him. It is curious why he would remain in contact with the family of an ex. However, this does not mean that he still has romantic feelings for his ex or that he has not moved on from the relationship. I have a ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my TA and he seems to reciprocate them, but he is in a relationship
Q. First of all, he's my TA. We are both in our early to mid 20s, so age isn't too much of a factor. I've also been getting very high A's in the class, so grades don't make a difference either. I've always thought he was cute, but didn't start getting ...
A. 23 April 2012: As a TA, I know this sort of thing happens all the time. Male TAs are more likely to be attracted to female students, but as a female TA, I have known some of my male students to be attracted to me. Sometimes, the student has genuine feelings, ... (read in full...)
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