How important is the look of "it"?
Q. Help .... I'm about to enter into a physical relationship with a new man after a long marriage and I need to know . How important is the appearance of a woman's vagina to a man Most of the ones I've seen in porn look very similar and much tidier t...
A. 11 May 2014: I genuinely don't think it matters or that they even notice - all women are going to be slightly different in terms of shapes/ sizes so I don't think there's a "normal" to compare it to anyway, even if they did! Porn isn't meant to be realistic, ... (read in full...)
Haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday, worrying that something's happened to him!
Q. This is probably more of a vent-my-feelings post than anything else, but I suppose I'm also looking for reassurance! I'm 22, he's 26, in a serious relationship etc. We're going on holiday together next week and I'm going out of my mind that somethin...
A. 28 October 2013: Thank you. We're generally very good with communication/ letting each other know if there's an issue/ how we're feeling etc, I just don't want to come accross badly for worrying. He had sent me a text at about midday Sunday (which I didn't receive,... (read in full...)
Haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday, worrying that something's happened to him!
Q. This is probably more of a vent-my-feelings post than anything else, but I suppose I'm also looking for reassurance! I'm 22, he's 26, in a serious relationship etc. We're going on holiday together next week and I'm going out of my mind that somethin...
A. 27 October 2013: Posted earlier but didn't make clear I was the OP - everything's ok and I got hold of him the third time I tried. He's been ill for the past week or so and has basically been in bed all weekend, which I don't think is an excuse for at least not ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend constantly accuses me of cheating and I don't know why!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am twenty years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. Shortly after we got together, I became pregnant. Through out out relationship we have had problems as all couples do, but it has been worse here lately. He ...
A. 18 April 2013: Have you considered the possibility that he's cheated/ is cheating on you? Cheaters tend to become jealous/ paranoid that their partner is cheating on them because they know that they're doing it and getting away with it, so they think you might be ... (read in full...)
He's still with his girlfriend, so why is he still seeing me? Does he like me?
Q. I was seeing a guy about 3 years ago and we never broke it off In bad terms we just fell apart .. So he ended up with someone and i was really happy for him so last year i messaged him and we spoke about the past and he asked if he could come ove...
A. 14 April 2013: Any guy who cheats on his girlfriend with you, on the minor chance that he leaves her for you, will just do the same thing to you. Stop sleeping with him, he doesn't like you in that way - you're just an easy way for him to have sex. Cut contact... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend continue to be friends with this woman? It really upsets me
Q. Hi. I really think this is a serious problem but I don't know if it's just me or not. My boyfriend is friends with a woman who doesn't like me and bullied me in High School (my boyfriend did not go to our school). He met her through friend...
A. 11 April 2013: Why didn't you show your boyfriend the messages from the girl? If he would believe this girl over your word I'd say that's a problem in itself. Personally if I was in this situation I'd have a frank conversation with him about it, but like the othe... (read in full...)
Is neck kissing a turn on for guys? Or just girls?
Q. Is neck kissing a turn on for guys? Or just girls?...
A. 1 April 2013: The guy I'm dating loves it!... (read in full...)
Want to break up with controlling boyfriend but I lost my friends, my support since he told me "you only need me."
Q. Hey everyone im 18yrs old and i been dating my boyfriend for 3yrs. Its been an off and on relationship for years. At first he was everything i always wanted gave me all his love and affection. We use to have a billion and one things to talk about ...
A. 29 March 2013: Get rid of him right this second.!!! I've been in a somewhat similar situation (all the double standards - I 'wasnt allowed' to have male friends yet he could talk to whoever he wanted - turned out he was cheating on me). It's not going to get bett... (read in full...)
Why do women treat nice guys badly?
Q. hi, to all you women who say you want to meet a nice guy, but when you do, you treat him like sh.t, but a bad guy comes around you fall madly in love, you all say thats not true, but think about it,a nice guy you know what hes going to say, what hes ...
A. 28 March 2013: http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI
Just because you're a nice guy doesn't necessarily mean you have everything that women should want; just like certain things about women will either attract you or not. You most likely have a type and... (read in full...)
I keep forgetting not to expect any favors from him!
Q. Dear Cupid Whenever i ask my bf of 3 yrs for a favours like picking me up from office or doing some errands for me, he will pick up a fight and stop talking to me for days. I have to beg him to talk to me. I stopped asking him for any help or favo...
A. 19 March 2013: He has absolutely no respect for you if he's making you BEG for him to talk to you again. From past experience of this sort of childish behaviour in a 'partner' I'd want out of this sort of situation because you deserve to be with someone who treats ... (read in full...)
What can I text to him to keep the conversation going and get asked out on a date?
Q. A few months ago I had a one night stand with a guy I met at a bar and it sounds stupid but I felt like we had a connection and he said he'd call but never did. I forgot about it and didn't think anything of it but I was out on Saturday and I forgot ...
A. 18 March 2013: You should just let it go - if he wanted to date you he would've called like he said he did after your ONS/ wouldn't have wanted to just sleep with you after you just met.
"no problem. I hope you had a good night" sounds pretty dismissive - he didn... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or are the rumors getting to my head?
Q. ok so im 14 and ive been dating this guy for about a week and stuff. im already hearing rumors that he is flirting with other girls and stuff behind my back. I went home sick today and i had like 4 different people tell me that he is telling my ...
A. 14 March 2013: Ditch him. People like that will only get worse. You're only 14 - no need to rush trying to find a boyfriend! ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with him. How can I manage this situation when he's threatened to harm himself if I break up with him?
Q. so there is this guy that i dated for a few months and i honestly cant seem to get over my ex (before him) , the new guy doesnt realize i no longer wanna be with him i told him over and over again but he thinks im just messing around he doesnt ...
A. 11 March 2013: My ex used to pull this one all the time. 'My life's not worth living without you... you'll have to deal with the consequences' blah blah blah. I think unless he has given you any indication of being unstable before, like the other poster said the... (read in full...)
Why is my husband playing games? I feel like crying when he does these things to me.
Q. My husband is very manipulative. If I'm listening to my music, and I walk out of the room to do something (like the washing). I'll come back in and find my music has been turned off. The lights are off. I ask him, what are you doing? His repl...
A. 3 March 2013: Why would that make you want to cry? He's probably just trying to save electricity... If you go out to do the washing, you're probably around 10 minutes or more - it's quite reasonable for him to pass by the room, see that you're not in there and ... (read in full...)
Continuous bleeding for 1 month after taking emergency contraceptive pill.. NORMAL?
Q. I had protected sex with my partner in the 2nd week of jan. Within 12 hours i took an emergency contraceptive pill. within 1 week after this i started getting slight vaginal bleeding from around 14 or 15 of jan.On 26 jan we again had unprotected sex ...
A. 19 February 2013: Obviously just go to the doctor about the bleeding, and do it soon in case it's serious.
FYI - even on your period, you still need protection to avoid getting pregnant/ diseases. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a fool for taking my ex back but I don't want to abandon him either! I don't know what to do
Q. My ex and I split from 3 years together because I found out he cheated on me over a year ago (several times) and has been inappropriately messaging other girls ever since. We've been talking since we split, and even hoped to be able to patch things ...
A. 12 February 2013: Thanks for the replies - the title is a little misleading, just to be clear I don't want to get back together with him.
My problem now is that HE won't let me go, despite me telling him repeatedly it has to be that way as it's best for the both... (read in full...)
If he is getting help for his problems, would it be so bad if I took him back in a year or so?
Q. I posted a question a few days ago, but here is an update. I knew my boyfriend of 3 years was lying to me about certain things so I got access to his email account on Friday night, then did the same thing to his facebook account. I found dozens a...
A. 8 January 2013: Thank you for your response; I too said that when I was ripping into him about it, but I do think his response was genuine. He has been completely honest about everything and has told me everything I've wanted to know - he went to the doctor this ... (read in full...)
Bf cheats and lies. I'm scared that breaking up will leave a void. How do I get the courage to leave?
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me a year and a bit ago and I only recently found out. We broke up last January and got back together in May. I found out about the cheating 3 months ago after his sister had enough of his behaviour and set me s...
A. 5 January 2013: Well today I hacked into his email (to delete any private pictures he might still have had of me so he can't use them as leverage) and saw he'd sent a video of himself masturbating to some girl like a couple of weeks ago. Then I realised since I was ... (read in full...)
Bf cheats and lies. I'm scared that breaking up will leave a void. How do I get the courage to leave?
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me a year and a bit ago and I only recently found out. We broke up last January and got back together in May. I found out about the cheating 3 months ago after his sister had enough of his behaviour and set me s...
A. 5 January 2013: Thanks for the response, I know it's not ok - and the fact that he has been able to act head over heels in love with me all the while knowing what he has done and continuously lying to my face just makes it 10000x worse. How will I ever be able t... (read in full...)
Why does this guy not respond to my text when I ask a question?
Q. Hi there and thank you for the response back. There is this guy that I like that has this annoying habit of not responding to text messages when I ask a question. For example, tonight he sent me a text message where he was complaining about b...
A. 5 January 2013: The only thing I can think of is that he's not as interested in you as you are in him. It was a little rude of him to not ask how your day was after you asked him!
Not texting back seems to be a classic 'he's just not that into you' sign. Just leav... (read in full...)
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