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writes:A few months ago I had a one night stand with a guy I met at a bar and it sounds stupid but I felt like we had a connection and he said he'd call but never did. I forgot about it and didn't think anything of it but I was out on Saturday and I forgot to lock my phone and then I noticed the next day in missed calls that my phone called him from my purse and he answered. I texted him saying "sorry, I think my phone accidentally called you last night" and he texted back "no problem. I hope you had a goodnight" and then we started making small talk about what we did on the weekend. I want to keep this going and I'd like to see him again (preferably as a date and not just sex) but our conversation sort of ended yesterday and I can't think of anything else to say to him. Should I just let it go or try asking him out?
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (19 March 2013):
 I agree with everyone else. He was polite but distant and the conversation fizzled out. Leave it at that. Contacting him again will only make you look desperate, so save yourself the rejection and delete his number. Want better for yourself.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 March 2013):
 I agree Just let it go...
if he was interested he would have contacted you after the first encounter
in fact, delete his info from your phone....
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reader, orchidkid +, writes (18 March 2013):
 Well, yeah, like the other person said, it's best you forget about that guy before you get your heart and mind into it.
A text like that from him sounds pretty much polite but very neutral, I don't think he really wants to date you. If he wanted he'd call you.
I have a guy friend and he acts similar with girls he meets.
Best of luck next time ;)
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reader, ThinkingOverdrive +, writes (18 March 2013):
You should just let it go - if he wanted to date you he would've called like he said he did after your ONS/ wouldn't have wanted to just sleep with you after you just met.
"no problem. I hope you had a good night" sounds pretty dismissive - he didn't make any attempt at starting a conversation. Forget this one - there are plenty of men out there who will be interested!
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