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writes:Yesterday I gave my crush a Christmas gift that he loved. Maybe I didn’t give it to him but he got it because I gave it to his cousin and my best friend g. He thanked me by texting right after he got it. He said that it was a good surprise. I told him that I liked him a while back and he’s still friends with me. I make him laugh he makes me laugh. Yesterday we texted all night until I fell asleep on him for the first time in months. It made me happy knowing he loved the gift I gave him. I will never expect him to get me anything though but I never know he could do something for my birthday which is in two months. Was it wrong of me to get him something? If I wanted to get him something because I like him and I never know if he feels the same. He has tons of friends who are girls and I get jealous when he’s around them because I’m afraid that he will choose them instead of me. Is that normal to be jealous of your crushes friends? I try to not be jealous if he does something for one of his friends or lets his friends do stuff to him like draw on him or take his picture with them. But it shocks me that our friendship is different. I don’t know I just have a different feeling about our friendship than his other friends. When he makes a joke he always looks at me to make sure I am laughing. We smile at each other all the time and make long eye contact. If I make long eye contact he just smiles. He likes the fact that I talk about stuff we both like. When I talk about family guy he smiles and we laugh together about episodes that were funny.
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reader, TheDarkDoc  +, writes (25 December 2009):
 Sure its normal to get jealous, BUT be take care this might put you in troubles, so you have to control this feeling and yes i think you should talk to him about how you feel, at least you can know how he feels !!! Wish you all the best and good luck ;)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 December 2009):
Of course it's okay to be jealous, so long as you're not crazy about it and so long as you understand they are his friends (which I think you do). The only way to find out how he feels is to ask him. So be brave and see where it goes.
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