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female
age
30-35,
*rissichavous
writes:So, a couple of weeks ago, me, my best friend named kate, and her boyfriend named Chad were at her house just talking, laughing, and watching tv, and she went into the kitchen for a snack and me and him kind of clicked, because we started talking about things, about my relationship with another guy named nick, how i didn't know if he wanted to be with me or not. I couldn't help but flirt with him a little, like any guy can tell the way I flirt with my voice, but I tried to let my best friend not notice after all I am a girl that moves on pretty fast, so im not very interested in that guy anymore, besides my best friend and her boyfriend broke up and ive been noticing him more and more now at school lately. Like today for instance, I glanced at him while seeing him down the hallway, and he was staring dead at me! it was kind of weird though, because a whole lot of other people were walking to their classes too, so he couldn't have been staring at me for no reason, right? But to me, its kind of awkward because hes the one that broke up with my best friend, and she's so hurt about it, she even cut her wrists with her finger nails. I mean she loved him alot. But they weren't together very long, I think it was just puppy love, something she will get over in a week or two, after all she was acting soo hyper and happy today. like nothing was wrong what so ever. So, I cant tell her about this. It would ruin us for life probably. Plus, the guy I was talking to named nick, is chads brother, the one i like now! I mean, why would Nick be so bothered about it IF he ever did find out? It was his loss he didn't talk to me anyways.. so anyways, i finally found Chads number and I was wondering if I should text him first, or wait until he tries to get my number from somebody else. After all, he doesnt know I like him yet, but im going to give him clues at school. (: tell me what you think I should do! ahah thankks.
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reader, TheDarkDoc  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 Hi there !! I'm not writing here to give you any sort of lectures !!! But if you really care about your friend you just should take out that idea of your head !! You have to choose between the guy who seems playing or your best friend who seems so hurt because of what happened to her !!! The last thing that poor girl needs right now is a friend that hurt her by having a relationship with the guy she loved !! Can u imagine that's happening to you ?!! How would you feel !!! So Plz just find your self somebody else but not this guy !!
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