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writes:Last night i may have done something stupid. I was in the car with my ex-boyfriend who I often hook up with, we were fooling around and he really wanted to have sex. It was quite cramped and he didnt have a condom on so I kept saying no initially. However at one point he penetrated me unprotected - it can only have been for about ten seconds, it wasnt deep and as soon as I realised what he was trying to do I made him pull out and find a condom. He didnt ejaculate or anything, but i'm still freaking out that I could be pregnant.I know that even though he didnt ejaculate i could still become pregnant from pre-cum, but he says there was none of that because he can feel it?! I know that I could get the morning after pill, but i'm kind of reluctant to do so because I've already taken it twice in the past 18 months (even though this is the first time i've ever gone unprotected - my problem is I get extremely neurotic about the possibility of pregnancy!) Can taking the morning after pill too many times affect your fertility? Would it be a good idea to get it again? And is it even likely that i'm pregnant at all?! Any help would be much appreciated. I know that the morning after pill is not intended to be used as contraception, but only in emergencies - and I really do plan to start being much more careful from now on. I would just really love some advice because knowing me, this will now become a worry for the rest of the month!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 "Can taking the morning after pill too many times affect your fertility?"
"The makers of Levonelle (Morning after pill or Plan B ) may well state that there's no reason why a woman shouldn't take it once every cycle, but on a cautionary note we don't know what the long-term effects of these hormonal preparations are for woman's health and fertility.
It is prudent not to be too dependent on this drug as a contraceptive method.
Guys do not feel if they leaked precum. Some even cannot feel when they have cummed.They think they could stop it cumming.
There is a very low risk of getting pregnant if it is only 10 seconds but we cannot be 100% because there could be a minute chance that you can become pregnant .
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-485303/The-women-use-morning-pill-everyday-contraception.html#ixzz0ksDRfeq3
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reader, TheDarkDoc  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 Yes !! Or at least i do !!!
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 No.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 April 2010):
Generally speaking, no man can feel pre-cum. And quit having sex with your ex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): You know the question that begs to be asked here is this: Why are you having sex with you ex? Why are you letting this guy get in your pants! In a car no less?! Why are you allowing yourself to be used and risk pregnancy on top of that?
There is a thing called self-respect. Try to get some. Ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): I can't speak for evey man but personally I can't feel when I precum, I can feel the wetness if I precum outside the vagina but when it's inside the vagina there's no sensation when I precum.
I dont see how he feels it, as I know no man that does when it's in the vagina. I can say though that I always have precum and if he does then it's safe to assume he did.
As to your other questions I'm afriad I can't help you, try google ad perhaps some of the Aunts here can help you with those.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): First off, your scumbag ex-boyfriend RAPED you-ie. he tried to have sex with you after you repeatedly said "no." Get away from him is my first advice.
To answer your question, I rarely can tell if I pre-cummed, usually the only indication will be that my penis will feel wet at the end, or if I am wearing something, my boxers will have a little wet spot in them.
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reader, pipsta  +, writes (10 April 2010):
Normally no, a guy can not feel pre-cum, as it is released in much the same way as female discharge, t during sex, a guy can't feel his 'wetness', due to the females own lubrication.
I suggest taking a morning after pill, as there could be a small possibility you can become pregnant from pre-cum, and its always better to be safe than sorry.
:)
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (10 April 2010):
Bad news... pre-come simply leaks out during sex... there's zero feeling attached to it's arrival. You'd best start being REALLY CAREFUL about now... but odds are good you're fine.
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