I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him but now he doesn't care if he's with me, what does this mean?
Q. Okay I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him but now he doesn't care if he's with me, what does this mean?...
A. 7 August 2007: All the women said everything I wanted to say already. Good stuff.
And don't forget that some BOYS at this age feel like they have got to take as many virginities as they can so they can be viewed as some sort of hero by his friends. Very sad... (read in full...)
I'm wondering, how long should an orgasm last... and other things about female twiddling
Q. Hi im 17 and i feel like a loser for asking this but im not sure how to masterbate? Ive always been a late developer and felt embarssed about sex but now im ok with it and ive been masterbating for a few years but ive never once "cum". What am i ...
A. 7 August 2007: I don't think you're doing anything wrong. I think one of the main factors that drive orgasm is intensity - which will also determine how long it lasts. The more intense the orgasm, the longer it seesm to last. What do girls do when they mastur... (read in full...)
Should I have sex before I'm married?
Q. Okay I need help from all the other Christians!! I have a problem and it is really worrying me. I am a Christian and I really want to wait until I am married to have sex, but, I am worried that I will be tempted. And I want to do the right thing by ...
A. 6 August 2007: I'm not going to attack the comments made here - because they're terribly misguided. And I'm not going to start quoting the bible because then I'd be here all morning typing and I need to go to work :) I will say this. You said you want to do t... (read in full...)
Be honest... do men like larger women?
Q. please help! do men honestly like larger women? im confused, im a bigger girl myself and seem to have no problem in finding guys who just want to be friends but nothing more? ...
A. 6 August 2007: Oh there are definitely men out there who enjoy larger women. I myself used to date larger women (although now my tastes have changed).
You just need to find a guy who finds all your curves attractive. And you should be loving all your cur... (read in full...)
I'm a confused male who is questioning his sexual orientation!
Q. I'm a confused male (20), who is questioning his sexual orientation. I guess there must be a million or more of these type of posts but I really don't know who to turn to about this. Basically my story is this, at the moment I consider myself a...
A. 6 August 2007: No - there are some guys who are put off by seeing two women together. You're trying to be like other men when clearly you are a unique individual.
Being asexual has nothing to do with impotence or erectile dysfunction. It's how other species ... (read in full...)
I'm a confused male who is questioning his sexual orientation!
Q. I'm a confused male (20), who is questioning his sexual orientation. I guess there must be a million or more of these type of posts but I really don't know who to turn to about this. Basically my story is this, at the moment I consider myself a...
A. 5 August 2007: Sound pretty straight to me! However, you never said what watching a man and woman having sex does for you. You've watched/looked at gay/lesbian porn, but you didn't talk about straight porn. Does straight porn turn you on?
Asexual? I think it... (read in full...)
It physically hurts my girlfriend when we have sex.
Q. Cupid, Thanks for hearing out my question. I'm a 17 year old male from New York City, turning 18 soon. I met this girl three months ago and started going out with her a week later; I really connect and click with her. I was a virgin until recently...
A. 5 August 2007: I like your last sentence "...Or, is the solution just to wait?". I say stop and wait (for marriage) - which is coming from the religious side of me.
However, if she's experiencing that much pain during sex, she should see her OB/GYN.
Also, m... (read in full...)
I feel embarrassed because of my virginity
Q. I use to go out with a guy a long time ago for nearly a year. we broke up and then he went out with my best friend - which hurt me alot. Eventually they also broke up. By no means is he a great catch or anything but he continues to get girlfriend ...
A. 5 August 2007: Oh sweetheart - self confidence comes from within, no one can really tell YOU how to feel about YOU. But...
...Why are you feeling disgusting for NOT losing your virginity to this loser!? You should feel great and happy inside that you're k... (read in full...)
how do i know if my boyfriend is just ejaculating or having an orgasm ?
Q. how do i know if my boyfriend is just ejaculating or having an orgasm ?...
A. 5 August 2007: No, not one in the same. A man can ejacualte WHILE having and orgasm as well as orgasm WHILE ejaculating - but one doesn't necessarily mean the other is happening. Some men (I just did this recently) can orgasm without ejaculating. Very intense. ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with another mans baby, but my husband wants to raise it.
Q. I've been with my husband for 9 years. We have had a rought couple years where he was very withdrawn and neglecting. I started having an affair w/ a co-worker for about 7 months and he left to work out of state. The last night we were intimate , I go...
A. 5 August 2007: Yummy got it right. Your husband IS a very special man to want to raise a child he knows is not his. A special man indeed. Stop worrying about your 'lover' and worry about your marriage. If your husband is ready to move forward and keep his mar... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has trouble with sex because of his weight and when I tried to help, he got angry
Q. My boyfriend has become quite overweight, mostly around his belly, and finds sex akward becaus of it. The weight is from prescription pills, and not his fault, and he cant stop the medication either, he has to take it for many more months. He gets ...
A. 5 August 2007: Continue to be there for him. Be kind and gentle - loving and caring. Reminding him that you don't care about the weight thing. Just keep at it. Daniel said it best about him needing some time. He needs continued support. Once he finally ... (read in full...)
I want a divorce but my husband scared me by telling me how angry God will be
Q. I asked my husband for a divorce and he started spewing out a bunch biblical stuff at me, telling me God was going to punish me and my whole life will be cursed after this. He really freaked me out. I don't want to anger God by filing for divorce ...
A. 5 August 2007: I had to chime in one more time on this one...
Be very careful of the advice given here regarding God. I agree with only a few things said here, but Dr. Pete made one suggestion I absolutely agree with
"..if you are a religious or chu... (read in full...)
I want a divorce but my husband scared me by telling me how angry God will be
Q. I asked my husband for a divorce and he started spewing out a bunch biblical stuff at me, telling me God was going to punish me and my whole life will be cursed after this. He really freaked me out. I don't want to anger God by filing for divorce ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hmm. Went through the same thing myself recently - my wife wanting to leave me and me not wanting God to be angry at ME. Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 states very clearly when divorce is acceptable.. "whosoever shall put away his wife (or husband) e... (read in full...)
I told him not to "nut" in me... but he did! And now I'm worried about the baby...
Q. Okay i'm 8 months pergnant and i had sex with my baby father. i told him to take his dick out before he nut. he claim that it felt too good. and he "nut" in me. I was wondering is that dangerous because this is my first baby. and i wondering if that ...
A. 4 August 2007: His 'nut' will not harm the baby. At all. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Does body fat effect penis size?
Q. Am I to fat? I am 165 pounds and is 5'5 foot tall I think. Well am I too fat cuz my girlfriend is 2 inches shorter than me and is 150 pounds sooo are we an obese couple? And does body fat effect penis size?...
A. 3 August 2007: Your BMI (Body Mass Index - a number that healthcare professionals use) is 27.5. So you fall in the 'overweight' category and not the 'obese' category.
Are you too fat? If you like/love how you look, then by all means go with it. No one can ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I kind jackoff 5 times a week, and I've noticed that I never cum...
Q. masturbation and another question...... yea I'm 13 and I kind jackoff 5 times a week, and I've noticed that I never cum. I think I did once but it was like a centimeter long and very hard and dry. I have been drinking water sooooo wat should...
A. 3 August 2007: Umm, you and your girlfriend DO NOT need to have sex to make memories together. There are plenty of fun things you can do together that you will remember for years to come - you just need to find things you both like doing and do them with ... (read in full...)
I used to try and use a tampon and it hurt and I couldn't use it. But after my boyfriend fingered me I could use one. Is that normal?
Q. Ok well I used to try and use a tampon and it hurt and I couldn't use it. But after my boyfriend fingered me I could use one. Is that normal? Because I don't think that is normal should I get checked out by the doctor?...
A. 3 August 2007: I don't think you need a doctor. Your boyfriend probably tore your hymen completely or enough that you can now insert a tampon without pain (the pain coming from the tearing of the hymen 'cherry popping'). This doesn't mean you're not a virgin ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't come during sex any more
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months. The sex always seemed great to me..and at first he would cum. Now he never does. It's been almost 3 weeks since he came...I feel like I am doing something wrong. Please help?...
A. 2 August 2007: Could be he wants to hold off orgasm so that when he does cum it feels GRAND!
Or it could be that he's stressed out about something and his mind is not really on his pleasure but is more focused on yours.
Or there could be some physical issues ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant from toilet paper with sperm on it?
Q. can a 17 year old girl get pregnant if there is sperm on toilet paper?...
A. 2 August 2007: Well. If the sperm is just ON the toilet paper - no she can't get pregnant. However, if she USES that same toilet paper with semen on it and wipes her vagina with it - YES she can get pregnant. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
I am 15 and would like to have sex
Q. Hi. I am thinking of having sex soon, first time. I'm 15 and i'm worried whether a condom is enough or do i HAVE to go on the pill? Answers?...
A. 2 August 2007: I'm just gonna say wait. That's all. Wait, until your married so that you're doing it the right way. Wait.... (read in full...)
I have to masturbate to climax even after 1-2 hour sex sessions... is this normal?
Q. I can't seem to ejaculate while having sex i have to masterbate to climax. Me an my fiancee usually have sex for one to two hours and i have to masterbate to climax what could be done to help with this or is it normal. ...
A. 1 August 2007: Daniel might be on to something. However, how often do you masturbate vs how often do you have sex? The ratio could have a direct effect if the ratio of masturbation to sex is high. Reason being is you've gotten used to a certain touch, with a ... (read in full...)
The condom split and I did get my period. But could I be pregnant still?
Q. hi im 18, last sunday (15th july) i had sex with my boyfriend, but the condom split, i started my period yesterday (22nd july) is there any chance i could be pregnant? or does the period show a definate no? please help...
A. 1 August 2007: A period does NOT indicate that you are not pregnant! No, no, no. There are many cases where women have had periods throughout the entire pregnancy! So this is not indicator.
Go and get tested.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
If his semen comes out of me after sex, is my chance of conceiving reduced?
Q. i have been sexually active for a year with my partner,as it is both our first times we are unsure if the semen is supposed to come back out of my vagina after intercourse?it appears to be all of his semen and we are trying for a baby at the ...
A. 1 August 2007: So the answer to your question would be, yes - your chances are reduced. How significantly reduced is left to debate.
And like everyone said, you can do things like lie still for a few minutes after he's finished. Try raising your hips on a pil... (read in full...)
She thinks she's pregnant!? All she did was suck me off while I used a condom!!
Q. Argh... my girlfriend's freakin out coz she thinks shes pregnant! and now she has me worried. she cant be pregnant from suckin me off while wearin a condom can she? but thats not the only things shes worried about becoz i went down on her and ...
A. 1 August 2007: Wellllll... It IS possible to get pregnant from oral sex. However, the only way this happens is if she went down on you WITHOUT a condom, or she somehow got semen in her mouth - then kissed you - thus exchanging the semen from her mouth to you... (read in full...)
At 12 weeks pregnant, is it okay for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me?
Q. we are expecting our first baby, i am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me, can it harm our baby....
A. 1 August 2007: So is the question of sex harming the baby or ejaculate harming the baby? Anyway, neither one will harm the baby. You'll be fine. And I'm not sure about vaginal infections from semen if you let it "just sit up there". The whole purpose of... (read in full...)
It was only pre cum.
Q. i had unprotected sex with my partner three weeks ago but he didn't come only precome, i've been feeling sick lately. Do i have a high chance of being pregnant?...
A. 1 August 2007: Happytochat hit it on the head.
The chances of pregnancy from precum are slim. There is debate on whether sperm are in precum or not - and if so how much. The male ejaculates a large amount of sperm because of the physiology of the female b... (read in full...)
I enjoyed her touching me, does it mean i'm bi?
Q. I'm 16 nearly and one night i was drunk and me and my boyfriend and my mate were at mine, my girl mate started touching me sexually and i enjoyed it! we done many things does this mean im bisexual or is it just the drink?...
A. 1 August 2007: Could be the drink. Alcoholic drinks lowers inhibition levels and allows people to do things they otherwise would not do when sober. OR you could have just enjoyed the experience. It doesn't make you bi, it makes you girl who got touched by ... (read in full...)
Can sex in the shower harm my baby?
Q. Hi guys. I am now 10 weeks pregnant. :) I am very happy with my married life, but my partner wants to have sex with me every day. I am okay with that. BUt yesterday he asked me to have every type of sex there is in the shower. I am okay but is it ...
A. 1 August 2007: You're absolutely fine. Sex - ANY sex, as well as sex in the shower is harmless to your baby.
So have fun with all those orgasms during your pregnancy (there are theories to women who have active sex lives during pregnancy having easier b... (read in full...)
Can i give consent to sex?
Q. ok im 16 and i want to know if i can give consent to have sex?? i live in orgeon....
A. 1 August 2007: No you cannot. The age of consent in your state is 18.
But I think you can wait, right? I mean, you've waited this long. A little longer won't hurt.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
I want to talk to my daughter to suport her but she seems to keep things from me. What should I do?
Q. hi everyone hope you can help me with this well this lad and my daughter are best friends and have been since they were in infant school, they are both 16 now. Well he stays with us a lot even thought he only lives a 5minute walk away as he doesn't ...
A. 1 August 2007: Good answer Helen! OR, maybe there's nothing to hide. Maybe nothing sexual happened. Maybe they were just up talking and fell asleep. We often times forget that teenagers can have relationships that doesn't involve sexual contact. But... (read in full...)
My boyfriend needs to last a bit longer
Q. Someone please help me out. I have been on here before with somewhat of the same question. I have told my boyfriend that I aint satisfied with sex. He dont last long he last maybe less then a mintue sometiems a minute at most. I hate it I just dont ...
A. 1 August 2007: Well, telling him you're not satisfied with his performance all the time sure isn't going to help. Now he's gonna develop performance anxiety (if he hasn't already). I agree with quarky, do a search online for different techniques and a... (read in full...)
Was she lying to me about never having anal sex before?
Q. She says shes never had anal sex before, but when we tried it there was no difficulty getting it in. Is she telling the truth or lying? will i b able 2 trust her if she is lying plz help me...
A. 1 August 2007: Maybe she read a lot of articles and books or whatever on anal sex and knew how to prepare herself for it. Maybe she prepared her "tight little a$$" with a buttplug or something before you came over to cornhole her. All I'm saying is, you n... (read in full...)
Does it hurt her or is it pleasurable?
Q. i am a 35 year old healthy male. married. having great sex (weekly 5-6 times). my wife screams and shout loudly while she climaxes. after couple of minutes, she become normal and she does not remember that she had screamed. she says, she had ...
A. 31 July 2007: Her orgasms may be REALLY intense - or you're just one hell of a lover. You choose.
I think she's fine. Doesn't seem like pain at all.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
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