How can I get condoms discretely?
Q. i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store...
A. 5 November 2009: See if you can find some free condoms when you look up online free samples of condoms.
They got sent to us one time.
Also you are way to young to have sex, or pay for a baby so try to wait for a long time... Your body is not even fully develope... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he likes me!
Q. I really like this guy who is two years older than me. I told his cousin, who is my friend, and she told him. He doesnt want a relationship because he doesn't want to get hurt. I've been cheated on four times and well here I am trying again. He's ...
A. 5 November 2009: Always just keep your cool, be easy breezy and smile say hi and flip your hair alittle when you see him oh always smell good too be very girly. If he likes you he will come up and talk to you. You can always give him a wink to let him know its ok ... (read in full...)
How can I encourage my boyfriend to drive to see me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and we both live an hour away from each other. In the 3 months that we have known each other, I have always driven to see him weekly (sometimes twice a week), and he's only driven down to see me ...
A. 5 November 2009: The man should chase you. Do you want to spend all the time going to him.. A man falls in love during the time he is away from you. So yes make him come to you, he does not make the rules.One month would be great to figure out if he loves you at ... (read in full...)
Are breast implants attractive to men?
Q. I am in great shape and all natural. As women we are inundated with images of women with the perfect breast implants. Women are getting boob jobs all the time. Honestly, to the men out there are breast implants attractive. Do they look fake? ...
A. 30 October 2009: Like I stated before and I am sure the reader understands what I am saying, its pretty basic, Men love boobs of all sizes, shapes and colors on all types of women....she never said she was going to get them and I did not suggest that, just do men ... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: Hopefully you two can work it all out if you discuss the problem in detail and you both agree on a solution. Its hard to keep the faith sometimes, but I know you can. Its fine to keep an eye on him until you have built back the trust. If you keep... (read in full...)
Has anyone tried the kegel master?
Q. Has anyone every tired the kegal master if so does it really work? I am tryin to get a tighter vagina! help ...
A. 30 October 2009: Not sure if it works but I have tightened those muscles before it feels just like your doing reps for your stomach but down there. I just tighten them during sex, its great, we both can feel it. Men love a smart girl with big boobs too. ... (read in full...)
Am I the right size?
Q. What is the right girth for a 16 year old?...
A. 30 October 2009: You have not stopped growing yet as a young man your body is still young. Your ears or nose still grow until your twenty five.. Just DO NOT do any drugs that may stunt your growth process.... There is no answer to that question. It is what it is. I ... (read in full...)
Help! Am I just being paranoid?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together over a year now, everythings been great, but just recently he's been texting other girls.. he tells me who they are and that they're just friends, but he never spoke to them at the begining of the relationship, ...
A. 30 October 2009: Just discuss it with him more intently if you can and tell him how you feel about it. He should not hide his phone from you or any info..Like I mentioned in another post. You dont want to spend your life, looking at his e-mails looking at his texts, ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friend I'm bi-sexual?
Q. I'm Bisexual, but haven't come out to anyone yet apart from my friend who is now my girlfriend, we got together like 3 days ago after months and months of holding back and im soooooo happy i finally have her. One thing is this weekend we decid...
A. 30 October 2009: You might not have to come out and say anything if you guys all hang out together one day or night she might be able to tell for herself,if you two are holding hands or something then she can ask you questions about it later or then.
But dont be a... (read in full...)
Is he using his son to cross the line?
Q. Well thing between be and my boyfriend are going good now but he is moving out of his apartment this friday with no where to go. He's goal is to find a new place but hasn't yet. Until then he wanted to stay at he's sisters house whom he had lived ...
A. 30 October 2009: well help him find a place to live fast or if you want him to move in with you right now just ask him its fine if you really like/love him and want him to.
Maybe he is waiting for you to ask him or maybe he already planned to move in with you. Deci... (read in full...)
He wants his space and thinks I need it too!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our ...
A. 29 October 2009: To Rythmblues, Ok I will bite because you are egging me on and I find this entertaining and humarous. Which means I am laughing at you..... So again - Drop the holyer than though attitute and the self rightous BS. Oh I am so perfect - YOUR N... (read in full...)
Is it ok that I am 21 and she is 15?
Q. OK... If i am 21 can i go out with this girl that is 15 and she loves me and i love her. her parents like me and trust me, they don't mind if i go out with there daughter. I am a Cristian and i wear a purity ring and i am faithful to my promise with ...
A. 29 October 2009: No dude its not ok at all and you could actually go to jail, her parents can call the police, you can not sleep with her at all, they may think its rape, shes too young and does not get it.. Move on, end it, get out of there, Find someone your own ... (read in full...)
Are breast implants attractive to men?
Q. I am in great shape and all natural. As women we are inundated with images of women with the perfect breast implants. Women are getting boob jobs all the time. Honestly, to the men out there are breast implants attractive. Do they look fake? ...
A. 29 October 2009: Men love boobs all the time in all shapes sizes and colors usually the bigger the better... they would play with them all day long if they had them....... ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by staying with my husband?
Q. I'm very confused, and feel like my brain is not functioning properly, I make a decision know it's the right one, then change my mind. I really want your advice. Should I stay with my husband. I want to stay and be happy together, but do...
A. 29 October 2009: Yes you are doing the right thing. Get a divorce, leave him (take yourself away from him) Stop trying to please him and make him happy.Turn the table on him.. You need a break from life and yourself to just breathe. Tell him and yourself its over, ... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 29 October 2009: OMG I am so sorry that really sucks. He is probably gay or bi and just has you for a cover up.. He is addicted to porn. I would not trust him at all. You will need to check his phone everyday and his computer,and he should let you. you wont be able ... (read in full...)
Is it true that men like women with a few more curves?
Q. My b/f and I have both gained about 25 pounds since becoming involved with each other 4 years ago. (What can I say, we both love to cook, eat and drink). But I've decided enough is enough and started watching my calories and making time to work out ...
A. 29 October 2009: If you feel you are too fat then lose the weight. If he loves you he will love your body anyway. He wont lose interest.. Misery loves Company so if he thinks he is fat he may want you to be too. He may not want other men to look at you, and they ... (read in full...)
He wants his space and thinks I need it too!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our ...
A. 28 October 2009: To Rythemblues - Yes we have been happily married now for 8yrs and counting to my new husband. It was the best decision I ever made was to move, I played my cards just right. We love each other and have a happy life together. Hes even laughing at ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hasn't talked to me about getting an abortion. What should I do?
Q. My Girlfriend is going to the abortion clinic without me she is making all these decision without concerning me what should I do?...
A. 28 October 2009: Well are you going to marry her and take care of her and the baby. Do you have the time and money for a baby? Maybe she does not want you to have the burden, its her body, its her life. Maybe she wants to go to college and has other goals and ... (read in full...)
What motivates Peeping Toms? What can I do?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I have a peeping Tom. The police can't catch him. I can't sleep at night. What makes him tick? Is it because he wants me to fear him and to have control over me? ...
A. 28 October 2009: Reading that made the hairs on my neck go up. Holy shit be very very careful. Yes call the police, Make sure you get all good locks on your doors and windows... Have some men friends spend the night with you so he can see men come and go like your ... (read in full...)
My boobs are already too big...how do I stop them from growing?
Q. heyy :) ok soo my names Lacey. im 16 and a junior in high school. this is my first post sooo bare with me haha. well im 5'1" and103 lbs, i have a pretty tight body, theres jus one thing... my boobs wont stop getting bigger! ever since i was 13 they ...
A. 28 October 2009: You may grow taller and hopefully gain some more weight very soon. . Your body will change a lot in the next 5 years or so.. You must find a good bra or two at a time... If its hurting your back you may need a doctor to suggest something. But really ... (read in full...)
If he shouts abuse at me, I see red and lash out! Help!
Q. me and my partner argue alot over stupid things like eg house work and animals etc i love him to bits but if he shouts abusive words at me i see red and lash out please please help me before it gets serously out of hand i am scared ive got ...
A. 28 October 2009: He should not be saying anything abusive to you over housework... First the relationship has to be equal and everything done in the house is 50/50 everyone knows that. Dont fight over the little crap. Pull yourself together and dont get hysterical ... (read in full...)
He wants his space and thinks I need it too!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our ...
A. 28 October 2009: Wow I can not believe you are getting such a beat down on this.. Hey its me The get off your butt now girl and do something now... Well one last comment.
He seems like a mature guy for telling you his feelings and letting you know in advance what... (read in full...)
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