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writes: heyy :) ok soo my names Lacey. im 16 and a junior in high school. this is my first post sooo bare with me haha. well im 5'1" and103 lbs, i have a pretty tight body, theres jus one thing... my boobs wont stop getting bigger! ever since i was 13 they jus wont stop growing! im a 34 DD... and that bra size is getting tight... and it looks so awkward bc im so small everywhere else! =/ im so insecure because i feel like all guys look at are my boobs and people make comments like "youre so lucky!" and i jus dont think so! it makes me mad when guys make comments about them. my boyfriend even has his friends calling me "Tits". like wtf?! ive only been with him for 2 months but he has recently developed this obsession with them! he is always grabbing them and pinching them and just being rly disrespectful, even in public!so 2 questions, how can i get my boobs to jus stayyyyy this size!? i dnt want them to get any bigger! and how do i make it any more clear to my bf (hes not taking the hints like me calling him out) that its rly annoying! please helpppp!thankk uu! =)lovee, Laceyyy.
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reader, geekyone  +, writes (23 May 2011):
I can tell you this: my wife is a 40P (Yes, really), and while yes, her boobs are very large, there is so much more to her than just boobs. She went through a lot of humiliation as a young woman, and eventually got to a point where she decided that SHE defined herself, not her chest.
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reader, clickhere  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 How about telling your boyfriend off if you don't like it? Simple as that. If he goes further then he shouldn't be your boyfriend, right? Unless you like abusive relationships ;)
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reader, jiggles  +, writes (18 April 2010):
hun,they have a mind of there own,and boys,well i think there just jelious they don't have any themselves.you get to play the cards your dealt hun.i often wished i had your problem when i was younger.but i learn't to love me,as should you.in closing i'll just remind you of an old saying.boys droul girls rule
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): Hey i wanna say that i have the same issue and i kno exactly howyou feel with the name calling such as DDD, titis, pillows, balloons, boobie, even air bags. and i also got talked about and girls hated me because the guys was always looking at me because i had big boobs and that really got on my nerves and made me insecure but i got over it and now i just ignore it. i feel you on the cant find any shirts issue cuz i cant and especially i cant find any bras cuz my boobs so big i thought i was DDD and i went to get measured and found out im a G i was really like WTF and i hope that mines would stop growing. but my boyfriend on the other hand dont disrespect me he more protective about me and anything about me or my body is for him to kno only not him and his friend and i love him for that. but i just wanted you to kno that you are not alone i feel your pain. plus i also have marks all on my shoulder because of my bras tryna hold my boobs. but i wish the best for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks! =) so i went to victorias secret and got measured & actually im a 36 DDD! omggggg. ugh! i threw out all my 34 DD bras and got 3 new ones in this new size. the lady there said that wearing the bras that i was wearing was making grooves in my shoulder blades from the straps being so tight and weighed down! thats nott goodd. sooo i hope they stop growing. the woman there had a rly nice looking top half, about half the size of mine, so still full, probably a small C. it made me think how iiii want that lol.
i told my boyfriend about my new cup size because i was frustrated that they were even bigger than i thought, and he freaked out and it now flaunting my size to all his friends. first word out of his mouth when we got with his best friends was "hey tony, hows ur girl and her b's? my girl is stacking DDD's bxtch!" so i spun him around to me, slapped him, grabbed his crotch and told him "hey tony, tell your girl i said hi, me and my lil 4 inch boyfriend over here have to go." and i made him take me home. he was in SHOCK! ahahahahahahh it was ahmazing! hahah sooo funny & i think my point is made more clearly now =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): I am sorry Lacy that your boob size is causing you some issues, you aren't finished growing yet and if your breast size causes you back pain and you just can't find clothes to fit you can always get a surgical reduction.
As far as your boyfriend is concerned you haven't been dating him very long and he is being very disrespectful towards you by having his friends make fun of you and him pinching you etc.
What I would beg you to do is to ask yourself if this is the kind of guy you want to be around? Is he good enough for you or does he never look into your eyes are into your heart and always goes for your breasts.
He is an imbecile if it is the latter.
And I am sorry Sugar Bear but you are also an idiot.
Her big breasts and a pretty face and a college degree will not set her for life and it may open a few doors, but it won't help her make something of her life. She isn't lucky to have big breasts to use them to control men.
She is lucky if she can learn who she really is and she can be her authentic self and find her own purpose in life and not make her life about how to be manipulitive enough to gain what she wants from men.
I can tell that has been your life's calling, but why should it be hers?
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reader, SugarBear +, writes (28 October 2009):
 You may grow taller and hopefully gain some more weight very soon. . Your body will change a lot in the next 5 years or so.. You must find a good bra or two at a time... If its hurting your back you may need a doctor to suggest something. But really you blessed, boobs will open many many doors for you in your life time and if you have apretty face and get a college degree you will be set... I have a big D cup and trust me it works in your favor without having to be cheap or a slut in any way. So be classy and feel lucky..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): There isn't anything you can do about your breasts going bigger, i actually had the same problem last month. Im 16 as well and i found out i was an F, i was not very happy but i n stopped thinking about them i realised i didn't mind them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): Hi Lacey,I had the same problem and was embarassed when I was your age. I was teased all the time and would cry about it. I would suggest wearing clothes that do not enhance them , you can have your mom or a friend help you. As you get older you will become more comfortable and like your body. I did not get a reduction, just stayed fit. If I gained weight, I gained there as well. Regarding the boyfriend , he is totally inapropriate and drawing more attention to you. Could you dump him for now and focus on your studies?I hope you can talk to your mom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe thing is, i haveeee an hourglass body shape.. its just my waist is real small so its like this little waist & then BAM! boobs! it makes finding tops such a bxtch! haha and it looks weiiirdddd to mee because im short. i guess i jus gotta wait and see what happens in the next few years tho. thanks all! :)
lovee, Laceyyy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): I went through the exact same thing myself when I was your age.
Unfortunately there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop your breasts from growing. You may want to check with your doctor to see if there are any hormonal issues that may be contributing to this.
In the end, I waited until I was 20 and had a breast reduction. It has been 10 years, and it was the best decision I have ever made. Plus, compared to my friends, my boobs are super perky:)
Hang in there, you're still young and the rest of your body may catch up and make you a bit more proportioned. You'll still be fit, just curvy - which as you get older you will realize guys love even more ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): i understand where you are comming from... finding clothes, feeling comfortable enough to wear a bathing suit... But, the only thing you can do is wait until your old enough to have a reduction.
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reader, curse286 +, writes (27 October 2009):
hello the only thing i would do is wait til you are old enough to get reduction sugery.the boys look at you because they CANT stop looking at any pair of breast. you are probably not alone.explaine to your bf that if he keeps it up u might leave.
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