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Why do people have wierd fetishes? How do they get started?

Q.   Hi i would like to know about fetishes, how they begin etc. I have a balloon fetish which I know is not unknown, but i dont seem to be able to find out why how etc. Any advise please...

A.   7 September 2007: What do you mean by a balloon fetish? I dont exactly undertand...a little more info please?!... (read in full...)

How can I up my libido?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 4 years, when my boyfriend and I have sex, he is in the mood so much more then I am. He does not like to forplay and but likes to go right to it. I cant get hot going right to it. so most of the time im just laying ...

A.   18 August 2007: First of all...I TOTTALY UNDERSTAND!!!! I am in your position also!!!!!!!!! ITS CRAZY..you said it perfectly! My bf likes foreplay but still...when he actually puts his dick in it just doesnt have much feeling ya know!? I understand...its like my ... (read in full...)

Do I take a chance and get back with my ex?

Q.   Help! I think I want to get back with partner and I know he definitely wants to make another go of it with me. We were together for 4 years and split in February though have kept in touch a few times by text. He's a really nice, honourable guy and ...

A.   18 August 2007: I think you should try it with him and see how it feels. I DO think you will get these feelings back asap once you are with him. HOWEVER...you two need to deal and decide what you are going to do about why you actually broke up in the first place? ... (read in full...)

I love her, but I keep pushing her away!

Q.   I have loved this girl for 2 years now an i know for sure she feels the same for me as she told me last year how she has feelings for me. I very stupidly said i liked her but wasn't interested in a relationship along with other excuses why i ...

A.   18 August 2007: If you like or care about her...what the hell!? You need to let yourself go...especially if she likes you! Why would you not try and open yourself up...I think if you want to...allow yourself to go further with her...and maybe this might help you ... (read in full...)

Does the 72 hour pill go on my record?

Q.   will the 72 hour pill go on my doctors record? really worried, just had sex and was unprotected :S i no it was stupid of me..but i wanna get the 72 hour pill but my mum doesnt know ive lost my virginity? any ideas???? please help x...

A.   18 August 2007: NO it does not go on any record that your mom can get! I KNOW...I was once in your situation! ... (read in full...)

I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?

Q.   I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?...

A.   18 August 2007: Here is the best advice I can give. Jack off a couple of times during the day...and that might help you go longer during sex. ALSO jack off more...start working on like 6 times a day. I know a guy that did it! ... (read in full...)

I'm on birth control but there was about two days in a row that I didn't take it. Could I get pregnant on those days I didn't take it?

Q.   I'm on birth control but there was about two days in a row that I didn't take it. Could I get pregnant on those days I didn't take it and what is the likelihood that I can get pregnant on the pill. I'm always hearing stories about how women got ...

A.   18 August 2007: OMG YES!!!!!!! USE PLAN B OR DONT HAVE SEX OR USE PROTECTION!... (read in full...)

Am I the only one who thinks that not having sex a lot isn't a problem?

Q.   Hi I've been in a great relationship for 10 months now. At first the sex was great and very frequent, we have since moved in together and it has dropped to once or twice a month. For me it isn't really a problem because we have a strong loving r...

A.   18 August 2007: let me tell you...even if its fine with you...and I understand that (i really do)...it isint with him. So...to keep him happy and in that loving relationship you have to give it up more than that hun! Look at it like this...men need and would ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep bleeding like this?

Q.   I keep on bleeding each time my boyfriend pokes me.I thought it would be my hymen breaking, but does blood come out every time after that? It's pretty embarassing... but I need help!...

A.   18 August 2007: You might have hpv...a very VERY common std. A symptom is bleeding during intercourse. Some and most forms of hpv are symptomless but you never know! I would get it checked TRUST ME!! I know from exsperience...I have only had sex with 1 man and I ... (read in full...)

Do you think, she will think i don't care?

Q.   I am really fond of a girl I work with and she has admitted that she really likes me. However, she is involved with the father of her child. They have been engaged before and she told me that she is with him because she believes that a family s...

A.   18 August 2007: OKAY...yes it is important for a child to have a father figure.....that doent mean it has to be a biological father. What you need to do is get her out with you...let her know what it feel like to be treated right!!! I see this so much where I ... (read in full...)

My 11 year old daughter is looking at porn on the internet.

Q.   I found out my 11 year old daughter looks at porn on the internet. She doesn't know I know yet. Should I say something to her? If so, what? And should I tell my wife first?...

A.   18 August 2007: OKAY...I am going to be honest. When I was 11/12ish....I discovered porn on the internet. I didnt look at it to get horney...that came at a later age...but she is just curious. I was amazed at how big some dicks were and stuff like that. Me and my ... (read in full...)

He cheated on me, but should I give him another chance?

Q.   Hi, I recently found out that my boyfriend of 3 months has cheated on me with his ex partner. He says it was only once, but I'm not sure. He could be telling the truth as we had a row and then he spent a few nights elsewhere with ex. He says hes...

A.   18 August 2007: Honey...once a cheater always a cheater! I swear to you...i have seen it over and over again! Dont believe them...I know and totally understand, they say things that make you believe them 100%! You can live w/o him...he obviously still loves his ex. ... (read in full...)

The problem is his daughter -she is 30 years old and only calls us when she wants something - usually money but some kind of favor.

Q.   My husband and I have been married 9 years. We each have 2 grown children. The problem is his daughter -she is 30 years old and only calls us when she wants something - usually money but some kind of favor. He can't say no to her. Not only is ...

A.   18 August 2007: I dont understand why you feel as if this is destroying your mariage? I think if you have been married happily for so long then this should not matter. This is very insignificant to your marriage and family. It is his daughter...and think of ... (read in full...)

My 16 year old daughter is dating a 48 year old man!

Q.   This problem worries me A LOT and I really need your help, so please help! Apologies for the length... sorry! I'm a mother of two, been married to my husband for 20 years - my son's 19 and in university (living away from home), my daughter's 1...

A.   18 August 2007: Ok first of all...I can honestly say you are taking this situation MUCH TOO LIGHTLY!!! Do you realize how sick and illegal this is!? He is a OLD MAN compared to your 16 year old young and vibrant daughter! I cannot even believe you have "met with" ... (read in full...)

He gave me an STD.

Q.   I was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years and after high school we got an apartment together and went to college. Living with him was alright... we fought at times, loved at others, but there was a lot of stress in our life because of college and work ...

A.   15 August 2007: He has told me that he has not cheated on me. At first...when my mom pretty much brain washed me into thinking that he was cheating on me...i thought that he was. I didnt talk to him for a little over a month and I called him and asked him if i ... (read in full...)

I've never been able to cum and no matter what I try different and how hard I try to cum I just can't.

Q.   Hi, I am an 18 year old female and I've only been with 3 guys sexually but have had sex with those 3 guys a lot but I've never been able to cum and no matter what I try different and how hard I try to cum I just can't. Is somthing wrong with me? ...

A.   14 August 2007: I am 19 and I have been with 1 guy and i was never able to come when we had sex viganially. I did however teach him how to rub me down there and he was able to make me come that way. ... (read in full...)

We have sex 3 times a week... how many times is it therefore normal for him to please himself?

Q.   Can someone please tell me what would be "reasonable" and "normal" number, for a guy in a relationship (have sex about 3 times weekly or even more when schedules are not so busy) to mastrubate? Lets say we have great sex three times a week. What ...

A.   14 August 2007: well my bf and I have sex probably twice a week and he masterbated himself prolly 2 times a day...and he still does himself on days we do have sex.... (read in full...)

How can women want to touch someone with a small penis?

Q.   Is it wierd to go from wee-man to Andre the Giant I have a serious problem, Im not a virgin but See i fear sleeping with women alot cause i have a terrible fear of being seen....well... soft. I have a very tiny thingthang when im soft ...

A.   14 August 2007: I AM GOING TO BE TOTALLY HONEST...girls usually dont care about that! I know that my ex bf dick was small when he wasent hard...and when he got hard...which was quick and easy..it got a lot bigger! It never even phased me! If u want a tip...let her ... (read in full...)

Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!

Q.   Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!...

A.   14 August 2007: I didnt bleed my first time. I think you would proabably bleed if he went hard on you..but I know my bf went really slow and as gently as possible for awhile when we first starting having sex. So maybe he was gentle...or u just simply didnt bleed. ... (read in full...)

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